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Blackpill The thing "Power of friendship" tries to avoid talking about

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This is a very cliched trope used in anime and video games that only people who never had friends would believe in.

But have you noticed they always present this false dichotomy that either you have friends or you don't?

The good guy has friends. The villains don't. That's why the good guy wins.

In real life, villains tend to have a lot of friends. Otherwise they wouldn't become do powerful in the first place.

But more importantly they never discuss this issue about friends: they are temporary and won't last forever.

That's the real blackpill people don't want to talk about. That you could have a friend that you've known all through life from kindergarten to college. But as soon as he gets married, suddenly he's no longer your bro. Suddenly his wifes and family have a far bigger priority over you.

This is a problem that ironically hurts normies etc more than us. After all most of us never had many friends anyway. But for them, imagine having a gang of bros you can always depend on and share your secrets. Then when you get older and everyone moves away to pursue their own path, you realize you never had that many good friends and they were only there coz you guys attended the same school or lived in the same neighbourhood.

And before you say, why can't I get new friend? Be fucking realistic please. It took years to develop a good bond with your "friends" during adolescence. How the fuck can you bond as well with people you don't know well and never knew then during their youth. Can you really be friends when you barely know each other's true history?

No wonder people get more depressed when they get older. Power of friendship can't even last more than 15 years lol.

In fiction they keep talking about having blood brothers or something. You know why they do it? Coz blood brothers almost never exist. Even if you did have one, he would betray you easily for a Stacey.
 
“Friendship” is bullshit, it’s only people who are near each other with similar interests. As soon as those interests fade, that relationship is gone
 
idk what you are talking about
 
“Friendship” is bullshit, it’s only people who are near each other with similar interests. As soon as those interests fade, that relationship is gone
True. Even Chad's friends are just normies using him as some status booster, maybe to get into parties that he's invited to, or to live vicariously through Chad's experiences
 
“Friendship” is bullshit, it’s only people who are near each other with similar interests. As soon as those interests fade, that relationship is gone
Normies refuse to touch this
 
“Friendship” is bullshit, it’s only people who are near each other with similar interests. As soon as those interests fade, that relationship is gone

pretty much. plus you don't choose your friends you're assigned someone near your psoition in the social hierarchy
 
I agree with you, friendships are temporary and eventually people will naturally diverge as they go down different paths in life. This has been the way it has been all of my life. When I moved schools when I was 9 I eventually stopped talking to the friends at my old school, simply because I was around them less and less. The same thing happened to the friends I made at my old school when I went to highschool. After the first two or so years of highschool I talked to the friends I had made in the first year simply because I couldn't relate to them as much anymore. You get where this is going. Fast forward to today I only have a single friend.
The point is if I met any of these people today we wouldn't become friends again. I would still be friendly with them but it's simply due to the diverging paths of life. When you are in school you are still developing your interests and personality, so you are somewhat similar to at least a few people around you. However when you become an adult and you consciously set yourself on a path you will only want to be around people who share your goals or at least have a similar mindset.
 

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