Pretty based.
But what I see is that foids like to act men don't have duties in a religious patriarchy (literally 'the rule of fathers'). That is obviously not the case.
In patriarchal societies the patriarch of a family (often a grandfather) and his wife basically rule the family. Families are divided in a male sphere and a female sphere headed respectively by the patriarch and the matriarch. As a young man it's not like you are guaranteed a wife and a happy life, men are socially coerced to perform well in school and work, make the family proud and not be a degenerate.
Gays and lesbians would be relegated to monasteries, or would marry each other and LARP as a conventional couple while living a clandestine life as a gay or lesbian. There is a long tradition of highly discrete gay life, that was tolerated by authorities as long as it stayed hidden. Asexuals would marry a gay or lesbian and have a LARP marriage. Advantage of this arrangement is it guarantees offspring so high IQ, genius gays still get children, families preserve social and cultural capital within stable family units based on common genetic interest (bloodbond). Not loose, fragile, optional postmodern living arrangements called 'families'.
What you lose in terms of personal liberty is exchanged for a tight knit community throughout your whole life. No putting elderly in care homes, less atomization, less alienation. Overall less people fall through the cracks - less government oversight is needed. Less taxation. Less regulation. It ensures that children in all classes in society enjoy the middle class 'growing up in an intact family' privilege.
The transactional nature of relationships in neoliberal life is completely done away with under religious patriarchy, everything is long term, everything is deeply meaningful, everything is deeply consequential. The point is that in a non liberal society, your role as an individual is subjected to your role as a son, brother, husband and father. It's unironically a less selfish society.