Goes either way, really. I had a several-month period at 19 where my libido almost disappeared and I'd have to "remind" myself to jack off every week, with my mind drifting during the process. For once, I didn't have any acute feelings of sexual frustration, but I still recall it as the worst time of my life. With sexual desire goes vitality in general. If you're a youngcel, you likely won't be able to control your libido in isolation; if it wanes, it'll probably be a symptom of a larger malaise.
Conversely, I just got blueballed last week and that was miserable too. For several days, I was hard all day and had to masturabte at least 3x per day to keep control of my head. Desire, when all-consuming, is just about impossible to live with.
A matter of balance. Just try to ignore the foids you see in public. Do not register their presence.