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We all desire a meaningful relationship or at least A relationship with some amounts of mutual attraction
The problem with getting angry or sad about rejection is thinking attraction and romantic relationships are like an entrance exam or a job interview and once you get an initial "yes" you've won and guaranteed something, but it's not at all like that, the initial "yes" is completely worthless and only useful if used as an indication of long-term and general overall interest
"Getting a date", "Winning her over" are logically flawed statements, an actual relationship is past the point of all bullshit and the slightest bit of real dislike means there's not a relationship at all
If you want someone and they don't want you and you get sad/angry in response, then you don't really like and respect them because you don't like and respect the part of them that doesn't want you
Attraction or even just general interest can't be negotiated, "logic" won't make anyone like anyone, you either like someone or you don't, it's extremely binary, COMPLETELY forget about anyone who doesn't fuck with you
You never actually get "rejected" by anyone, there was never even a theoretical relationship with you and that person, only with an image of who you thought they are
And if you want just materialistic one-sided sex, pay for it, either with good looks or large amounts of money, because you yourself are viewing sex as currency, in a real relationship there can be no room for any argument about whether the other person even likes you in the first place
The problem with getting angry or sad about rejection is thinking attraction and romantic relationships are like an entrance exam or a job interview and once you get an initial "yes" you've won and guaranteed something, but it's not at all like that, the initial "yes" is completely worthless and only useful if used as an indication of long-term and general overall interest
"Getting a date", "Winning her over" are logically flawed statements, an actual relationship is past the point of all bullshit and the slightest bit of real dislike means there's not a relationship at all
If you want someone and they don't want you and you get sad/angry in response, then you don't really like and respect them because you don't like and respect the part of them that doesn't want you
Attraction or even just general interest can't be negotiated, "logic" won't make anyone like anyone, you either like someone or you don't, it's extremely binary, COMPLETELY forget about anyone who doesn't fuck with you
You never actually get "rejected" by anyone, there was never even a theoretical relationship with you and that person, only with an image of who you thought they are
And if you want just materialistic one-sided sex, pay for it, either with good looks or large amounts of money, because you yourself are viewing sex as currency, in a real relationship there can be no room for any argument about whether the other person even likes you in the first place
