Toxic Femininity The quintessential single mother

[Neurotic]

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"I just discovered all this. She barely tried to hide it. That's how much she knew I trusted her. I just happened to stumble across it by accident.

I work my ass off hundreds of mile away from my family for weeks on end so I could save up the money to afford the home I'm currently buying us! I do it to support her, my love (but not hers apparently). I do it support to my 2 year old son. I do it to support our baby on the way. I do it to support her other kids! I provide nearly all the food (when her baby daddy's could be bothered to support her and their kids) I provided all the money for bills and our apartment, our vehicle, our RV for family trips. I accepted her mental illness and made it work. I accepted her as she is, flawed or not. I truly believed we were a team working together to make a better life for ourselves and the kids. Our sex life was great. We would experiment and try so many things together, it was never dull. Looking back I did Everything! All I wanted in return was a happy loving family. I just wanted a family. 6 God damn years down the drain.

I don't understand why I wasn't enough. I don't understand why she did all this.

But that wasn't good enough for her! No, She had to sext, send nudes, send videos of herself masturbating and speak of fantasies about them/with them. She fucked them multiple times while I was in town and away.

Travis (Baby Daddy / physical abuser): Sending nudes and masturbation videos back and forth. Most recently on Dec 9, 2021 while I was home with her! She calls him daddy and says sweet shit like I love you to him.

Adam (Baby Daddy / Con/ Former junkie /physical abuser): Sent pictures of her tits on 11Feb2022 when she was on a date with me at some fancy Italian restaurant.

Patrick (Rando from Facebook): she doesn't even know him but flirts with him on messenger. She sent him her snapshot so she could send him other stuff and hide it better.

Chris (Rando from Facebook): this past Sunday their sexting about eating whip cream off her tits. Apparently she's been out there to fuck him multiple times. He's always asking her to come out and play.

Jake (Old Fling / Apparently a FWB): He's been around for years and I expressed my concerns but apparently it was just platonic. For who knows how many months she's been going to his place, his mom's place, where ever after getting off work to fuck him. Also, whenever she can get the kids a baby sitter. Sending videos back and forth. Sexting fantasies then playing them out in real fucking life behind my back!

I want her to fucking hurt. I want her to feel as shitty as I feel. I loved her, I provided for her, and she betrayed me. I don't want to hold anything back.

I have her phone (my phone and data actually). I changed the passwords to her Facebook and other accounts. I have tons of pictures of what she's done.

I'm thinking about posting it on Facebook for everyone to see. I want them to see what she's done and how's she's hurt me. For so long she's made me think I was crazy and paranoid. She made sure everyone else thought that too. But I was fucking right! I should've trusted my gut. If it comes from her phone they cant prove it was me? At some point I'll need to have the court involved to determine custody.

I want to use her account post this to the guy's Facebook as well. They have families. They have girlfriends and partners etc.

I'm doing everything in my power to not explode and do something I'll regret. I want my son. I want to get this mess behind me and come out of it with my son. I want her to burn. I don't know how to do it smartly though.

I'm angry, holding back tears, fucking raging, I'm hurt. I'm all over the place right now. I had to get out of the house before I did something.

I've never been violent to anyone in my life before. She has. She will scream and cry and kick and fight and twist the truth on me. I feel if I go back things will get fucking ugly real fast.

How do I play it smart enough to keep my son in my life but at the same time make her pay for what she did. I don't have much money because currently because it's tied up in the house. It'll be mine in early march. I did just get a 13% promotion for busting my ass at work. This puts at just over 100k. Even if I don't have much cash on hand my credit is good and my DTI is low. I'll spend whatever I need to.

Please help me. I don't have anyone to call or talk to. I don't know what to do.

UPDATE: She blowing up my phone. Nothing but foul things. She trying to make it my fault. Even with all the pictures and proof she's denying everything."

 

[Incelius Savage]

I hate my cunt mother for giving me a shitty upbringing. Didn’t even collect child support off my father.

 

[Emba]

What did he expect?

Cray single mom "abused"

Enough red flags to make a circus tent!

Don't stick your dick in crazy,
Unless there's a condom on it!

 

[runforrest]

Foids who claim to be an abuse survivor are the biggest red flags of all, especially if you still see them post slutty half-naked photos on instagram with liberal feminist captions. It will always be the men's faults and not theirs.

They are usually also the ones who claim to be bisexual/LGBT for attention but you know that they only date masculine men, while also complain about them. I've seen this many times before.

Never consider mentally ill abuse-survivor women for dating at all cost. They have gone numb and are the most incapable of pair-bonding.

 

[Neurotic]

Foids who claim to be an abuse survivor are the biggest red flags of all, especially if you still see them post slutty half-naked photos on instagram with liberal feminist captions. It will always be the men's faults and not theirs.

They are usually also the ones who claim to be bisexual/LGBT for attention but you know that they only date masculine men, while also complain about them. I've seen this many times before.

Never consider mentally ill abuse-survivor women for dating at all cost. They have gone numb and are the most incapable of pair-bonding.

Literal Einstein IQ.