Blackpill The overuse of the word "narcissist" is laughable

[Nordicel94]

In the past ten years or so, everyone's calling anyone they've had a falling out with a narcissist. Especially women of course. They get dumped by a low-inhib Chadlite with high self confidence and she'll be telling stories about that guy as her "narcissist ex" on TikTok for a decade to come.

What happened to "my ex was a jerk"?

Real, diagnosable narcissism is not common enough for every single female on earth to have a story about how her ex was such a narcissist, it's a clinical personality disorder, not a normal personality trait.

And this obviously goes for "psycopath" too, an even more rare personality disorder, yet women all seem to have experiences with them.

It's a sign of a fall of society when words lose their real meaning. If a word starts to mean anything, it means nothing. Similar to how Elon Musk is now being called an "incel".

What's also funny is how all these women who care about personality so much all seem to date narcissist...it's almost as if...

 

[Grodd]

Foids wanna act like they are intellectual i guarantee most of them have no idea what narcissist means

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Foids wanna act like they are intellectual i guarantee most of them have no idea what narcissist means

Their intellect is comparable to that of a child.

 

[Grodd]

Their intellect is comparable to that of a child.

Honestly

 

[NIKOCADO AVOCADO]

Their intellect is comparable to that of a child.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

About 1.5-2% of population has some sort of a cluster B disorder. I agree that often times the word gets thrown out when it doesn't reflect reality, but sometimes it can definitely be true.

Sometimes people clump up people with other personality disorders and claim them to be narcissists, because oftentimes people with different cluster B syndromes can act in ways that resemble narcissism. Cluster B is more like a spectrum. For example how many people could make a clear distinction between narcissism and BPD, or narcissism and psychopathy? The disorders resemble each other in the fact that these people act in extremely selfish ways and even other traits overlap.

 

[BricABrac]

A lot of woman project their own inability to accept responsibility onto others. So, he's a narcissist, he's sick he really can't help it (just like I couldn't).

Framing it that way also makes themselves feel extra brave and empowered, look I escaped from a narcissist, from a psychopath!

The triumph of therapy and psychology in general is also much to blame. People have to baptize their normal everyday diction in the powerful words of the shaman. Not too different from people throwing bible quotes at you.

 

[Nordicel94]

About 1.5-2% of population has some sort of a cluster B disorder. I agree that often times the word gets thrown out when it doesn't reflect reality, but sometimes it can definitely be true.

Sometimes people clump up people with other personality disorders and claim them to be narcissists, because oftentimes people with different cluster B syndromes can act in ways that resemble narcissism. Cluster B is more like a spectrum. For example how many people could make a clear distinction between narcissism and BPD, or narcissism and psychopathy? The disorders resemble each other in the fact that these people act in extremely selfish ways and even other traits overlap.

True, but the key fact is that these women will use "narcissist" as a smear campaign after the relationship is over. 90% of the time they mean "selfish" or "arrogant", not a clinical personality disorder. Girls in who've had a 3 year relationship will not have year 2 said: "he's a bit of a narcissist but I love him" she'll have said: "he's very cocky but I love him". When that relationship breaks down, that's when she brings out the big guns and diagnoses him to her friends and all of her followers on TikTok.

There's an eagerness to pathologize all generally negative personality traits as a personality disorder.

 

[Nordicel94]

Framing it that way also makes themselves feel extra brave and empowered, look I escaped from a narcissist, from a psychopath!

This is very key. The escape narrative. A common cope for women after a relationship breaks down. Even if both sides were equally shitty and the relationship failed, she will always want to be applauded as being a hero for getting out of the relationship alive.

Sure men are guilty of a similar thing, they'll say their ex was "psycho" even though they were both to blame. The difference is that men don't actually imply that their ex had a mental illness, but was overly emotional and erratic, and they don't try to get any brownie points for escaping the relationship either.

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

About 1.5-2% of population has some sort of a cluster B disorder. I agree that often times the word gets thrown out when it doesn't reflect reality, but sometimes it can definitely be true.

Sometimes people clump up people with other personality disorders and claim them to be narcissists, because oftentimes people with different cluster B syndromes can act in ways that resemble narcissism. Cluster B is more like a spectrum. For example how many people could make a clear distinction between narcissism and BPD, or narcissism and psychopathy? The disorders resemble each other in the fact that these people act in extremely selfish ways and even other traits overlap.

You, my man, are a smart one.

 

[Friezacel]

Most toilets fit the criteria for NPD. All they care about is themselves, they make everything about them and think they are the center of the world, they cant take a "no", are highly manipulative etc.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Foids wanna act like they are intellectual i guarantee most of them have no idea what narcissist means

Their intellect is comparable to that of a child.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Most toilets fit the criteria for NPD. All they care about is themselves, they make everything about them and think they are the center of the world, they cant take a "no", are highly manipulative etc.

 

[Stupid Clown]

women don't understand what words mean. They also misuse "gaslighting" and "empathy." Once they see other women using a word they'll start regurgitating it like parrots.

It's funny because women actually fall under most of these words they overuse. They gaslight far more than men. If another woman is questioning if she's overweight they'll tell her she's perfect the way she is. They constantly gaslight themselves into thinking they have body dysmorphia every time they make any attempt at losing weight; and ofc accusing their boyfriends of having narcissism is itself gaslighting.

Speaking of narcissism almost every woman has symptoms of it. Their entire lives are built around garnering social approval. I'm sure you've seen how long women spend in bathrooms doing makeup before going to a fucking Walmart. "empathy" which means being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes is not actually something most women are capable of. Look at their hilariously retarded attempts at understanding how men think and operate. They have a large in group bias and view men as an outgroup so they're naturally incapable of empathy towards men.

They think that empathy means "sympathy." However even taking into consideration sympathy women are less capable of it.