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Outcast444
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- May 27, 2020
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Hi, glad I've finally found a place like this - I'm an incel in my 40's (so hope not too old for here!) and am of
the view that you're basically an incel for life. The main thing that
changes is the sex drive goes down, and the need for a girlfriend decreases - however the social isolation and
negative suspicion of being the 'weird' single male increases, and one tends to be viewed more and more as a stray
dog - ie. ok to be friendly to for a few days/weeks, then people just want you to clear the fuck off, back to
whatever hole you dwell in.
Seems to me, that this type of shit really kicks in around age 25, when you've serioulsy become labelled the
stray, that no woman wants to hang out with - even if they think you're ok, as that is some kind of social suicide
for them. Then come the snide comments that maybe your'e gay or bi - and why not just go out and look for some
dick - like what the fuck is that about, yeah right, like a straight male is really gonna do that just because
they can't get a girl into bed! This is basically the righteous justification of the normal folk - kind of like
middle class liberal 'guilt'. No way, is one of those women gonna bed you, yet they still feel 'guilty' in a
kind of way as you seem ok personality wise - just maybe have sex with someone else, anyone else but them!
Physically wise, I'm a 'wristcell', have abnormally thin arms (and legs). In fact one of my nicknames at school
was 'Belsen', named after the WW2 concentration camp victims, due to their emaciated skeletal frames. Hell, even
some of the teachers used to call me that, unthinkable in today's PC culture! Still, that didn't bother me too
much at the time, yet I knew subconsiously that I'd never have success with women (perhaps other than drunken
fumbles or paid-for sex etc.)
Actually I'm 'normal' socially/mentally and always had a lot of male buddies in teenage years to early
twenties, and occasianally platonic women friends. However, the social ostracism begun around age 23 or so due to
lack of success with women. Always the sad loser at parties, going around looking for alchohol dregs alone whilst
virtually everyone else was making out somewhere - why me? What the F did I ever do wrong? That was my thought
process - and back in those days was just told to 'deal with it' or 'try harder' etc.. all the cliches. Anyway,
since hiting thirty I've lived mainly in South East Asia and just made up for lack of sex life by paying for
prostitutes 2 or 3 times a week. Guess that makes me an 'escortcell' these days - hell, I'm fine with that, but
can never make up for lack of real girlfriend and social inclusion that I missed in my 20's through not quite
making the bar of physicalattractiveness to women - and boy that is one fuck of a lot of deprivation to deal with throughout one's life.
Anyway hope to be able to converse with some of you here soon - greetings, Outcast 444!
the view that you're basically an incel for life. The main thing that
changes is the sex drive goes down, and the need for a girlfriend decreases - however the social isolation and
negative suspicion of being the 'weird' single male increases, and one tends to be viewed more and more as a stray
dog - ie. ok to be friendly to for a few days/weeks, then people just want you to clear the fuck off, back to
whatever hole you dwell in.
Seems to me, that this type of shit really kicks in around age 25, when you've serioulsy become labelled the
stray, that no woman wants to hang out with - even if they think you're ok, as that is some kind of social suicide
for them. Then come the snide comments that maybe your'e gay or bi - and why not just go out and look for some
dick - like what the fuck is that about, yeah right, like a straight male is really gonna do that just because
they can't get a girl into bed! This is basically the righteous justification of the normal folk - kind of like
middle class liberal 'guilt'. No way, is one of those women gonna bed you, yet they still feel 'guilty' in a
kind of way as you seem ok personality wise - just maybe have sex with someone else, anyone else but them!
Physically wise, I'm a 'wristcell', have abnormally thin arms (and legs). In fact one of my nicknames at school
was 'Belsen', named after the WW2 concentration camp victims, due to their emaciated skeletal frames. Hell, even
some of the teachers used to call me that, unthinkable in today's PC culture! Still, that didn't bother me too
much at the time, yet I knew subconsiously that I'd never have success with women (perhaps other than drunken
fumbles or paid-for sex etc.)
Actually I'm 'normal' socially/mentally and always had a lot of male buddies in teenage years to early
twenties, and occasianally platonic women friends. However, the social ostracism begun around age 23 or so due to
lack of success with women. Always the sad loser at parties, going around looking for alchohol dregs alone whilst
virtually everyone else was making out somewhere - why me? What the F did I ever do wrong? That was my thought
process - and back in those days was just told to 'deal with it' or 'try harder' etc.. all the cliches. Anyway,
since hiting thirty I've lived mainly in South East Asia and just made up for lack of sex life by paying for
prostitutes 2 or 3 times a week. Guess that makes me an 'escortcell' these days - hell, I'm fine with that, but
can never make up for lack of real girlfriend and social inclusion that I missed in my 20's through not quite
making the bar of physicalattractiveness to women - and boy that is one fuck of a lot of deprivation to deal with throughout one's life.
Anyway hope to be able to converse with some of you here soon - greetings, Outcast 444!