Venting The obsession with self help

[LostSoulUK]

Why is it so fuckin frowned upon to 'just be' in life, why does society love to dictate what we should or shouldn't do?. All we hear is "oh you need to help yourself, oh you need to sort yourself out, you only get 1 life, there's people terminally ill an worse off".

Like that somehow invalidates the suffering we go through, people dying of cancer or in poverty doesn't somehow magically resolve decades of anxiety an depression. It doesn't resolve our endless quest for love an belonging.

But this dictatorship of society will sure as shit make you believe you're in the wrong for suffering an not having you're shit together. It's almost considered a crime to stay in on the weekend or be a recluse in general. Like who the fuck wants to be out pissed in some shithole nightclub in the freezing cold, surrounded by obnoxious youngsters. Normies don't have a fuckin clue what its like to suffer endlessly through mental health an loneliness.

This clown world judges what it doesn't understand, fuck this life .

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

they think therapy works because they've never had any problems in their lives

 

[LostSoulUK]

they think therapy works because they've never had any problems in their lives

yep like we haven't already tried that already or the pills we've been fed for years that do nothin but plaster an open wound. Yet we're constantly judged for doin nothin with our lives. They missing the point that this life is fuckin pointless, the argument is always

"oh u only get 1 life so u need to live it to the full!"
Like skydiving will somehow magically erase a lifetime of dejection and failure .

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

yep like we haven't already tried that already or the pills we've been fed for years that do nothin but plaster an open wound. Yet we're constantly judged for doin nothin with our lives. They missing the point that this life is fuckin pointless, the argument is always

"oh u only get 1 life so u need to live it to the full!"
Like skydiving will somehow magically erase a lifetime of dejection and failure .

 

[PolskiKartofel]

They are claiming we need help, but they can't accept fact which we're telling them that no one (almost always literally) don't want to help us, only "professionals" who are taking much money.

they think therapy works because they've never had any problems in their lives

Like this, they never attended muh therapy or attended, but like one, two months, but no 5-6 years like me and still little or no results. It can't make people accept me, they make very superficial judgements and they don't want to see us again in their lives. We are only some background elements.

yep like we haven't already tried that already or the pills we've been fed for years that do nothin but plaster an open wound. Yet we're constantly judged for doin nothin with our lives. They missing the point that this life is fuckin pointless, the argument is always

"oh u only get 1 life so u need to live it to the full!"
Like skydiving will somehow magically erase a lifetime of dejection and failure .

Everything here is true. They never been in our situation where no one talks to us, no one invites us and if they try to talk they get nothing back. They would kill themselves after one two months of our Ives.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Just say the same to them when they're venting and watch them rage

 

[light]

the mental health complex exists to make sure that nobody deviates from what is deemed to be the socially acceptable set of beliefs aka accepting your place at the bottom and not making a fuss about it. thats why jewpills make you passive and kill your libido because men without libido arent angry and less likely to act up

Just say the same to them when they're venting and watch them rage

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

Just say the same to them when they're venting and watch them rage

good idea, will do

 

[LostSoulUK]

@PolskiKartofel ye they couldn't walk in our shoes. A lifetime of complete dejection, never fit in anywhere, no sense of belonging. Ever since school I was always very withdrawn, always the quiet 1 an it spiralled from there. Nothing but despair and depression for most of my life. Nothing but rejection and hostile treatment from those around me.

@Stupid Clown Its interesting when u call them out for their ignorance an contempt they don't like it, because they perceive themselves to be above those who suffer in life. Normies are fuckin parasites that leech off each others validation.

The looks I got off them simply for being present at work was often 1 of disgust. Judt because I'm shy an introverted an short with a big nose. An yet I have more heart an understanding than any of those judgmental pricks .

 

[PolskiKartofel]

@PolskiKartofel ye they couldn't walk in our shoes. A lifetime of complete dejection, never fit in anywhere, no sense of belonging. Ever since school I was always very withdrawn, always the quiet 1 an it spiralled from there. Nothing but despair and depression for most of my life. Nothing but rejection and hostile treatment from those around me.

Very relatable, no one bothers to even ask us how our lives are going. Everyone talks with each other, every group interacts with each other, but lone people are their main, but "hidden" enemy. I've never had "voluntary" from anyone attemp of any friendship or relationship. I needed to do everything and everything has failed so far. I can sometimes try, but it's still very unlikely to be successful.

Being autistic ugly male is just spectator mode, there is no way to interact or get interactions.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

people are annoying busybodies

 

[BlackLowLtn]

in poverty

Funny how my life situation is used as a common example of "well things can be worse" but I'd probably get the same shit thrown at me anyways. People just love pandering, in the end all they really want you to do is shut up about your problems because it's disturbing their pretty good life.

 

[Pancakecel]

No self help for your face, race, height

 

[BSGMANLET]

To bad soyciety wants men to pullup there bootstraps and have no emotion

And then wonder why some men go ER

There's only so much a man can take

 

[LostSoulUK]

Very relatable, no one bothers to even ask us how our lives are going. Everyone talks with each other, every group interacts with each other, but lone people are their main, but "hidden" enemy. I've never had "voluntary" from anyone attemp of any friendship or relationship. I needed to do everything and everything has failed so far. I can sometimes try, but it's still very unlikely to be successful.

Being autistic ugly male is just spectator mode, there is no way to interact or get interactions.

Same, I'm perceived as autistic because of how shy an awkward I am, I may have asperger's as my characteristics are borderline autistic although ive never been formally diagnosed. This society judges so much man, ive always suffered with anxiety an depression everyday is hard mode in this game called life but normie pricks will never appreciate that.

Funny how my life situation is used as a common example of "well things can be worse" but I'd probably get the same shit thrown at me anyways. People just love pandering, in the end all they really want you to do is shut up about your problems because it's disturbing their pretty good life.

Toxic positivity is what it is, the same reason that social media is a platform for showboating.

I fuckin hate it when they say others have it worse, its missing the point that suffering is all relative, kids starvin in africa doesn't invalidate a lifetime of mental health and loneliness.

 

[Stupid Clown]

@PolskiKartofel ye they couldn't walk in our shoes. A lifetime of complete dejection, never fit in anywhere, no sense of belonging. Ever since school I was always very withdrawn, always the quiet 1 an it spiralled from there. Nothing but despair and depression for most of my life. Nothing but rejection and hostile treatment from those around me.

@Stupid Clown Its interesting when u call them out for their ignorance an contempt they don't like it, because they perceive themselves to be above those who suffer in life. Normies are fuckin parasites that leech off each others validation.

The looks I got off them simply for being present at work was often 1 of disgust. Judt because I'm shy an introverted an short with a big nose. An yet I have more heart an understanding than any of those judgmental pricks .

Errr sorry inkwell. They could sense your bad personality just by looking at you