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The NEET boredom

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The fuck am I supposed to do all day besides rot in bed? If I go out into town at 1pm or whatever it's dead and the only people about are old people, no hot foids to enjoy seeing, people in my town will know I'm unemployed if they see me just walking around at 1pm on a Monday

This shit is fucking ass this is why I spend all day sleeping and don't wake up till 3 or 4

I lowkey wish I could get a job but I'm autistic, have ADHD and a panic attack disorder so bad it's turned me into an alcoholic, so many people wish they didn't work without realising how much it actually fucking sucks, the boredom and the embarrassment is next fucking level
 
daydreamingmaxxing, If you immerse yourself in this, you can have a pleasant time by imagining yourself in funny, charismatic, etc. events. I have been doing it for a few years and I do not get bored.
 
If I go out into town at 1pm or whatever it's dead and the only people about are old people, no hot foids to enjoy seeing, people in my town will know I'm unemployed if they see me just walking around at 1pm on a Monday
go outside when it's 5 PM and later
 
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I'm grateful for all the free time i have, i had some jobs and it's not worth it.
 
I just engage in escapism and some philosophy.
 
Water but lack of money is the worst part of NEETdom. Many decent copes cost so much you must maintain a job. Many NEETs fantasize about various side hustles but they're all chad only, definitely not for social outcasts.

For me seeing hot foids is suifuel. NEETing would be nice if I could afford an old BMW in good condition for few thousand bucks, better PC, furniture and good outdoor gear.
 
What do I do whilst I wait tho, normally I just sleep but my panic attacks are too bad now
play games, watch movies/videos, read something. Obviously having even small group of friends to hang out with in real life would be much better.
 
lack of money is the worst part of NEETdom. Many decent copes cost so much you must maintain a job. Many NEETs fantasize about various side hustles but they're all chad only, definitely not for social outcasts.
yes, money would allow to get better copes
 
Same, there's nothing to do besides rotting in my bed all day and sometimes coping with vidya
 
there are some lucky neetcels from Norway and few other countries where they have good welfare
IM from a good country but the biggest problem with being neet is lack of future and growth. You turn into peter pan. Also basically sucking the government cock so they sprinkle some money your way and you hope they dont kick you off, and with the way europe is going further right i dont see neetbuxx lasting in our lifetime.
 
There's nothing you can do anymore at this point. You're supposed to be spending time with your wife and your many children at this age, and if they are missing it leaves you with a deep, unignorable emptiness that consumes your soul, whether you realize it or not. It's nature punishing us. Brutal. :feelsbadman:
 
Find something you're passionate about to work on, or work on a way to get rich. Or rot.
 
the biggest problem with being neet is lack of future and growth. You turn into peter pan.

This is a huge and underrated disadvantage of NEETdom. My mental health got better when I was fully NEET, but the constant worrying about the future was always there.

The longer you remain a NEET, the more difficult and painful it will be in the future to find work or to work.

Find something you're passionate about to work on, or work on a way to get rich. Or rot.
What is it that you’re passionate about?
 
Anything other than that?
I'd like to create something, write stories and screenplays, make music, make comedy videos. But I'm too lazy and depressed, and it's too late in my life to start trying.
 
I play games the whole day. Do whatever you feel like. No one was born with a rulebook in hand.
 
I'd like to create something, write stories and screenplays, make music, make comedy videos. But I'm too lazy and depressed, and it's too late in my life to start trying.
Do you actually have talent for those things? Or you'd just them for your own entertainment? I find them interesting and fun, especially music, but don't have much talent for them.

Do you play any instruments? I used to play the piano when I was younger, trying to play different classical pieces and it was such an amazing cope.
 
Do you actually have talent for those things? Or you'd just them for your own entertainment? I find them interesting and fun, especially music, but don't have much talent for them.

Do you play any instruments? I used to play the piano when I was younger, trying to play different classical pieces and it was such an amazing cope.
I have some rudimentary talent for writing and comedy, but I've never developed them in any way. I have no musical talent at all, but I enjoy writing lyrics (aka bad poetry), and I learnt the very basics of guitar a long time ago. I think I could have been successful at almost anything if I'd put in the effort, I'm naturally high IQ.

Only recently did I think about trying to make comedy content. Some hot foid I trolled on Instagram (on an anon account) said she loved receiving messages from me and I was the funniest guy in her DMs.

If you're young, you can do almost anything, if you're willing to put in the effort. And, if it's something you're passionate about, even if you fail, at least you tried and devoted your life to something you love. But I know it's hard being motivated when you're young, or envisaging life past 25. You feel like you have to accomplish everything now.

Also, if you have some musical talent, it's something you can use to attract girls. You could make a Youtube channel and maybe get some status from it.
 

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