The more a guy puts into a relationship, the faster he destroys it

[mylifeistrash]

The fact that he has to put anything into it in the first place means he's starting off from a losing position (non-chad). Anything you do is going to have diminishing returns, meaning you'll have to put in more effort / money to keep the girl interested.

The relationship is going to end up with a pissed off woman. It always does. And the guy will be like "WTF, I put so much into this".

Finally, women lose physical attraction much faster than men, they get bored faster. After a few months you'll lose any you had.

 

[Legionarivs]

High IQ

 

[TheSecondComing]

no ascension for ugly males.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Another thing you missed out is that when you as a guy have a good amount of money, if you're not spending it on the woman, she will feel "unloved" and that you don't think she is worth it, so she will get resentful to the man.

So if you earn $200,000/year, but you spend money on your girlfriend/wife, as if you only earn $50,000/year (because you're financially savvy and not a spender), she will say that you don't love her, you don't think shes worth being pampered, and not only that, but even if you do spend an equal amount of money on gifts to match your higher and increasing income, it wont mean anything, because when you have money, buying smaller things doesn't mean anything, it loses its value, because its so easy to buy for you, that it means nothing to her.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Another thing you missed out is that when you as a guy have a good amount of money, if you're not spending it on the woman, she will feel "unloved" and that you don't think she is worth it, so she will get resentful to the man.

So if you earn $200,000/year, but you spend money on your girlfriend/wife, as if you only earn $50,000/year (because you're financially savvy and not a spender), she will say that you don't love her, you don't think shes worth being pampered, and not only that, but even if you do spend an equal amount of money on gifts to match your higher and increasing income, it wont mean anything, because when you have money, buying smaller things doesn't mean anything, it loses its value, because its so easy to buy for you, that it means nothing to her.

isn't what that "ex google programmer" said recently?

 

[fOreVER]

Bullshit. Chad can be all romantic and she will love him more.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

isn't what that "ex google programmer" said recently?

Yes.

Thats exactly what happened to him.

He also explained about how having a lot of money means that smaller gifts become worthless and meaninglessness, because you can just buy anything you need/want at the touch of a button without any thought or worrying.

He spoke about how his parents came to the US with nothing, so they had survive with each other and build up slowly, and any little gifts to each other meant a lot for them since all the effort they put into work to get what little they had, but with his own marriage to his wife, all of those little things they could just snap up and buy without care.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Bullshit. Chad can be all romantic and she will love him more.

well yeah, chad is above all this shit

 

[78980n]

Bullshit. Chad can be all romantic and she will love him more.

He's talking about non-chads...

 

[mylifeistrash]

Yes.

Thats exactly what happened to him.

He also explained about how having a lot of money means that smaller gifts become worthless and meaninglessness, because you can just buy anything you need/want at the touch of a button without any thought or worrying.

He spoke about how his parents came to the US with nothing, so they had survive with each other and build up slowly, and any little gifts to each other meant a lot for them since all the effort they put into work to get what little they had, but with his own marriage to his wife, all of those little things they could just snap up and buy without care.

brutal, for some reason this guy's video depresses me and i have no dog in this fight
(never had a relationship)

seems like he had a japanese wife and did everything he was "supposed" to. he seems like an OK guy to hang out with as well so you can't blame his "personality"

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

brutal, for some reason this guy's video depresses me and i have no dog in this fight
(never had a relationship)

seems like he had a japanese wife and did everything he was "supposed" to. he seems like an OK guy to hang out with as well so you can't blame his "personality"

He said his money mogs his looks and personality, and that his money was his biggest quality about himself, that mogs everything else about him. Listen to the video again if you missed it.

 

[mylifeistrash]

He said his money mogs his looks and personality, and that his money was his biggest quality about himself, that mogs everything else about him. Listen to the video again if you missed it.

yeah I just skimmed through it. am too impatient to watch a video that long.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

yeah I just skimmed through it. am too impatient to watch a video that long.

Get multiple monitors, it makes it easy to watch/listen long videos because you can just put it on the other monitor and listen while doing something else on the main monitor

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

High IQ.

It's a catch-22 for non-Chads. You have to put in work to GET a girl but your work is also destroying the relationship at the same time. Can't win!

 

[1 Samuel 16:7]

High IQ.

It's a catch-22 for non-Chads. You have to put in work to GET a girl but your work is also destroying the relationship at the same time. Can't win!

We are all fighting a losing battle tbh. That's life.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

brutal, for some reason this guy's video depresses me and i have no dog in this fight
(never had a relationship)

seems like he had a japanese wife and did everything he was "supposed" to. he seems like an OK guy to hang out with as well so you can't blame his "personality"

Personality is never actually to blame. People are just bias, shallow, and superficial idiots who virtue signal when they need to make up a false "moral" reason as to why they do the unfair bullshit they do.

 

[CrookedOzCel]

High IQ.

It's a catch-22 for non-Chads. You have to put in work to GET a girl but your work is also destroying the relationship at the same time. Can't win!

But notice how all foids have to do is sit around and look pretty while the fuckwit normie breaks his back ensuring everything he says and does is funny, interesting, relevant, witty and well timed. Not to mention he has to pass the slimy holes numerous tests. If he shows the slightest sign of weakness or emotion the foid will kick his sorry ass to the curb. But if the foid notices he is trying to hard he’s also fucked. It’s far, far easier to win the lottery then ever have a chance with even a plain foid. And these scum cunts are wondering why foids find their heads filled with hollow points.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

true, generally entering any situation where the other person has more power eventually becomes a shitshow these days, nobody has a soul or basic decency anymore

 

[needsolution]

High IQ

and based

 

[ovrload]

i dont know why normies bother with relationships shes gonna cuck you eventually.

no ascension for ugly males.

and normies. only high tier normies have decent relationships

Yes.

Thats exactly what happened to him.

He also explained about how having a lot of money means that smaller gifts become worthless and meaninglessness, because you can just buy anything you need/want at the touch of a button without any thought or worrying.

He spoke about how his parents came to the US with nothing, so they had survive with each other and build up slowly, and any little gifts to each other meant a lot for them since all the effort they put into work to get what little they had, but with his own marriage to his wife, all of those little things they could just snap up and buy without care.

typical beta provider. she was only with him for his wealth. she got bored and decided to move on and find someone more attractive im assuming

 

[Cuyen]

High IQ.