What's worse is that the gender ratio is fucked. If women outside of the military are picky, women inside the military are insanely picky because they can afford to be. Every woman has an orbit of 5 or 6 guys giving her attention and doing anything to just sleep with them. There are a huge amount of incels in the forces too, many not yet aware of their condition. So they will fight and compete with their comrades over one girl, who ends up sleeping with Sargeant Chad anyways.
As if that is not enough, the military is extremely strict on what they consider "sexual harassment". Literally any woman can accuse you of looking at her the wrong way and you can end up with a note on your file at best, or a charge, dismissal and a fine at worst.