JFL The male loneliness epidemic is a self-pitying problem and there's an easy solution

[orgcel]

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[Lonelyus]

"attractive women dont want to talk to me"

Not even a landwhale want to talk to me LMAO

 

[boh]

Just go outside bro its that easy

 

[PolskiKartofel]

What a gutter level, spy overload, unfortunately made by born in 1980-1990 millennial soys who are still claiming "women don't have high expectations"

 

[HeinzKell]

Disgusting website

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I see this all the time. Guys claim that no one wants to talk to them, but what they really mean is: "Attractive women aren’t engaging with me."

Retard.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Just date a fatass theory.

Also, Brenda is chad-only.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

What a fucking retard

 

[Leonardo Part V]

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Just date a fatass theory.

Also, Brenda is chad-only.

Let's pretend he didn't come up with that 2 seconds ago to farm internet points.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

This nonsensical garbage is nothing short of regurgitation of banal social tropes. Has this retard even considered the factors that lead men to desire female attention? It goes beyond the individual level of being ‘horny and starved for romantic affection.’ It’s about the primal and instinctive need for companionship, intimacy and affection, which is wired in our psyches from the moment we leave the womb. The idea that men can ignore these basic psychological needs is ridiculous. Also, dismissing all the factors that drive these behaviors is naive and ignorant. We are not shaped in a vacuum.

These same men often ignore entire categories of social opportunities—talking to older people, engaging with other men platonically, striking up casual conversations with strangers just to connect. If the only people you try to talk to are women you find attractive, of course you’re going to feel isolated. That’s not loneliness; that’s self-inflicted social starvation.

This is like telling a starving man to chew gum instead of eating food. Platonic relationships don’t replace romantic ones. A guy could have plenty of male friends and still feel like garbage if he’s completely deprived of affection, intimacy, and love. Women wouldn’t accept this logic if someone told them to just hang out with their moms when they feel "lonely".

Men who constantly claim that "no one wants to talk to them," ask yourself: When was the last time you made conversation with someone without an ulterior motive? Do you engage with people who don’t directly serve your personal interests? Have you made any effort to contribute to a community rather than expecting one to embrace you?

Why is it considered 'wrong' for men to have personal interests in conversations? Do women randomly engage in conversations with men they find unattractive just to be nice? No. Everyone talks to others for a reason, whether it's for companionship, entertainment, or validation. Yet, somehow, only men are shamed for this.

 

[BlueCore]

Almost every post I see about male loneliness is people bashing it and victim blaming