Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dbyani/the_lie_of_5050_dates/
No low effort dates. This doesn’t mean expensive restaurants - a 5 minute conversation on what I enjoy is all it takes. I’m sick of being invited on walks (dangerous) - coffee shop (never been to one in years).
No causal / let’s hook up and see: I am not interested in being your bit on the side or waiting until you decide I’m worth commitment . I’m not having sex until I feel comfortable and respected.
No 50/50 dates: this is super controversial on Reddit but I’m not gaslighting myself anymore - my personal experience has been men who don’t pay £20 for a drink/lunch/bowling whatever are just looking to get laid and are dating any woman who agrees. They have been more pushy than men who take me on a real date and pay. If I am asked on a date and he picks the venue - he can pay. If not then that’s cool but there’ll be no 2nd date.
Roasties make normies treat them to expensive dinners while Chad goes "wanna bang?" and they're in his bed the same night