The Incel Hole

[Deleted member 20056]

In youth you have negative experiences so you pull away from engaging with life. Over time you become less compatible with life, and you become less able to relate to people who are engaged with it. Your experiences with life become worse as a result so pull away even more, and become even more alienated. A vicious cycle is established and every day you're stuck in it you become less able to get out of it. For most of you reading this it's already too late. You become weaker and the mountain you have to climb grows higher.

You might be short, autistic, curry. whatever, these things can theoretically be fixed, or they're not so severe that it's over for you. However, your past and how it informs your perceptions is something you can't escape from. You will always be an alien and you will always hate life and feel guilty that you're not who you're supposed to be.

 

[tooth monster]

I'm okay with it.

 

[Vermilioncore]

TL;DR: ITS OVER FOR MANY MEN

 

[Deleted member 18912]

Who said i was human ?
Soon i´ll have my true form manifest itself into this realm.
Humanscum shall run, and they will become my prey.
For i need to feast on their flesh.
I´ll go for the better looking ones, and leave the humancels alone.

 

[doomed 7]

one thing can make me normal again, which is going ER for my HS bullies, in Minecraft.

 

[horseshoe]

TL;DR: ITS OVER FOR MANY MEN

That’s all I needed to know, thanks.

 

[SchrodingersDick]

100%.
I’m too far gone already. I’ve been beyond recovery for years now.
26 years of loneliness.
I have the sexual experience of a 13 year old. And I’m a grown man.
I’ve never had a girlfriend
I’m already bald. My hair left me too soon. i could never afford a hair transplant. It cost me my youth;
I try and fail, try and fail, try and fail
I’m the kind of the tired that sleep can’t fix
I’m exhausted
Even if I got a gf now... for what? 26 years of suffering and suicidal depression for something that almost every man gets by default and never questions?
Social isolation has already killed me
I used to be more or less normal, or atleast close enough to normal that with work and effort, I could be normal.
Puberty Made me short and bald and I’ve been lonely since.

 

[Vermilioncore]

100%.
I’m too far gone already. I’ve been beyond recovery for years now.
26 years of loneliness.
I have the sexual experience of a 13 year old. And I’m a grown man.
I’ve never had a girlfriend
I’m already bald. My hair left me too soon. i could never afford a hair transplant. It cost me my youth;
I try and fail, try and fail, try and fail
I’m the kind of the tired that sleep can’t fix
I’m exhausted
Even if I got a gf now... for what? 26 years of suffering and suicidal depression for something that almost every man gets by default and never questions?
Social isolation has already killed me
I used to be more or less normal, or atleast close enough to normal that with work and effort, I could be normal.
Puberty Made me short and bald and I’ve been lonely since.

I am everything you said except I'm 24 and I'm not bald....yet.

 

[needsolution]

one thing can make me normal again, which is going ER for my HS bullies, in Minecraft.

Minecraft was good cope when i was 12 but now it doesnt work, its over

 

[Neggr]

Normies just know that im not one of them when they see me.

 

[Salustio]

It's over for validationcels and one-itiscels. Others are ok and uncuckable.

 

[seija]

The only thing that can make me happy and normal again is isolation from the world. Normalfags like to tease and bug me whenever I do my work or just exist in general.

 

[Emba]

Perhaps you are exactly who you are supposed to be?

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

In youth you have negative experiences so you pull away from engaging with life. Over time you become less compatible with life, and you become less able to relate to people who are engaged with it. Your experiences with life become worse as a result so pull away even more, and become even more alienated. A vicious cycle is established and every day you're stuck in it you become less able to get out of it. For most of you reading this it's already too late. You become weaker and the mountain you have to climb grows higher.

You might be short, autistic, curry. whatever, these things can theoretically be fixed, or they're not so severe that it's over for you. However, your past and how it informs your perceptions is something you can't escape from. You will always be an alien and you will always hate life and feel guilty that you're not who you're supposed to be.

This describes me to a T. I feel like I am living in a whole other universe from other people.. I simply watch others interact and wonder how they got to where they are. I can't relate to 95% of people anymore. Now I am stuck just commuting to school and work with nothing in between but my hobbies.