Sheogorath
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Metaphorically speaking of course, I don't necessarily ascribe to ghosty-souly business.
Also don't get me wrong, it's still at least 90% looks and halo effect shaping how people interpret what you do.
However that said, we lead bitter lives of disappointment. This leads us jaded, suspicious, mistrusting, hostile.
Most of that is a forgiveable and completely rationale reaction to the blackpill. It's especially brutal for those of us who were bluepilled for longer periods of our life prior to the revelation.
That said, that fact remains that we probably do not come forth to others with optimism and trust, and that could play a small factor (though looks are still the main issue) in tipping the scales of any gray areas of almost-happiness we might peter upon.
IT and co do have a point, but where they err is in thinking that it is our bitter personalities that is the prime factor when it is in fact a minor factor.
I'm sure some IT will acknowledge looks are a factor but they will say it is a minor factor and not acknowledge it is the major one.
However we differ on what is primary/secondary we should acknowledge either way there is no absolutes.
Also don't get me wrong, it's still at least 90% looks and halo effect shaping how people interpret what you do.
However that said, we lead bitter lives of disappointment. This leads us jaded, suspicious, mistrusting, hostile.
Most of that is a forgiveable and completely rationale reaction to the blackpill. It's especially brutal for those of us who were bluepilled for longer periods of our life prior to the revelation.
That said, that fact remains that we probably do not come forth to others with optimism and trust, and that could play a small factor (though looks are still the main issue) in tipping the scales of any gray areas of almost-happiness we might peter upon.
IT and co do have a point, but where they err is in thinking that it is our bitter personalities that is the prime factor when it is in fact a minor factor.
I'm sure some IT will acknowledge looks are a factor but they will say it is a minor factor and not acknowledge it is the major one.
However we differ on what is primary/secondary we should acknowledge either way there is no absolutes.