So far that was the single, biggest life changing event I´ve ever encountered in my life.
I can´t think of anything more soul crushing as an average guy than doing online dating with your own pics, reading their bios, spending hours thinking of witty and clever things to say to her, carefully selecting your best photos that make you appear as this fun loving, outgoing guy, maybe even taking professional pictures.
You do all the right things, send them nice and funny messages, you entertain them and have a great converstation.
After all this you still end up with zero dates, or the girls that message you only reply with one word answers and then ghost you.
Then ten minutes later you fake your profile pic with that of a professional male model and BOOM.
Those same girl who acted completely disinterested in your real pics are the ones messaging you first. The girls that gave you one word answers, who took ages to reply now turn into girls that just won´t shut up, they just message and message you. You tell them "let´s fuck, whats your number?" and they act needy and clingy, even sending you nudes and begging you to go on a date with them.
I don´t even think it´s honestly psychologically possible to not be scarred for life by this. It´s the single, most soul crushing thing I´ve encountered in my life. That what you say or do is completely irrelevant and the only thing that determines your worth in life is the way your face looks.
I can´t think of anything more soul crushing as an average guy than doing online dating with your own pics, reading their bios, spending hours thinking of witty and clever things to say to her, carefully selecting your best photos that make you appear as this fun loving, outgoing guy, maybe even taking professional pictures.
You do all the right things, send them nice and funny messages, you entertain them and have a great converstation.
After all this you still end up with zero dates, or the girls that message you only reply with one word answers and then ghost you.
Then ten minutes later you fake your profile pic with that of a professional male model and BOOM.
Those same girl who acted completely disinterested in your real pics are the ones messaging you first. The girls that gave you one word answers, who took ages to reply now turn into girls that just won´t shut up, they just message and message you. You tell them "let´s fuck, whats your number?" and they act needy and clingy, even sending you nudes and begging you to go on a date with them.
I don´t even think it´s honestly psychologically possible to not be scarred for life by this. It´s the single, most soul crushing thing I´ve encountered in my life. That what you say or do is completely irrelevant and the only thing that determines your worth in life is the way your face looks.
