The full time job we have to put into online dating

[panda99]

I will not complain but my online dating experience has been
this

-> Create an account on every single platform, delete the ones with too much ads
-> For the Incels in western Europe reliably this set gives me the
best quality matches: {Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid}.
-> My picture quality is relatively poor, but I make it up with a quite interesting
profile answer questions. I was rated by WheatWaffles as a 4/10 last week.

The dating experience has been brutal, I had a girl sleep over at my place
for 3 nights without anything happening, when I proposed to drink some
wine she (faked) almost zero alcohol tolerance, then she somehow
got into it, drank quite a lot. And then in the morning complained she
had too much. I had the feeling of raping her/doing something against
her consent by just drink some drinks to a TV drama show. Guys, please
give me the European/American girl who can drink some beers
without getting drunk anytime of the day, so I don't have to
deal with such bullshit. Of course, this girl ghosted me brutally. One
of the brutal ghost that can happen did actually occur, she was flying
to my city, not sure what she did there, but via delaying What's App messages
managed to not meet me again.

I work in a high-paying job in the IT industry, but the amount of efforts
I need to put in simply to meet a girl in real life is insane. I might
as well pay an online dating consultant who brings me the
girls on a silver plate, the hours of productive work lost is
absolutely insane. Today I was out catching up with a Chad-lite
friend in town over a drink, it turns out he knows
already all the girls in town already.

This is just plain in-efficient, why on earth do I need to put in
an insane amount of effort and brains to meet a girl from my town. This
was automatic before the social media era I guess.



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[HiddenUzer.Belgrade]

theres barely any online dating users in my area, 5-6 swipe and runs out.

 

[Reclusemaxxer]

Only dating is Chad only

 

[HiddenUzer.Belgrade]

also online dating wont work if your ugly, doesnt matter how many you swipe, how many accounts you have. IT doesn't change people's preference.

 

[HiddenUzer.Belgrade]

i;ve never even gone on a date

 

[Inceldom Victim]

It's over for sub8 males in 2022

 

[Django the niggero]

i;ve never even gone on a date

Same

 

[HiddenUzer.Belgrade]

It's over for sub8 males in 2022

rate yourself on a scale 1-10

 

[panda99]

What annoys me the most out of this, is never I have been
told a practical reason for simply ghosting. I understand if she's meeting a guy
at this time, its completely fine. It almost feels like I am still the back-up or something,
but the chance of course is miniscule. This happened to me with the most intelligent
of girls, PhD-graduate grade basically, it's simply being ghosted without any explanations.
as if the girl thinks it's actually posing a threat to her security if she tells another guy
she's already in a relationship.

 

[Inceldom Victim]

rate yourself on a scale 1-10

1.5/10

 

[wristcel]

I don't even bother with online dating anymore because I know it's over anyway.

 

[BarrelStuffer]

There are no foids on dating apps. All those stats showing that 40% of relationships start online include social media. You’ll have normies that meet someone irl and then add them on normiegram where they will start dming them. People also add friends of friends and start talking that way.
On actual dating apps every girl will have 3 times the amount of guys messaging her. She was probably texting 10 other dudes at the same time when she was at your place jfl

 

[Lobo]

I had a girl sleep over at my place
for 3 nights without anything happening

Uh, what? Sounds like some bs tbh. Why would a girl wanna sleep over at some stranger's place if she doesn't even wanna fuck him? Let alone 3 nights. Only way I can conceive is if you matched with a homeless girl otherwise I don't buy it.

Also GigaCucked move from you, no way I let a girl sleep at my place for 2 nights even if she isn't at least showing slight romantic interest. One night I can do, shit happens, we run it to the game... but aiming for 2 nights with no action then you're just using me to get a roof over your head, and you're not doing a good job at it.

 

[panda99]

Guys, her Airbnb canceled her stay, the story took place as described. She lives in a foreign country and she was just in my country for vacation and looking for a job.