The frustrations of dating as a [37F]

[incel4life]

It seems like no matter how much dating I do both online and in real life, it's always the same story: The guys I am attracted to are not attracted to me back, and the guys that are attracted to me are guys I am not attracted to.

I do get lots of messages online - the quantity of messages is not the problem. The problem is the quality. The other day I got a really well thought out message from a guy on OKCupid, that was tailored to my profile description. I was ecstatic. But then I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. When this happened I just broke down and started crying, because the fact that he made the effort to write such a well thought out message means he thought he had a chance with me, and this made me feel like I am ugly.

I don't know what to do anymore. I tried losing weight but no matter how much I diet I just stay fat. I really want to get married and have kids, but that's not happening because I am just an ugly, fat, and now old woman.

View: https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cauc0u/the_frustrations_of_dating_as_a_37f/

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

View: https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cauc0u/the_frustrations_of_dating_as_a_37f/

Karma is a fucking bitch.

 

[ilieknothing]

Does not bode well for me reading that

 

[Confessor]

Curries on suicide watch

 

[Epedaphic]

The part about it being an Indian guy makes me think this is a larp. First of all, it definitely wasn’t okay to diss Indians like this on Reddit 4 years ago (when this post was made). Second, Indians have standards, and the fact she’s a 37 year old overweight roast makes it much less likely they’d like her.

 

[Emba]

Curries on suicide watch

Chickpeas me

 

[Celius]

The guys I am attracted to are not attracted to me back, and the guys that are attracted to me are guys I am not attracted to.

Perfectly emulates their mindset.

Still though,

larp

 

[der_komische]

Im glad to see she hit the wall and is now reaping what she sowed.

she is still getting tons of messages tho

 

[Puppeter]

You know ur ugly if curries hit on you

 

[mrlunatic]

Curries on suicide watch

They're always on sui watch

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Damn, it must truly be hard to have a lot of people attracted to you while you are not attracted to them, the horror fem"cels" are living every day is beyond our comprehension.

 

[Drakul]

The part about it being an Indian guy makes me think this is a larp. First of all, it definitely wasn’t okay to diss Indians like this on Reddit 4 years ago (when this post was made). Second, Indians have standards, and the fact she’s a 37 year old overweight roast makes it much less likely they’d like her.

Haha EXACTLY as soon as I read the Indian guy I thought ok that's one of us. Jfl be more subtle next time inklers, omitting 5'2" and balding janitor wasn't enough.

 

[Max Doltman]

this world is just shit.

 

[Logic55]

Im glad to see she hit the wall and is now reaping what she sowed.

That's what she deserves for being a hypergamous piece of shit