If you don't buy into the blue pill hivemind then in their mind you need to be destroyed rather than helped. The problem for incels is that the kind of thinking the blue pilled masses promote is very unhelpful for ascending, and any ideas that would be helpful (Like questioning hypergamy) are outside of the bluepill overton window.
So in the end damned if you do, damed if you dont. I'd rather be a blackpilled virgin than a bluepilled virgin, and those are our only 2 options.