Essence of the Black Pill
This is a post about the essence of the black pill for any normies or newcels in these forums. Any black pillers, please tell me your thoughts and opinions below in the comments. There's been a lot of bad represenations and stereoytypes about the black pill; normies think it's just a depressing ideology that tells you the truths are make you depressed. To counter this, I will be giving my own perception of the black pill.
1. What is the black pill?
The black pill is an ideology that mainly acknowledges and responds to the universal factors of: lookism (the importance of looks), genetic determinism, environmental determinism, and human nature.
2. Why does the black pill exist / how was the black pill created?
The black pill is a reaction from men against the modern world. In the modern world (and also throughout history but I will just be talking about the modern world for now), there is societal expectations of men to be strong, to take all the hits, WHOS GONNA CARRY DA BOATSSS!!?!?!?, and in general there is a societal expectional of men to have some form of value in society, whether it be contributing to women, children, or society. This appears in not only due to society but also it is in males' natural instinct to have a desire and instinct to provide. It is in our nature. When men cannot provide for society, cannot be strong enough, do not have use, do not have value, and do not have meaning, they become depressed and suicidal, which can be shown in how men suicide WAY more than women, and the most common words used in suicide notes are "useless" and "worthless", which implies that these men killed themselves because they think they are supposed to have value, and then they blame and hate themselves when they cannot live up to that value. Quoting @GeckoBus "It's tied to the assumption that you have value and somehow you are not living up to your inherent value, and therefore you have to self-destroy out of shame. It's like you think you are some sort of nobleman, samurai who has to commit harakiri because he failed to live up to Bushido."
This can also be seen in the image below. You can see how there are so many older women than older men. Why is this? Well I have a theory
When men get old, they become more useless, their bodies become weaker and frail. They turn from a useful working age man, to an elder who depends on others to survive. And as I said before, when men feel or are useless, they hate and blame themselves. This causes older men to suicide, and also have worse morale. Despite the belief of "MENTAL HEALTH DOESNT MATTER BROOO JUST THUG THAT OUTTT!!! YOU'RE A MAN!!! ACT LIKE ONE!!!!!!!!!", mental health greatly affects your physical health. These old men lose health more than women because they don't have purpose to live, they lose their drive to live, they lose their life force. They feel ashamed of themselves, and they hate themselves which causes their health to deteriorate.
When these men cannot live up to what they believe they should and have to live up to, they blame themselves, and suicide. They turn the gun on themselves rather than the world around them. This is where incels and NEETs like the people on incels.is come into play. These are men who are deemed useless and worthless, which is also why so many people are so quick to hate on them. Even though most of us if not all of us do not want to hurt women, they will just lie about us anyways. They literally do lie about us lol like the IT infiltrators and stuff. Think about it bro, society already hates men even if they're working and contributing to society, so imagine how brutally they will treat a man who doesn't contribute to society.
Anyways, to quote @GeckoBus again"Everything is about you as a man. Everything is you you you you. Everything is your fault, every mistake in your life is your fault."
"You are a man so you have to be capable of anything" When you're man, despite all your disadvantages and obstacles, you are still meant to succeed, and if you don't then it is your fault and you are a worthless failure, and all the reasons of disadvantages, struggles, obstacles, etc. that have caused you to fail are just measly and pathetic excuses. Women on the other hand are treated with a lot of empathy. Women are just treated better than men. This can be seen in this Rehab Room video.
So incels, who are the epitome of "failure" of a man, responded with the black pill.
They basically said "No, life is unfair, and most things in life are things you cannot control. And on top of all of that, the world has hated us and mistreated us even since we were young. It's not my fault. None of it is my fault. I don't care what society says, it is not my fault. I deserve better." and then they begin to stop blaming themselves, and stop punishing themselves, for all of the bad things that happened in their life.
When you get into things such as how cruel this world is and the people in this world, along with various other factors such as genetic and environmental determinism, you realize that it was never your fault. It really isn't your fault, and you shouldn't have any thought that you failed in life, or you lost a battle, or you lost in life.
As mentioned before, the most common words in suicide notes are "worthless" and "useless". These people are pointing the gun at themselves and not at the world and its people. When the life is shit, you blame yourself. It would be much more humble and healthier to say you have no control over your life and things merely are what they are. But society wants you to be constantly fretting about, blaming yourself, beating yourself up, and hating yourself for things way out of your grasp. All of this is abuse. You are being abused. You were handed a shitty life, and you were manipulated into believing that it's all your fault and that you deserve it.
And currently, because you have been manipulated into believing that everything is about you, everything is you you you you, everything is your fault, and every mistake in your life is your fault, you punish yourself for it.
Quoting GeckBus Again hehe "It's tied to the assumption that you are supposed to have value to society and somehow you are not living up to your inherent value, and therefore you have to commit self-destruction out of shame. It's like you think you are some sort of nobleman, a samurai who has to commit harakiri because he failed to live up to Bushido."
You punish yourself for your past actions, and because you believe you are not worthy. But in reality, the past isn't a pruned bonsai tree or a forked lightning, it's a straight line. If you had done something differently, it wouldn't be you, it would be someone else looking back, asking a different set of questions.
In reality, none of this is your fault. Life is like a roller coaster; you have no control over the experience, and you are just experiencing it. Once you accept yourself and your life and stop having thoughts about what you should be or what you should have done, and when you realize that it's not your fault, you naturally stop punishing yourself. You can only blame yourself when you have expectations for yourself. None of this is your fault. Most things in life are just out of your control. And you don't deserve any of these bad things, and you don't deserve to feel shame about it, because it's society's fault, not yours. My advice is to let go of everything. Let go of the idea that you need value, or that you owe value, or that you owe purpose. Let go of the idea that you need purpose. Let go of the idea that your life needs to have worth. Let go of the idea that your life needs to be useful. You don't owe anyone anything. Just live in the present and try to make good of a shitty situation, and accept your life for what it is, and accept yourself for who you are. Don't take things seriously when it was never your fault. Just live your life and lighten up. Life is too short to blame yourself for things that aren't your fault.
3. My perspective of the black pill
My best advice to give you, is that you should accept all the bad things in your life without shame. Whether it be loneliness, bad things that happened with your career, your job, your social life, your school. You need to accept it for what it is. The first step to rehabilitation is realizing that it's not your fault, and you don't deserve it. Some things are just the way they are. Sometimes you gotta just sit on your ass and feel sorry about it all. The universe is cruel, and you can't control most things in your life, and none of it is your fault. You just got to try your best to make good of a shitty situation.
Life doesn't work out for many people. It's truly a clown world we live in. Life is mainly based on things you cannot control. Despite how many people tell you how you have control over your life or tell you about stoicism or whatever, the truth is that you can't control majority of things in your life. It's really not your fault. When you realize that none of this is your fault, how everything is unfair, and you don't deserve this unfair and shitty life, you begin to stop punishing yourself for it naturally.
Sometimes you just got to sit on your ass and feel sorry about your life. And realize that none of it is your fault. The universe just gives you a shitty life and expects you to deal with it.
You just got to get used to being alone, living a life that doesn't match your expectations. You just got to accept your life for what it is, and who you are for who you are. That's really all there is. In such a universe like this, you really can't take anything seriously. Lighten up a little. You didn't lose a battle. There never was a battle. It's all just a natural reaction to such an evil world. It's not your fault you "lost". It's not your fault things are a mess, it's the worlds fault, it's the universe's fault. At this low point in your life, you just got to accept it all without shame, and try to make best of a bad situation.
This is a post about the essence of the black pill for any normies or newcels in these forums. Any black pillers, please tell me your thoughts and opinions below in the comments. There's been a lot of bad represenations and stereoytypes about the black pill; normies think it's just a depressing ideology that tells you the truths are make you depressed. To counter this, I will be giving my own perception of the black pill.
1. What is the black pill?
The black pill is an ideology that mainly acknowledges and responds to the universal factors of: lookism (the importance of looks), genetic determinism, environmental determinism, and human nature.
2. Why does the black pill exist / how was the black pill created?
The black pill is a reaction from men against the modern world. In the modern world (and also throughout history but I will just be talking about the modern world for now), there is societal expectations of men to be strong, to take all the hits, WHOS GONNA CARRY DA BOATSSS!!?!?!?, and in general there is a societal expectional of men to have some form of value in society, whether it be contributing to women, children, or society. This appears in not only due to society but also it is in males' natural instinct to have a desire and instinct to provide. It is in our nature. When men cannot provide for society, cannot be strong enough, do not have use, do not have value, and do not have meaning, they become depressed and suicidal, which can be shown in how men suicide WAY more than women, and the most common words used in suicide notes are "useless" and "worthless", which implies that these men killed themselves because they think they are supposed to have value, and then they blame and hate themselves when they cannot live up to that value. Quoting @GeckoBus "It's tied to the assumption that you have value and somehow you are not living up to your inherent value, and therefore you have to self-destroy out of shame. It's like you think you are some sort of nobleman, samurai who has to commit harakiri because he failed to live up to Bushido."
This can also be seen in the image below. You can see how there are so many older women than older men. Why is this? Well I have a theory
When men get old, they become more useless, their bodies become weaker and frail. They turn from a useful working age man, to an elder who depends on others to survive. And as I said before, when men feel or are useless, they hate and blame themselves. This causes older men to suicide, and also have worse morale. Despite the belief of "MENTAL HEALTH DOESNT MATTER BROOO JUST THUG THAT OUTTT!!! YOU'RE A MAN!!! ACT LIKE ONE!!!!!!!!!", mental health greatly affects your physical health. These old men lose health more than women because they don't have purpose to live, they lose their drive to live, they lose their life force. They feel ashamed of themselves, and they hate themselves which causes their health to deteriorate.
When these men cannot live up to what they believe they should and have to live up to, they blame themselves, and suicide. They turn the gun on themselves rather than the world around them. This is where incels and NEETs like the people on incels.is come into play. These are men who are deemed useless and worthless, which is also why so many people are so quick to hate on them. Even though most of us if not all of us do not want to hurt women, they will just lie about us anyways. They literally do lie about us lol like the IT infiltrators and stuff. Think about it bro, society already hates men even if they're working and contributing to society, so imagine how brutally they will treat a man who doesn't contribute to society.
Anyways, to quote @GeckoBus again"Everything is about you as a man. Everything is you you you you. Everything is your fault, every mistake in your life is your fault."
"You are a man so you have to be capable of anything" When you're man, despite all your disadvantages and obstacles, you are still meant to succeed, and if you don't then it is your fault and you are a worthless failure, and all the reasons of disadvantages, struggles, obstacles, etc. that have caused you to fail are just measly and pathetic excuses. Women on the other hand are treated with a lot of empathy. Women are just treated better than men. This can be seen in this Rehab Room video.
So incels, who are the epitome of "failure" of a man, responded with the black pill.
They basically said "No, life is unfair, and most things in life are things you cannot control. And on top of all of that, the world has hated us and mistreated us even since we were young. It's not my fault. None of it is my fault. I don't care what society says, it is not my fault. I deserve better." and then they begin to stop blaming themselves, and stop punishing themselves, for all of the bad things that happened in their life.
When you get into things such as how cruel this world is and the people in this world, along with various other factors such as genetic and environmental determinism, you realize that it was never your fault. It really isn't your fault, and you shouldn't have any thought that you failed in life, or you lost a battle, or you lost in life.
As mentioned before, the most common words in suicide notes are "worthless" and "useless". These people are pointing the gun at themselves and not at the world and its people. When the life is shit, you blame yourself. It would be much more humble and healthier to say you have no control over your life and things merely are what they are. But society wants you to be constantly fretting about, blaming yourself, beating yourself up, and hating yourself for things way out of your grasp. All of this is abuse. You are being abused. You were handed a shitty life, and you were manipulated into believing that it's all your fault and that you deserve it.
And currently, because you have been manipulated into believing that everything is about you, everything is you you you you, everything is your fault, and every mistake in your life is your fault, you punish yourself for it.
Quoting GeckBus Again hehe "It's tied to the assumption that you are supposed to have value to society and somehow you are not living up to your inherent value, and therefore you have to commit self-destruction out of shame. It's like you think you are some sort of nobleman, a samurai who has to commit harakiri because he failed to live up to Bushido."
You punish yourself for your past actions, and because you believe you are not worthy. But in reality, the past isn't a pruned bonsai tree or a forked lightning, it's a straight line. If you had done something differently, it wouldn't be you, it would be someone else looking back, asking a different set of questions.
In reality, none of this is your fault. Life is like a roller coaster; you have no control over the experience, and you are just experiencing it. Once you accept yourself and your life and stop having thoughts about what you should be or what you should have done, and when you realize that it's not your fault, you naturally stop punishing yourself. You can only blame yourself when you have expectations for yourself. None of this is your fault. Most things in life are just out of your control. And you don't deserve any of these bad things, and you don't deserve to feel shame about it, because it's society's fault, not yours. My advice is to let go of everything. Let go of the idea that you need value, or that you owe value, or that you owe purpose. Let go of the idea that you need purpose. Let go of the idea that your life needs to have worth. Let go of the idea that your life needs to be useful. You don't owe anyone anything. Just live in the present and try to make good of a shitty situation, and accept your life for what it is, and accept yourself for who you are. Don't take things seriously when it was never your fault. Just live your life and lighten up. Life is too short to blame yourself for things that aren't your fault.
3. My perspective of the black pill
My best advice to give you, is that you should accept all the bad things in your life without shame. Whether it be loneliness, bad things that happened with your career, your job, your social life, your school. You need to accept it for what it is. The first step to rehabilitation is realizing that it's not your fault, and you don't deserve it. Some things are just the way they are. Sometimes you gotta just sit on your ass and feel sorry about it all. The universe is cruel, and you can't control most things in your life, and none of it is your fault. You just got to try your best to make good of a shitty situation.
Life doesn't work out for many people. It's truly a clown world we live in. Life is mainly based on things you cannot control. Despite how many people tell you how you have control over your life or tell you about stoicism or whatever, the truth is that you can't control majority of things in your life. It's really not your fault. When you realize that none of this is your fault, how everything is unfair, and you don't deserve this unfair and shitty life, you begin to stop punishing yourself for it naturally.
Sometimes you just got to sit on your ass and feel sorry about your life. And realize that none of it is your fault. The universe just gives you a shitty life and expects you to deal with it.
You just got to get used to being alone, living a life that doesn't match your expectations. You just got to accept your life for what it is, and who you are for who you are. That's really all there is. In such a universe like this, you really can't take anything seriously. Lighten up a little. You didn't lose a battle. There never was a battle. It's all just a natural reaction to such an evil world. It's not your fault you "lost". It's not your fault things are a mess, it's the worlds fault, it's the universe's fault. At this low point in your life, you just got to accept it all without shame, and try to make best of a bad situation.
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