Toxic Femininity The Cost of Valentines Day.

[DarkStar]

With the day which shall not be named upon us soon, I figured I'd perhaps make a thread covering the hypocrisy surrounded it.

The premise of the day is for couples to show their mutual appreciation of one-another; meaning they are supposed to equally shower one another in grifts right?

Well, perhaps you would be mistaken.

As I covered in a previous thread of mine, the very nature of commercialism & materialistic spending is rooted to appeal to foids:

In 1929, home economist and marketing expert Christine Frederick published Selling Mrs. Consumer, a popular book that schooled manufacturers and advertisers in the art of pitching products to American women. Seventy years later, consumer culture is part of the air we breathe, and women's role as consumer seems almost a natural one—a role captured in the phrase, "born to shop." Even in this age of market segmentation, when men are addressed as style-conscious buyers, the association of femininity and consumption remains nearly seamless. And these terms have been mutually reinforcing. Consumption is coded as a female pursuit, frivolous and even wasteful, a form of leisure rather than productive work.

American Women and the Making of Modern Consumer Culture --- the electronic text

Foids are the Harbingers of Consumerism

Consumerism, a problem which plagues our society today & can be attributed to many of the ills within it. Personally, I consider consumerism to be akin to that of a cancer: It simply spreads & consumes the finite resources we have, and quite literally consumes normies & NPCs in just about every...

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Despite this fact combined with women controlling more purchasing power, we consistently see advertising which is geared towards males buying gifts for their significant other as opposed to the other way around. In fact, I feel I see more stuff marketing products for foids to gift themselves as opposed to buying something for their husband.

These findings are quite telling:

Every year, Americans spend more than $20 billion on Valentine's Day gifts, cards, romantic dinners and more.

That's quite high considering the state of things ngl.

According to a recent survey conducted by Bankrate, men and women have pretty different Valentine's Day spending habits and expectations. It turns out men tend to expect their partner to spend around $211 on them for Valentines' Day, while the average man will plan to shell out $339 for their partner.

Around a 2x difference.

Once again, this just proves that most modern men are sadly spineless cucks. They would happily pay twice the rate of what their partner -a used up whole- does on a day where they're both to express mutual love, which further proves that foids want to be seen as "helpless" or whatever in order to get treatment this way.

And what about the ladies? Women expect to be treated to about $154 worth of V-Day treats, but only end up spending around $64 for their SO. A stat from another Valentine's Day spending survey from WalletHub really drives this home: Women are 33 percent more likely than men to spend nothing, while men are twice as likely to spend over $100. And in 2018, men spent almost twice as much as women did on a significant other ($196 versus $100).

https://www.theknot.com/content/valentines-day-spending-study

Ah ofc, "equality" for me yet not for thee.

The fact they're 33% more likely to not spend shit, het males are twice as likely to spend over 100% hammers home just how most foids view their s/o. Just an expendable, betabuxx who gets occasional plain sex until Chad is free.

individuals aged 25-34 being more involved than any other age group.

And to add on, ofc it's the demographic most financially struggling -who are supposed to be trying to start a family & get a home- indulging in excess.

 

[My Name Jeff]

ive made post about this before but the dating and simp industrial complex is what keeps the world economy moving. its the actual reason my mainstream sources are so anti-incel because the blackpill lets you see wasting endless time and money on trying to woo foids is pointless. imagine if men on mass stopped buying consumer slop, stopped taking foids out to overpriced restaurants, stopped buying tickets to go to shitty places. the economy would collapse.

 

[caineturbat2003]

Yet there are still femcels complaining about Valentine's Day. I even made a thread about one here:

Noodlewhore femcel cries that she never had a "valentine".

Watching this whore cry about how "muh i never had a valentine :foidSoy:" is so infuriating. I bet when she says "i never had a valentine" what she means is that she never had a CHAD valentine. I bet she was showered with gifts from normies and incels in denial in every Valentine's Day, but she...

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[AtrociousCitizen]

That day is essentially female worship day.

 

[aswellfella]

It’s Arizona’s birthday —you could just celebrate that?

 

[Kaichee]

Valentines day is for browns

 

[caineturbat2003]

That day is essentially female worship day.

Yet femcels would still complain about it, jfl

 

[DarkStar]

ive made post about this before but the dating and simp industrial complex is what keeps the world economy moving.

link?

its the actual reason my mainstream sources are so anti-incel because the blackpill lets you see wasting endless time and money on trying to woo foids is pointless. imagine if men on mass stopped buying consumer slop, stopped taking foids out to overpriced restaurants, stopped buying tickets to go to shitty places. the economy would collapse.

I kind of touched on a similar thing to this:

[Blackpill]How Foids Serve as the Perfect "ZOGbots"

"It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers−out of unorthodoxy.” -George Orwell, 1984. Re-read that quote again, it's originally from 1949, how does it hold up today? Notice...

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Yet there are still femcels complaining about Valentine's Day. I even made a thread about one here:

Noodlewhore femcel cries that she never had a "valentine".

Watching this whore cry about how "muh i never had a valentine :foidSoy:" is so infuriating. I bet when she says "i never had a valentine" what she means is that she never had a CHAD valentine. I bet she was showered with gifts from normies and incels in denial in every Valentine's Day, but she...

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Yet femcels would still complain about it, jfl

Yeah jfl, even in spite of data showing most foids are spoilt to death on that day.

That day is essentially female worship day.

Which highlights how "equality" was foid worship under a new name.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Which highlights how "equality" was foid worship under a new name.

Indeed, it was always female supremacy and worship under the guise of equality.

 

[My Name Jeff]

link?

Will mainstream media ever start to consider men's issues?

And what needs to happen for it to get there?

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Why is the blackpill so rarely present on social media?

With so many incels all around the world, one would expect the bp to be mainstream and forums like this one to be overpopulated, but this isn't the case. The red pill popularized by a con man, evil pimps, scammers, and tactical soap enthusiasts became mainstream reasonably recently. It took a...

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The Blackpill is not a direct threat NOW. But it will be in the near future.

"It's not a direct threat to them now, but they're very afraid of it spreading, they don't want their true nature exposed for all to see. Deep down they know it's all true, that's why they act so emotional. They're afraid that their cuck white knight providers will be converted and turned...

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[92 drowsiness?]

true

 

[Sir Silentium]

That day is essentially female worship day.

Indeed, it was always female supremacy and worship under the guise of equality.

 

[Kerrigan Skelly]

betabuxxes get their annual unloving starfish sex while chads get hundreds of love letters from random foids

 

[daydreamER]

The oofy doofy spends 340 dollars on his foid on average on that day? Chad gets that shit for free, JFL.

 

[DarkStar]

betabuxxes get their annual unloving starfish sex while chads get hundreds of love letters from random foids

The oofy doofy spends 340 dollars on his foid on average on that day? Chad gets that shit for free, JFL.

Yeah that's insane also; further highlights just how unequal shit is in dating even amongst males.

objectively speaking, most men would be Incels under different circumstances.

 

[Logic55]

Valentines
Day shouldnt be celebrated because it's offensive to single people
.

 

[DarkStar]

Valentines
Day shouldnt be celebrated because it's offensive to single people
.

Finally something everyone can agree on, but how about we make it single-males awareness day.

 

[Logic55]

Finally something everyone can agree on, but how about we make it single-males awareness day.

Good idea.

 

[curryboy420]

ive made post about this before but the dating and simp industrial complex is what keeps the world economy moving. its the actual reason my mainstream sources are so anti-incel because the blackpill lets you see wasting endless time and money on trying to woo foids is pointless. imagine if men on mass stopped buying consumer slop, stopped taking foids out to overpriced restaurants, stopped buying tickets to go to shitty places. the economy would collapse.

I always said the Jews are to blame because they invented money then they used it ceaselessly to hoard women and resources and land. Now the make us rats run in the tunnels to get a crumb of shit at the end while they sit around like goblins with their piles of gold and women like jabba the hutt. There's no reason to play this rigged motherfuckers game. The only answer was always to blow it all to shit and start again. Just like guy Fawkes was gonna do. But the dumb cunt failed. So I guess I have to do it myself.

 

[DarkStar]

Bump 'cause why not

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To me, this really highlights just how much of a slave-class all non-chad/prettyboy males are: I mean that discrepancy in spending is more than just noticeable, combined with the fact basically 1/3rd of all foids don't even bother getting anything for their s/o is insane.

Really, it is comical foids & soycucks could claim we live in a patriarchy, when if that were the case everything here would be flipped around.

It kinda reminds me of that Winston Churchill quote that the "fascists of the future will call themselves anti fascists" it should be "the privileged of the future will call others privileged"

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Valentines
Day shouldnt be celebrated because it's offensive to single people
.

 

[wereq]

That day is essentially female worship day.

Chads don't need to buy shit. Their genes buy everything on their behalf.

 

[Grodd]

Valentines day is very cucked and gynocentric, most of it is betabuxxers running to stores to buy their whore girlfriends overpriced shit that she won't appreciate and he does all that just for chance of a crumb of pussy, Pathetic.

 

[Grodd]

Chads don't need to buy shit. Their genes buy everything on their behalf.

 

[Sewer Sloth]

That day is essentially female worship day.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Expensive as being with a woman may be, I still feel kind of left out. Sure, the woman is a materialist wench, but I imagine it would he nice to give and receive something on valentines day.

 

[GeckoBus]

Really, it is comical foids & soycucks could claim we live in a patriarchy, when if that were the case everything here would be flipped around.

They hide by accusing you of what they are doing. Its a foid thing. For instance old mgtow wisdom had it that if your wife/gf accuses you of cheating, she is the one actually cheating. There is no fucking way in hell women do not know we live in a matriarchy. They constantly invoke their own privileged status like they are nobility - "i am a woman, you cant do x to me!"
"as a mom"
"as a girl"
etc

Women also use men for free meal tickets all the time, threads with data on that have been made here.

Up to 1 in 3 women on online dating sites just want a free meal | Study finds

These numbers are from a study published in 2019 in the Journal of Social Psychological and Personality Science. According to the researchers, between 23 and 33 percent of the women surveyed had deliberately misrepresented their romantic interest in a man in order to dine at his expense...

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To assume that those who claim we live in a patriarchy do not know they are wrong is granting them their position. They know exactly what they are doing. Lets not be autistic and take people literal here. Words are only justifications for actions for NT people. This is about power and dominance. They are dominating men and they know it.

The fact they're 33% more likely to not spend shit, het males are twice as likely to spend over 100% hammers home just how most foids view their s/o. Just an expendable, betabuxx who gets occasional plain sex until Chad is free.

Abundance of options destroys commitment and emotional investment. If you have 1000 options, the 1 option you settle for better be good if it expects you to stick around. Women spending less on men is like some fuck showing up in a store with his phone out like "i can get this on amazon 40% cheaper! You better have a really good deal or else..."
There is always a veiled threat coming from women - the threat of her leaving. Thats also why guys spend so much more money on foids. They are afraid of the consequences of not satisfying her. Hence, they go overboard to make sure they cant fail the foid.

This also shows you women are in charge again, since the simple threat of depriving the man of their presence is enough to trigger this extreme response. It is like falling out of favor with the gods.

 

[Sergeant Kelly]

objectively speaking, most men would be Incels under different circumstances.

My favourite quip about this is how someone in youtube comments of some BP channel once pointed out that if you removed average normie from social net that he woven in elementary/middle/high school/college and has been naturally maintaining/developing without even thinking about it, let's say idk, you transported them to different job in different city in different voivodeship with no way of contacting any of their colleagues, they'd would instantly turn into average incel. That's how much their "social skills" are worth.
Normfags are so prideful over not being bottom of the barrel, yet you wouldn't even have to "uglify" them to make their life experience jarringly similar to ours, just putting them into different life circumstances would do the trick, that's how little innate worth they really have.
Perhabs that's why they hate us so much, we're a grim reminder for them how close they are to falling into the hole.

 

[SilverBullet]

it would he nice to give and receive something on valentines day.

 

[SilverBullet]

Further proof life never began for sub-8 men. You’re either a betabuxx or khhv for life

 

[PersonalityChad]

That day is essentially female worship day.

Pretty much, Valentine's Day literally started out as a celebration of Courtly Love, aka female worship

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

The jews love valentines day for a reason. Just an excuse for people to blow money on things they don't need.

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

ive made post about this before but the dating and simp industrial complex is what keeps the world economy moving. its the actual reason my mainstream sources are so anti-incel because the blackpill lets you see wasting endless time and money on trying to woo foids is pointless. imagine if men on mass stopped buying consumer slop, stopped taking foids out to overpriced restaurants, stopped buying tickets to go to shitty places. the economy would collapse.

That's why they suppress the black pill because it would collapse the system.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

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To me, this really highlights just how much of a slave-class all non-chad/prettyboy males are: I mean that discrepancy in spending is more than just noticeable, combined with the fact basically 1/3rd of all foids don't even bother getting anything for their s/o is insane.

Really, it is comical foids & soycucks could claim we live in a patriarchy, when if that were the case everything here would be flipped around.

It kinda reminds me of that Winston Churchill quote that the "fascists of the future will call themselves anti fascists" it should be "the privileged of the future will call others privileged"

True. Very good thread, especially the focus on the difference between VD spending by men and women when women already are behind so much "ordinary" spending.

That day is essentially female worship day.

 

[Kamanbert]

You know what i'm just pure sadness now. I dont really care cause i know it's hopeless and i've been alone for such a long time anyway but still i cant shake off the sadness cause it really seems like women dont even love men, even those in relationships with them seem to be there just to be used and abused. And the difficulty for men to find women to be with in the first place simply seems like a byproduct of that.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

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To me, this really highlights just how much of a slave-class all non-chad/prettyboy males are: I mean that discrepancy in spending is more than just noticeable, combined with the fact basically 1/3rd of all foids don't even bother getting anything for their s/o is insane.

Really, it is comical foids & soycucks could claim we live in a patriarchy, when if that were the case everything here would be flipped around.

It kinda reminds me of that Winston Churchill quote that the "fascists of the future will call themselves anti fascists" it should be "the privileged of the future will call others privileged"

 

[Based NaziCel]

I was literally born on this cursed day and it’s fucking beyond brutal

 

[blackpillednigga]

shit I didnt even know valentines day is approaching . great. cant wait to see more normies and foids kissing again while I rot

 

[kay']

Honestly you wouldnt think of ot that way if ypu had a gf.

My friends who have gfs also get presents from them on this day.

you dont have to pay thousands to show your love it can be something cheap but cute or handmade.

But because we're all single its a sour reminder of what we're missing again.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Valentines
Day shouldnt be celebrated because it's offensive to single people
.

It's like spitefully creating a holiday to celebrate the most privileged people in society. Imagine how terrible all the terminally ill people would feel if there was a Good Health Day. Imagine how awful poor people would feel if there was a Millionaire's Day. There is subtly flexing your fortune, and then there is just spitefully rubbing it in people's face.

 

[Moroccancel]

Bump 'cause why not

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To me, this really highlights just how much of a slave-class all non-chad/prettyboy males are: I mean that discrepancy in spending is more than just noticeable, combined with the fact basically 1/3rd of all foids don't even bother getting anything for their s/o is insane.

Really, it is comical foids & soycucks could claim we live in a patriarchy, when if that were the case everything here would be flipped around.

It kinda reminds me of that Winston Churchill quote that the "fascists of the future will call themselves anti fascists" it should be "the privileged of the future will call others privileged"

Rebump because why not.

 

[Fire]

Warning to everyone: stay inside during Valentines Day

 

[Justanotherbloke]

That day is essentially female worship day.

I've always viewed it that way, only a non-blackpilled (sedated) imbecile won't see it, and blindly put her on the pedestal.
OP's thread touched on more detailed points regarding this, but deep down, I always knew that it's a pseudo sugar daddy dynamic / relationship for most men.

 

[iRespectproudweeb]

The only answer was always to blow it all to shit and start again. Just like guy Fawkes was gonna do. But the dumb cunt failed. So I guess I have to do it myself.

*M15 surveillance intensifies*

 

[TheJester]

ive made post about this before but the dating and simp industrial complex is what keeps the world economy moving. its the actual reason my mainstream sources are so anti-incel because the blackpill lets you see wasting endless time and money on trying to woo foids is pointless. imagine if men on mass stopped buying consumer slop, stopped taking foids out to overpriced restaurants, stopped buying tickets to go to shitty places. the economy would collapse.

It is true.

Valentines Day, Christmas, Eastern etc. You Name it are just Capitalistic Days that have no real meaning besides making Coorporations richer.

And your points have weight. Looksmaxxing costs a lot for both genders.

The whole beauty industry would collapse if males simply didnt care for females anymore - or better to say dont try to please not appeal to them.

I just recently looked at what all kind of Stuff we have here in German Kaufland (Wallmart). It really is a ton of bad unhealthy stuff.

I myself can said that HUGE amounts of Products dont and have never and will never find place in my "Consumer Life". For example any alcoholic drinks. I never liked alcoholic drinks much and the prices of those can be quite ridiculous, for something that you essentially just piss out at the end of the day - might as well just drink tea or water to begin with.

Also the amount of Sugery Treats in our stores is INSANE. Its essentially half the market. I am not even joking. Theres hundreds of chocolate, gummy and sugar products. Very bad stuff when you know all the Chemicals that are inside.

Its what makes people fat, unhealthy, aged up and also so...easy. you know what I mean? Easy to manipulate. The whole sugary stuff is a drug - I mean in certain sugary treats theres also MORE alcohol.

It makes addicted.

Theres a specific childrens Juice called Capri-Sun which is extremly unhealthy, out right toxic as I have very bad memories from it and the liter price is like 35€! Insane!

In Germany you can very well survive from tap water - which is fresh and filtered and if you dont want thst you can use another filter for yourself, the Liter price is 1 Cent!

Drinks are easily one of the biggest food industry scam ever!

But this whole "Dating Industry" I aint joking people spend thousands of dollars each every single year on it.

The dating apps, the take outs, the useless materialistic presents, the gift cards (some of them are like 9€, like fuck to throw them away 1 day later!).

Even the cheapest gift cards is like 2€ - waste of money!

Flowers is yet another scam. My parents always gift flower to other people - flowers that are dry and go to the trash can 1 week after - and they always rage how expensive they are...well lol they are also worthless.

We produce tons and tons of stuff that really has no actual worth or any particulary useage besides a temporary pleasure.

 

[piracyguy10]

Valentines day is nothing but a joke and a scam.

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

In Asia foids have to buy sexhavers stuff instead. Of course incels get nothing

 

[Adolf Kitler]

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[DarkStar]

Indeed, it was always female supremacy and worship under the guise of equality.

Spot-on.

Pretty much, Valentine's Day literally started out as a celebration of Courtly Love, aka female worship

That is true, but the whole point of it was changed to be for mutual appreciation of just having someone..

In Asia foids have to buy sexhavers stuff instead.

No way jfl

Examples?

They hide by accusing you of what they are doing. Its a foid thing. For instance old mgtow wisdom had it that if your wife/gf accuses you of cheating, she is the one actually cheating. There is no fucking way in hell women do not know we live in a matriarchy. They constantly invoke their own privileged status like they are nobility - "i am a woman, you cant do x to me!"
"as a mom"
"as a girl"
etc

Simply, if it was actually that hard being a woman, they woudlnt be able to get away with using that as an excuse.

Women also use men for free meal tickets all the time, threads with data on that have been made here.

Up to 1 in 3 women on online dating sites just want a free meal | Study finds

These numbers are from a study published in 2019 in the Journal of Social Psychological and Personality Science. According to the researchers, between 23 and 33 percent of the women surveyed had deliberately misrepresented their romantic interest in a man in order to dine at his expense...

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I always suspected that, but nice to see studies do again confirm it.

Abundance of options destroys commitment and emotional investment. If you have 1000 options, the 1 option you settle for better be good if it expects you to stick around. Women spending less on men is like some fuck showing up in a store with his phone out like "i can get this on amazon 40% cheaper! You better have a really good deal or else..."

I'd say this reflects larger societal issues

There is always a veiled threat coming from women - the threat of her leaving. Thats also why guys spend so much more money on foids. They are afraid of the consequences of not satisfying her. Hence, they go overboard to make sure they cant fail the foid.

Being in a relationship for a man is just 3x the work at the minimum.

This also shows you women are in charge again, since the simple threat of depriving the man of their presence is enough to trigger this extreme response. It is like falling out of favor with the gods.

Correct.

You know what i'm just pure sadness now. I dont really care cause i know it's hopeless and i've been alone for such a long time anyway but still i cant shake off the sadness cause it really seems like women dont even love men, even those in relationships with them seem to be there just to be used and abused. And the difficulty for men to find women to be with in the first place simply seems like a byproduct of that.

AWALT is one of the most hardest & brutal pills to swallow

True. Very good thread, especially the focus on the difference between VD spending by men and women when women already are behind so much "ordinary" spending.

It's just insane the gap there is, it really paints a picture that in reality, normies are just above us.

Both lifefuel & suifuel I'd say

 

[Cincel]

Just another shitty day, no need to make it special.