Yeah it's bullshit, sure guys want someone they find physically attractive ideally, but most with healthy testosterone levels will "settle" to a certain extent as far as looks go. She doesn't have to look like a victoria secrets model, not even close.
Guys generally want:
A woman they find physically/sexually attractive, average or below is fine, could still find her very sexy. A significant number will fuck anything that shows interest, no matter how disgusting inhuman because that's their only option. But at least they have options, unlike some!
To get on well, maybe share some common interests but nevermind if not.
What women want.
To find a guy physically/sexually attractive, looks are more important to women than ever and they want the best they can get or will be happy to stay single in many cases.
For her friends to like him, so to show off what a catch she's got and make them feel jealous.
Him showing any awkward/shy behaviour will be an instant turn off, but may find it cute if he's still young and/or above average looking.
For him to show he'll be a good provider, has solid career goals and is capable of getting what he wants.
Good lover, size matters and inexperience/virginity will put her off greatly and most will find an excuse to dump him ASAP!
Be able to protect her
Not be poor, unless he's really hot and it'll be just casual sex or a fuck buddy.
ect ect.