Honestly it doesn't take a lot to figure this out, yet most normies have no idea. It just takes listening to a woman talk about how she feels when she's in love (not settling down with a beta, legit in love, usually with a chad obvs) to realize males feel nothing of the sort. At first I thought it was just me because I'm so cynical due to the blackpill and my life of constant suffering, but tbf I've also never heard a male speak in such terms about love.
Let me explain. Women talk like when they're in love with a man, he's all they can think about and it can really hurt if he doesn't reciprocate or doesn't pay attention to them. They often talk about trying not to develop those feelings towards someone bc they know it'll make them very vulnerable, but they also feel very good when they do. Society has always extrapolated this to males but tbh I don't think we can feel the same way about women. Our equivalent would be getting a oneitis, which, not only isn't the same thing, but is primarily an incel thing, a subconscious reaction to being starved of attention, and ideally should never happen to a man. In fact if it does it gives away the fact that you're unsuccessful and will hurt your chances with the girl (to the limited extent to which stuff like that matters, as it's mostly about looks obvs). Believe me chads don't obsess over any woman.
Let me explain. Women talk like when they're in love with a man, he's all they can think about and it can really hurt if he doesn't reciprocate or doesn't pay attention to them. They often talk about trying not to develop those feelings towards someone bc they know it'll make them very vulnerable, but they also feel very good when they do. Society has always extrapolated this to males but tbh I don't think we can feel the same way about women. Our equivalent would be getting a oneitis, which, not only isn't the same thing, but is primarily an incel thing, a subconscious reaction to being starved of attention, and ideally should never happen to a man. In fact if it does it gives away the fact that you're unsuccessful and will hurt your chances with the girl (to the limited extent to which stuff like that matters, as it's mostly about looks obvs). Believe me chads don't obsess over any woman.
