The Chemistry Between Black Men & White BBW’s
There has been very little written but much said about the attraction of black men to white big beautiful women (BBW’s). There are some correlations between the two social opposites that is rarely discussed in an unbiased way. The simplistic thread of dialogue and thought is that the two groups are social misfits and the least desirable for dating marriage and romance based on the social hierarchy. The stereotypes abound that black men are lazy and lack ambition along with the assumption that over-weight white women are lazy and care not to take care of themselves. Most often people fall into the marginal category of having more of a quantitative approach to dealing with issues and people of no immediate significance to them.
People in general are great arm-chair-quarterbacks willing to express and opinion or adopt a view without caring or knowing the circumstances. This attitude to things of lesser value is to either ignore things unless it becomes a crisis that inconveniences them. Black men with white BBW’s is nothing new as in many interracial relationships; however, the re are certain realities that bond them. Usually, a person’s personal value is based on the social worth assessments, the very thing that determines trust and distrust, like and dislike, or success and failure. This union is commonly based on a sense of social rejection by the main bodies of their own racial group and the broader whole of society.
In the African-American community a male may grow up with sentiments of resentment if the father is ridiculed by the mother in such a way that he is no longer respected. The negative re-enforcement of being told that he is not good enough or worse by other members of his community begins the trek of personal and cultural isolation. The rejection of a person in the precious formative years of life may have a lasting impact in the future. If the African-American male is marginalized in his home and social environment, they both lose a sense of sentimental value in exchange for a perceived better life with someone else. This reality continues within the African-American community as factions are pitted against each other based on class, culture, exposure, and access to financial resources.
In parallel many white BBW’s are devalued socially due to their size and this cuts deep in that a woman’s appearance in our society is considered a valuable attribute for attracting a man. The rejection and teasing also creates a climate for isolation. In both cases with the black male and white BBW female an introverted view may occur where both parties do not view themselves as victims, but survivors in a sense. However, in both cases there are counter-measures to retain their self-worth with a common assertion to date only within their own ethnic group. Often times this is done to retain a part of the group even though they may not be sought after in mass within it. However, others opt out.
There has been very little written but much said about the attraction of black men to white big beautiful women (BBW’s). There are some correlations between the two social opposites that is rarely discussed in an unbiased way. The simplistic thread of dialogue and thought is that the two groups are social misfits and the least desirable for dating marriage and romance based on the social hierarchy. The stereotypes abound that black men are lazy and lack ambition along with the assumption that over-weight white women are lazy and care not to take care of themselves. Most often people fall into the marginal category of having more of a quantitative approach to dealing with issues and people of no immediate significance to them.
People in general are great arm-chair-quarterbacks willing to express and opinion or adopt a view without caring or knowing the circumstances. This attitude to things of lesser value is to either ignore things unless it becomes a crisis that inconveniences them. Black men with white BBW’s is nothing new as in many interracial relationships; however, the re are certain realities that bond them. Usually, a person’s personal value is based on the social worth assessments, the very thing that determines trust and distrust, like and dislike, or success and failure. This union is commonly based on a sense of social rejection by the main bodies of their own racial group and the broader whole of society.
In the African-American community a male may grow up with sentiments of resentment if the father is ridiculed by the mother in such a way that he is no longer respected. The negative re-enforcement of being told that he is not good enough or worse by other members of his community begins the trek of personal and cultural isolation. The rejection of a person in the precious formative years of life may have a lasting impact in the future. If the African-American male is marginalized in his home and social environment, they both lose a sense of sentimental value in exchange for a perceived better life with someone else. This reality continues within the African-American community as factions are pitted against each other based on class, culture, exposure, and access to financial resources.
In parallel many white BBW’s are devalued socially due to their size and this cuts deep in that a woman’s appearance in our society is considered a valuable attribute for attracting a man. The rejection and teasing also creates a climate for isolation. In both cases with the black male and white BBW female an introverted view may occur where both parties do not view themselves as victims, but survivors in a sense. However, in both cases there are counter-measures to retain their self-worth with a common assertion to date only within their own ethnic group. Often times this is done to retain a part of the group even though they may not be sought after in mass within it. However, others opt out.
