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Story That one time in High School where I think a foid flirted with me, but I was too scared to flirt back. I missed my only chance to have a girlfriend.

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Tl;dnr: When I was in High School, there was an attractive foid on my class who asked me for help to cheat on a Physics exam because she was scared of failing the subject, and I helped her because I was a simp who didn't know about the black pil back then. I think she flirted with me once, and she did compliment me and smile at me in some occassions. I never flirted with her because she had chad friends, and I thought she already had a boyfriend. And I think this was my only chance to have a girlfriend since I've never had another similar situation like this happened to me.

So this happened over 3 years ago when I came back to in-person classes after the pandemic ended. I was 16 back then, I'm 20 now. So I've always been the quiet nerd kid in class, because I've always felt afraid of socializing with people, I hate socializing. Well, during this time in High School, I was in the 4th semester, there was this foid in my class who was pretty, she was blonde(dyed not natural), she looked like Starlight from The Boys. For some reason, I remember this foid smiling to me once, but she always hanged out with 3 of her male friends which were chads. The chads for some reason liked talking to random people in the class, and one day these chads and that foid talked to me, and they made talked to me, I think they were joking or something, but this foid smiled at me. I really didn't give much thought of this, but I had other occassions where she smiled at me. I didn't bother to talk to her unless she talked to me because she was with those chads in class.

In the 5th semester of High School, I had this foid on the same group, and one of her chad friends was also int he same group as mine. For some reason her other 2 chad friends were assigned in another group. Well during that time, I was more focused on school subjects and didn't think much about dating foids, I also didn't know about the black pill or about the incel term back then. But well one day, I got a perfect score on a Physics test, I was the only one got this perfect score, and the Physics teacher let everyone know I had been the only one who had gotten a perfect score on the exam. Some classmates started me asking me for help in Physics, and also Math since I also solved all the problems assigned right in Math. So in this occassion, this foid, and one of her male friends asked me to pass the the Physics homework which was about some problems of gravity I think. I showed them my notebook and they took photos of what I had written, they thanked me, and for some reason her friend told me that this foid had a secret. This foid told me that she wanted to hug me(she never hugged me ever) because apparently in her eyes I was blonde, this seemed odd to me since I have dark hair, I'm lightskinned compared to the other spics of my country(Mexico), but this foid was an actual whitexican, lighter than me, and she dyed blonde hair. So some blonde foid saying I was blonde seemed odd to me, I really gave her no comment back, and I kept this compliment in mind for a while, somehow this foid was making me attracted to her, but I didn't wanna flirt with her because of her chad friends.

Well, when the next exam of Physics was coming, this foid asked me if I could help her on the exam because she had failed the first one and didn't wanna fail the subject. The exam was online from home for some reason despite the classes being in-person, so it was easy to cheat. I decided to help this foid because I was a simp back then. I got her whatsapp number from the class group, and when it was time for the exam, I helped her. I thought it would be easy to help her with the exam since I only had to send her what I answered on mine, but it turned out the exams had different questions for each student. I was more focused on my test than on anything else, and while I was doing my exam, this foid was sending me screenshots of the problems of her exam, I did my best to answer her questions as fast as possible, but my biggest priority was to finish mine first. I finished mine, and then helped her with the questions she had, she was sending a lot of crying emojis because she was too scared she was not gonna pass the exam if I didn't help her. I became stressed, because I was also getting messages from other classmates who wanted me to solve the problems of their exams. I helped this foid more than anyone else, but I did fail to manage to give her the answers to the last problems of her exam. The same week, this foid also asked me for help on the Math exam, and I helped her with this exam as well.

The day the results of the exams were finally published, I had scored a 9, idk what I did wrong in my exam, but I think helping others with their exams might have distracted me from responding mine correctly. This foid I had helped had scored an 8, and she thanked me for helping me. This is the moment where I think I might have been flirted by this foid. When this foid came to my desk to thank me about helping her on the exam, she asked me how much I had scored on my exam. I was talking to her, but then one of her chad friends which I also helped a bit on the exam, asked me a weird question while I talked to this foid, this guy literally asked me if this foid was my girlfriend, I obviously said no, but for some reason this foid said yes. I became nervous and didn't know what to say. I felt a weird feeling inside me, idk how to describe it, and I nervously said that she was not my girlfriend. I think I might have unintentionally friendzoned her with the nervous response I gave her. I ended this akward conversation with them and both of them did finish by being surprised about something I had told them of my grades. When I got home from school, I fapped on my bedroom thinking about her,and on the following days I had wet dreams about her. This happened one of the last weeks of the semester before winter vacations. I helped this foid once again on her final exam of Physics, and she managed to pass the subject because of my help.

On the 6th semester which was my last semester of High School, I still had this foid and her chad friend as classmates. This foid continued smilingat me in some occassions, but I never dared to flirt with her because I thought she had a boyfriend. I think she had a boyfriend, so I don't know why she would smile to me like if she wanted to flirt with me if it was the case that she had a boyfriend. She still asked me for help on the Physics exams of that semester, and I helped her because I kept simping. On the last exam of this semeter, I did help her one last time, and had my last conversation with her on whatsapp(I lost her contact because I lost my phone and had to change phone number).

I still don't know if that time this foid might have flirted with might have been some prank or if she genuinely was attracted to me. I was so stupid not to give my shot because I became nervous. I helped her to cheat on her exams for nothing. This has been the only foid that has probably flirted with me and complimented me, I've never had another foid interacting with me on this way. Maybe if I had asked her out that one time I think she might have flirted with me, I would have already had a girlfriend, and maybe fuck her, but I missed the only chance that appeared to me on my life. If I had known about the black pill back then, I would have flirted with her to avoid my inceldom. Maybe if I had a time machine, I could tell myself back then to not miss this chance. But well, I'm too nervous to flirt, and I don't think any foid will ever flirt with me. I don't know why she complimented me if I'm not attractive, maybe only because I helped her on her exams.
 
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think she was tryna use u for answers bro
 
dnr fakecel
I'm not a fakecel. No other foid has flirted with me. I am an average guy, I don't understand how an attractive foid complimented me. Maybe the explanation was because I was a dumb simp who helped her on her exams and she took advantage of me simping for her.
 
She was likely getting dicked down by Chad already.

When a girl is attracted to you, you'll know.

She used you for grades.
 
provide a tldr version
Tl;dnr: When I was in High School, there was an attractive foid on my class who asked me for help to cheat on a Physics exam because she was scared of failing the subject, and I helped her because I was a simp who didn't know about the black pil back then. I think she flirted with me once, and she did compliment me and smile at me in some occassions. I never flirted with her because she had chad friends, and I thought she already had a boyfriend. And I think this was my only chance to have a girlfriend since I've never had another similar situation like this happened to me.
 
I thought a girl flirted with me in highschool too she told other guys in my class i was handsome and cute. Turns out it was just a joke hahaha lmao le funny foid prank. She also had a bf already
 
I was talking to her, but then one of her chad friends which I also helped a bit on the exam, asked me a weird question while I talked to this foid, this guy literally asked me if this foid was my girlfriend, I obviously said no, but for some reason this foid said yes. I became nervous and didn't know what to say. I felt a weird feeling inside me, idk how to describe it, and I nervously said that she was not my girlfriend. I think I might have unintentionally friendzoned her with the nervous response I gave her
Maybe they just wanted to fluster you? this is way too weird to make sense of for me
 
Some classmates started me asking me for help in Physics, and also Math since I also solved all the problems assigned right in Math

There are some more grammar mistakes btw
 
If you are actually sub-five then she was toying with you and thought it was funny. If you are actually "an average guy" then you merely lost out on Just Be First bonus. If you are average then I don't think you are an incel to begin with, which in that case you should get off this site and try your luck. If it happened once it can happen again.
 
If you are actually sub-five then she was toying with you and thought it was funny. If you are actually "an average guy" then you merely lost out on Just Be First bonus. If you are average then I don't think you are an incel to begin with, which in that case you should get off this site and try your luck. If it happened once it can happen again.
I doubt it. I've seen how the average foid treats the average guy, and I don't wanna be mocked or bullied by foids if I try out. No hot foid is gonna want me. And a lot of us here are average, average guys can be incels for how average foids treat them.
 
Flirting, mindgames, talking, and whatever else are all lip service to women who like the power they have over men. If a woman wants someone she will make it pretty obvious. There's a lot of stories about "oh man I just couldn't understand the signals" but lets be real most women have an entire deck of men to play with in just about any social setting which is why they never have to shoot straight unless you are some kinda demigod. Your assumption that you had a chance is more banworthy than the story itself.
 
Genuine question, have you gained weight?
 
No. I've actually lost in the last years because I've been doing exercise daily.
Then it doesn't really make sense why you'd turn into an Incel now... I thought maybe facial fat was hiding your features but that's ruled out.
 
Tl;dnr: When I was in High School, there was an attractive foid on my class who asked me for help to cheat on a Physics exam because she was scared of failing the subject, and I helped her because I was a simp who didn't know about the black pil back then. I think she flirted with me once, and she did compliment me and smile at me in some occassions. I never flirted with her because she had chad friends, and I thought she already had a boyfriend. And I think this was my only chance to have a girlfriend since I've never had another similar situation like this happened to me.

So this happened over 3 years ago when I came back to in-person classes after the pandemic ended. I was 16 back then, I'm 20 now. So I've always been the quiet nerd kid in class, because I've always felt afraid of socializing with people, I hate socializing. Well, during this time in High School, I was in the 4th semester, there was this foid in my class who was pretty, she was blonde(dyed not natural), she looked like Starlight from The Boys. For some reason, I remember this foid smiling to me once, but she always hanged out with 3 of her male friends which were chads. The chads for some reason liked talking to random people in the class, and one day these chads and that foid talked to me, and they made talked to me, I think they were joking or something, but this foid smiled at me. I really didn't give much thought of this, but I had other occassions where she smiled at me. I didn't bother to talk to her unless she talked to me because she was with those chads in class.

In the 5th semester of High School, I had this foid on the same group, and one of her chad friends was also int he same group as mine. For some reason her other 2 chad friends were assigned in another group. Well during that time, I was more focused on school subjects and didn't think much about dating foids, I also didn't know about the black pill or about the incel term back then. But well one day, I got a perfect score on a Physics test, I was the only one got this perfect score, and the Physics teacher let everyone know I had been the only one who had gotten a perfect score on the exam. Some classmates started me asking me for help in Physics, and also Math since I also solved all the problems assigned right in Math. So in this occassion, this foid, and one of her male friends asked me to pass the the Physics homework which was about some problems of gravity I think. I showed them my notebook and they took photos of what I had written, they thanked me, and for some reason her friend told me that this foid had a secret. This foid told me that she wanted to hug me(she never hugged me ever) because apparently in her eyes I was blonde, this seemed odd to me since I have dark hair, I'm lightskinned compared to the other spics of my country(Mexico), but this foid was an actual whitexican, lighter than me, and she dyed blonde hair. So some blonde foid saying I was blonde seemed odd to me, I really gave her no comment back, and I kept this compliment in mind for a while, somehow this foid was making me attracted to her, but I didn't wanna flirt with her because of her chad friends.

Well, when the next exam of Physics was coming, this foid asked me if I could help her on the exam because she had failed the first one and didn't wanna fail the subject. The exam was online from home for some reason despite the classes being in-person, so it was easy to cheat. I decided to help this foid because I was a simp back then. I got her whatsapp number from the class group, and when it was time for the exam, I helped her. I thought it would be easy to help her with the exam since I only had to send her what I answered on mine, but it turned out the exams had different questions for each student. I was more focused on my test than on anything else, and while I was doing my exam, this foid was sending me screenshots of the problems of her exam, I did my best to answer her questions as fast as possible, but my biggest priority was to finish mine first. I finished mine, and then helped her with the questions she had, she was sending a lot of crying emojis because she was too scared she was not gonna pass the exam if I didn't help her. I became stressed, because I was also getting messages from other classmates who wanted me to solve the problems of their exams. I helped this foid more than anyone else, but I did fail to manage to give her the answers to the last problems of her exam. The same week, this foid also asked me for help on the Math exam, and I helped her with this exam as well.

The day the results of the exams were finally published, I had scored a 9, idk what I did wrong in my exam, but I think helping others with their exams might have distracted me from responding mine correctly. This foid I had helped had scored an 8, and she thanked me for helping me. This is the moment where I think I might have been flirted by this foid. When this foid came to my desk to thank me about helping her on the exam, she asked me how much I had scored on my exam. I was talking to her, but then one of her chad friends which I also helped a bit on the exam, asked me a weird question while I talked to this foid, this guy literally asked me if this foid was my girlfriend, I obviously said no, but for some reason this foid said yes. I became nervous and didn't know what to say. I felt a weird feeling inside me, idk how to describe it, and I nervously said that she was not my girlfriend. I think I might have unintentionally friendzoned her with the nervous response I gave her. I ended this akward conversation with them and both of them did finish by being surprised about something I had told them of my grades. When I got home from school, I fapped on my bedroom thinking about her,and on the following days I had wet dreams about her. This happened one of the last weeks of the semester before winter vacations. I helped this foid once again on her final exam of Physics, and she managed to pass the subject because of my help.

On the 6th semester which was my last semester of High School, I still had this foid and her chad friend as classmates. This foid continued smilingat me in some occassions, but I never dared to flirt with her because I thought she had a boyfriend. I think she had a boyfriend, so I don't know why she would smile to me like if she wanted to flirt with me if it was the case that she had a boyfriend. She still asked me for help on the Physics exams of that semester, and I helped her because I kept simping. On the last exam of this semeter, I did help her one last time, and had my last conversation with her on whatsapp(I lost her contact because I lost my phone and had to change phone number).

I still don't know if that time this foid might have flirted with might have been some prank or if she genuinely was attracted to me. I was so stupid not to give my shot because I became nervous. I helped her to cheat on her exams for nothing. This has been the only foid that has probably flirted with me and complimented me, I've never had another foid interacting with me on this way. Maybe if I had asked her out that one time I think she might have flirted with me, I would have already had a girlfriend, and maybe fuck her, but I missed the only chance that appeared to me on my life. If I had known about the black pill back then, I would have flirted with her to avoid my inceldom. Maybe if I had a time machine, I could tell myself back then to not miss this chance. But well, I'm too nervous to flirt, and I don't think any foid will ever flirt with me. I don't know why she complimented me if I'm not attractive, maybe only because I helped her on her exams.
she would have told you to get lost as soon as you asked her out, it is an ego thing.
 
When I was in 1st-2nd grade I was considered cute because I was short, had round glasses and innocent so I had 2-3 female friends but nothing crazy ever happened
 
Find her again and give her a swift headbutt for not being forward enough.
 

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