But money will never hug you and never prevent you from being lonely
What do you mean by "lonely"?, I'm serious, you guys are never specific and I think that's on purpose because you yourself can't define it
Let me in turn be specific about what I mean when I say this
Example 1:
Lets say there is a Chad who only pumps and dumps, he fucks a new woman every week, never dates short term or long term, and never settles down
Will he be "lonely" because he's not "in a relationship"?
Or will he not even think about such a concept because his life is so physically satisfying?
Example 2:
Lets say there is a guy who is in a relationship but his GF is never really "emotionally intimate", they just hang out, go out on dates and have sex, but she never says anything like "I love you" or "looks at him with love" or anything like that
Will he be "lonely" even whilst being in a relationship because his GF isn't "emotionally intimate"?
When you guys bring up loneliness I really don't know what the fuck you're talking about, because so long as I can afford to live comfortably, eat great food, and fuck a 6 or a 7 once a week, I would not want for anything else in the world
I think "loneliness" is just something made up by people who haven't even gotten the bare minimum, so they don't realize that once they get to a point in which they can have their base needs met, they won't want for much of anything else
You are deprived of your base needs, so you think you "want more", but if you were being sexually satisfied every day with no emotional attachment you would not give a fuck and you would not "feel lonely"
Or maybe I'm projecting, but I definitely would not (I don't even feel "lonely" now, I really just want sex and an easy life). I just want to have my physical needs met with minimal effort required. If I was rich and had passive income streams I would not be a part the forum. In fact I think when I get to that point (hopefully) I'll be hitting that "Disable account" button and leaving for good after posting a goodbye thread
I think even you will learn this someday.
I think you are projecting your emotional mindset onto others, and I'll go even further to say that you only have this emotional mindset because you haven't had your base needs satisfied on a consistent basis, to even come to the realization that you would be able to thoroughly enjoy life without any emotional attachments whatsoever if your physical needs were being met on a regular basis
This is similar to how so many of you guys over value women and their worth, and overvalue to act of sex as something "sacred" or "pure", because you never simply paid for sex and proved to yourself that its just a simple act of enjoyment between two consenting adults. Its not special, women aren't special, people aren't special, and interacting with people isn't special
You overvalue these things because you've never even gotten a true taste of them, you've never had them in abundance, none of us have, but some of us are self aware enough to know that if they did they wouldn't care for much of anything again, they'd be completely satisfied
Once again, maybe I'm just projecting my mindset, but I don't think the average man cares much for all this emotional garbage, and so long as we can have our sexual needs met on a consistent basis we won't even think about things like "loneliness"
I think men like you falsely conflate your sexual yearnings and your sexual starvation with something emotional, and you delude yourself into thinking you are lacking some kind of emotional interaction, but if you were having your sexual needs met in an interaction/agreement that was devoid of emotions, you would never "feel lonely"
These thoughts only come into the minds of men who aren't being physically satisfied on a consistent basis