
Sir Silentium
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I don't have my face as my pfp or under any other displays on social media so there is no possibility that anyone can identify what I look like. As soon as a show my face it ruins the whole thing.
I was texting a female for about 4 months, daily. She wasn't really texting first but she was engaging and replying with the same amount of effort as I was typing. She brang up about adding her on snap and I declined a few times. It got to the point where I didn't really have an option without sounding like a looser. I ended up adding her and she sends a fantastic photo, 9/10. I knew that this would be my only chance to make a good impression physically; I went in the pool, kept my hair wet, went into the sun with no shadows or overcast and spent a few very narcissistic minutes trying to make my photo look the best I could. I ended up with a absolutely frauded photo but who cares, I then sent it.
I she didn't unadd me. Just since then, over the course of a few days, it all feel off dramatically. Since the picture she stopped engaging and only replied with 1 - 5 words. I knew this was my only chance I may ever have with someone I would willingly go with, so I kept texting, until it eventually faded. This all occurred a few months ago.
More recently, I was talking to a female for a week or so. I then sent her a face picture of who I am and got an instant unadd.
In the future I will try and meet them in person and never send any camera distorted pictures. The only thing is, they will be reluctant to see you in person if they don't know what you look like, and there is a great possibility that they may leave you in the dust, in public.
Any advice?
I was texting a female for about 4 months, daily. She wasn't really texting first but she was engaging and replying with the same amount of effort as I was typing. She brang up about adding her on snap and I declined a few times. It got to the point where I didn't really have an option without sounding like a looser. I ended up adding her and she sends a fantastic photo, 9/10. I knew that this would be my only chance to make a good impression physically; I went in the pool, kept my hair wet, went into the sun with no shadows or overcast and spent a few very narcissistic minutes trying to make my photo look the best I could. I ended up with a absolutely frauded photo but who cares, I then sent it.
I she didn't unadd me. Just since then, over the course of a few days, it all feel off dramatically. Since the picture she stopped engaging and only replied with 1 - 5 words. I knew this was my only chance I may ever have with someone I would willingly go with, so I kept texting, until it eventually faded. This all occurred a few months ago.
More recently, I was talking to a female for a week or so. I then sent her a face picture of who I am and got an instant unadd.
In the future I will try and meet them in person and never send any camera distorted pictures. The only thing is, they will be reluctant to see you in person if they don't know what you look like, and there is a great possibility that they may leave you in the dust, in public.
Any advice?