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Serious Super low sex drive - porn no longer makes me horny at all

Awoo

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Has anyone else here gotten to a point where they have watched so much porn and masturbated so many times without having sex that they no longer get turned on at all watching porn and in fact have hardly any sex drive at all? I still masturbate most days but honestly I think at this point it has just become more out of habit that anything sexually gratifying. I am 30 years old I think living a solitary life just masturbating to porn daily has totally killed my sense of libido.

Can anyone else relate? Do you think it really is that porn has caused this? Or do you think I maybe have just got low T? or something else?
 
It's been doing less and less for me over the years.
 
Not quite there yet
 
Your sexuality is probably destroyed beyond repair my brocel
 
Being depressed and angry/envious obliterates my sex drive completely. Being horny and being able to enjoy sex is for happy people.
 
Has anyone else here gotten to a point where they have watched so much porn and masturbated so many times without having sex that they no longer get turned on at all watching porn and in fact have hardly any sex drive at all? I still masturbate most days but honestly I think at this point it has just become more out of habit that anything sexually gratifying. I am 30 years old I think living a solitary life just masturbating to porn daily has totally killed my sense of libido.

Can anyone else relate? Do you think it really is that porn has caused this? Or do you think I maybe have just got low T? or something else?

Two simple questions:
1. What categories do you watch?

2. Have you tried watching from a different category


I noticed that after a while a certain category would not arouse me at all and I'd have to go to something else, and then when I go back to it months later its like its brand new and its arousing again

Its probably just that your mind has gotten used to that specific kind of stimulation

For example if all you watch is vanilla porn featuring mostly white actors, then its not surprising that after a while its no longer arousing to you

Try some rape porn (especially JAV), try some hentai 2D or 3D, try something other than whatever you are watching most of the time


Here's a good start:
 
Honestly I'm starting to feel this way as well. It's surreal because I always had a massive libido that made me fantasize a lot when I was teen. I can still feel it a bit, though, but it's really been blunted. I'm thinking I may as well just quit, but I have it as a habit as well. Probably a result of loneliness and too much ldar.
 
It's been doing less and less for me over the years.

I remember when I thought the same thing, but its more like I was just consuming too much similar content

This is exactly why I download porn and sort them into folders by category, once you get tired of one thing you move on to the other and cycle through them, that way you never get tired.
 
Do not watch porn
I remember when I thought the same thing, but its more like I was just consuming too much similar content

This is exactly why I download porn and sort them into folders by category, once you get tired of one thing you move on to the other and cycle through them, that way you never get tired.
Thats a very easy way to develop nasty fetishes and deviancy
 
My libido is probably somewhere in the middle. Honestly, I'm jealous of you, I wish I didn't have a libido because it'd save me a lot of time and money.
 
Stop beating your dick for a month and you'll be fine
 
Thats a very easy way to develop nasty fetishes and deviancy

1. You don't "develop" fetishes, you discover them

Nobody is going to start jerking off to gay porn unless they were already a faggot to begin with, so whenever I hear responses like this I can only assume the individual (you in this case) is afraid of what they may be attracted to based on thoughts they've already had and repressed

I'm never going to be into scat, or trans, or gay, etc, and I'm not worried about that ever happening, so no, I don't get your point

This just reminds me of the whole "prison gay" excuse, it doesn't work like that, if you go to prison and end up fucking guys in the ass you were always a faggot, you didn't "develop" faggotry, you discovered you were a faggot lol


2. If not for doing this I never would have discovered my rape fetish, which is probably the core reason I have no problem paying for sex (being a hookercel) as I'm barely aroused by "consensuality". So yeah, it only made being an incel easier in my case, it was a huge positive for me.

Here's a great video to check out (rape porn), one of my favs right now
(Believable plot, actual decent acting, its surprising this was a porn video tbh)
@Awoo



I wish I didn't have a libido because it'd save me a lot of time and money.

It takes like 30 mins out of your super busy day as an incel to masturbate (nobody is forcing you to "edge" for hours and waste time), and porn is free. So I'm really confused by your response
 
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1. You don't "develop" fetishes, you discover them

Nobody is going to start jerking off to gay porn unless they were already a faggot to begin with, so whenever I hear responses like this I can only assume the individual (you in this case) is afraid of what they may be attracted to based on thoughts they've already had and repressed

I'm never going to be into scat, or trans, or gay, etc, and I'm not worried about that ever happening, so no, I don't get your point

This just reminds me of the whole "prison gay" excuse, it doesn't work like that, if you go to prison and end up fucking guys in the ass you were always a faggot, you didn't "develop" faggotry, you discovered you were a faggot lol


2. If not for doing this I never would have discovered my rape fetish, which is probably the core reason I have no problem paying for sex (being a hookercel) as I'm barely aroused by "consensuality". So yeah, it only made being an incel easier in my case, it was a huge positive for me.

Here's a great video to check out (rape porn), one of my favs right now
(Believable plot, actual decent acting, its surprising this was a porn video tbh)
@Awoo





It takes like 30 mins out of your super busy day as an incel to masturbate (nobody is forcing you to "edge" for hours and waste time), and porn is free. So I'm really confused by your response
Thats a lot of words bro
 
Porn sucks nowadays. It's harder and harder to find good stuff.
 
yeah, i was super horny at 13 or 14 but now i've become asexual (actually low libido) im 17 atm btw still fapping to release stress
Same although I dont even masturbate. I cant relate to anyone who says they're horny all the time including brocels. I have a non-existant libido ATM. Thought it might be low T related but my levels are normal so it can only be due to my mental health issues.

I feel like a fucking freak missing an essential part of masculinity. I fucking hate myself.
 
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You masturbate everyday, maybe that’s why
 
I haven’t watched porn or Fap in +500 days and my libido still exist ya might need to stay away from porn for now or else ya discover a fetish and end up thinking ya like when ya don’t and it will be more suifuel on top of inceldom
Stop beating your dick for a month and you'll be fine
 
I'm now 5 days from my last fap.

This by far the longest I have gone without jerking off for over 15 years.

No difference as yet.
 
I'm now 5 days from my last fap.

This by far the longest I have gone without jerking off for over 15 years.

No difference as yet.


I had to go like 2 weeks clean before any kind of sexual drive came back
 
What happened to me is worse. Super high libido but screwed dopamine i.e. I can't reach climax unless I wait a lot and/or fap to extreme stuff.
 
1. You don't "develop" fetishes, you discover them

Nobody is going to start jerking off to gay porn unless they were already a faggot to begin with, so whenever I hear responses like this I can only assume the individual (you in this case) is afraid of what they may be attracted to based on thoughts they've already had and repressed

I'm never going to be into scat, or trans, or gay, etc, and I'm not worried about that ever happening, so no, I don't get your point

This just reminds me of the whole "prison gay" excuse, it doesn't work like that, if you go to prison and end up fucking guys in the ass you were always a faggot, you didn't "develop" faggotry, you discovered you were a faggot lol


2. If not for doing this I never would have discovered my rape fetish, which is probably the core reason I have no problem paying for sex (being a hookercel) as I'm barely aroused by "consensuality". So yeah, it only made being an incel easier in my case, it was a huge positive for me.

Here's a great video to check out (rape porn), one of my favs right now
(Believable plot, actual decent acting, its surprising this was a porn video tbh)
@Awoo





It takes like 30 mins out of your super busy day as an incel to masturbate (nobody is forcing you to "edge" for hours and waste time), and porn is free. So I'm really confused by your response
You have no idea. The subreddit r/strugglefucking was great for this stuff, one of tge few good things reddit was good for. I sorely miss it
 
You have no idea. The subreddit r/strugglefucking was great for this stuff, one of tge few good things reddit was good for. I sorely miss it
Blame r/BanFemaleHateSubs for that sub getting banned.

What happened to me is worse. Super high libido but screwed dopamine i.e. I can't reach climax unless I wait a lot and/or fap to extreme stuff.
Interesting. Would you say that contributed to you seeking god and the higher metaphysical things in life?
 
You have no idea. The subreddit r/strugglefucking was great for this stuff, one of tge few good things reddit was good for. I sorely miss it

JFL I use to talk to the mod a few times, think his name was "pappy" something. I only just realized it was gone a few days ago tbh, I'd usually go there to find new rape porn sources, and I went to look for something new only to see that it was banned, looking for an alternative
What happened to me is worse. Super high libido but screwed dopamine i.e. I can't reach climax unless I wait a lot and/or fap to extreme stuff.

Pretty sure if you just avoided porn for a few months that would go away
 

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