The only three I can think of are all by women, but they're all from the 1900s before all women became hypergamous sluts, and it's a far cry from the bullshit known as "pop music" today, so I think it's okay.
Billie Holiday - Gloomy Sunday
Nena - 99 Red Balloons (pretty upbeat but the ending is depressing)
Mary Hopkin - Those Were The Days
Also, it's not a song per se, but check out the album "Everywhere at the end of time" by the Caretaker (not a foid), if you have 6 and a half hours to spare. It'll put you through all the emotions: nostalgia, fear, confusion, depression, emptiness.
Roy Orbison - It's Over (maybe a good Incel anthem, but the lyrics suggest the singer had been in a relationship so maybe not)