Serious Stop believing in the stereotypes about us.

[San Salvador]

If you're a sexually unsuccessful man and say that you're a unsuccessful because you're ugly and/or short, people start making several assumptions about you, like:

• You are lazy and never try.
• You want everything handed to you without any effort.
• You are hindered by your own pessimism.
• You are a rude person.
• You hate women.
• You have violent tendencies.

However, if you deny that your looks and/or height are hindering you, none of these characteristics are attributed to you. There are literally thousands of examples of men who possess the opposite of these characteristics and who are still unsuccessful, and there are also thousands of examples of men who do possess all of these characteristics and are still unsuccessful. Yet, every one of us is assumed to belong to the latter category. I've seen NFKRZ's video about incels where he claims that he was an incel because he never tried. There are countless people who claim similar things about every single one of us online.

There are incels who've been rejected by literally hundreds of women.

There are incels who work full-time jobs, go to the gym, have hobbies, and try their hardest to live a normal life.

Our pessimism developed because of our circumstances, not the other way around. Also, optimism doesn't solve anything unless something is done.

There are incels who are considered genuinely good people by their real life friends.

There are incels who don't hate women.

There are incels who are not a danger to either themselves or society.

This is an incel:

• Incel: Person who is not in a relationship nor has had sex in a significant amount of time, despite numerous attempts.

This is the only characteristic applicable to all incels.

Here are examples of what incels as a group aren't:

• Incels are NOT stereotypical Nice Guys who believe that every woman must sleep with them because they're nice to them. Some incels are stereotypical Nice Guys, but that doesn't give you the right to generalise every one of us.
• Incels are NOT racists or white supremacists. Half of this forum is non-white. Some incels are white supremacists and racists, but that that doesn't give you the right to say that every incel is.
• Incels are NOT misogynists. Some incels are misogynists, but that doesn't give you the right to call every incel a misogynist.
• Incels are NOT violent. Some incels post their violent fantasies here, but that doesn't give you the right to say that every one of us has one.

When you say something along the lines of:
You are referring to me, a person who DOESN'T believe that women are property, and to any other incel who also doesn't.

I'M GENUINELY SICK AND TIRED OF BEING ASSOCIATED WITH ATROCIOUS ACTS THAT I DO NOT CONDONE IN THE SLIGHTEST!!!

I self-identify as an incel because I believe that looks, money, and status are the most important things when it comes to sexual success, and incels are the group of people who understand this the most. If you think that I'm wrong, then prove me wrong with scientific evidence and studies, rather than insult me. Even if I didn't call myself an incel, you still wouldn't be fond of me because of how brutally unfair I deem this world.

 

[Evildoer]

Incels are NOT misogynists. Some incels are misogynists, but that doesn't give you the right to call every incel a misogynist.

I'm not, but frustration towards femoids from those being mocked/rejected by them throughout life is completely understandable.

Incels are NOT violent. Some incels post their violent fantasies here, but that doesn't give you the right to say that every one of us has one.

And this too.

 

[happiless]

You mean stop acting like the stereotypes about us? Easier said than done. Year after year of being alive as an incel takes its toll on us. It's hard to be a "nice person" to the people who treat you like shit for existing.

 

[heroinfather]

cringe, IT doesn't give a fuck about u

 

[theultimate341]

IT doesn't give a fuck about u

 

[big nose bug eyes]

Just lol, incels ARE racist and sexist. You can't be blackpilled without being both.

Who are you pleading with to stop believing stereotypes of incels?

And who cares what other people think? We're already at rock bottom posting on an obscure forum for lonely depressed men. If people call us racist, sexist, etc. just own it. It's the nature of society to bring down incels and label them with undesirable traits in order to keep the sheep away from discovering blackpills.

The thing is when you come to this forum, you can either believe the blackpills that are supplemented with hundreds of studies, tinder experiments, and real life proof, or you can just cope and create excuses. That's what IT does, they are master copers trying to refute everything incels say by creating a strawman. "Well, I'M average looking and I have no trouble picking up girls" says the 3/10 cuck in a relationship with a tubby landwhale.

So yeah, shit thread OP. sorry.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I think we need more threads like this, not because it is possible for IT to be reasonable (will not happen) but because there are and will be a lot of normies around that legit have no idea what inceldom is, and this kind of posts are perfect for them.

 

[Deleted member 8]

You mean stop acting like the stereotypes about us? Easier said than done. Year after year of being alive as an incel takes its toll on us. It's hard to be a "nice person" to the people who treat you like shit for existing.

That's the funny thing about those hypocrites. Before I overdosed on blackpills and went crazy, I would politely ask people to refrain from mocking men for being short or ugly or virgins etc.

They acted like I was asking them to jump off a cliff. Society doesn't even make a minimal effort to treat us as human, yet we are expected to behave ourselves 24/7 and never offend them. What are we, their slaves? Fuck them.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Just lol, incels ARE racist and sexist. You can't be blackpilled without being both.

Who are you pleading with to stop believing stereotypes of incels?

And who cares what other people think? We're already at rock bottom posting on an obscure forum for lonely depressed men. If people call us racist, sexist, etc. just own it. It's the nature of society to bring down incels and label them with undesirable traits in order to keep the sheep away from discovering blackpills.

The thing is when you come to this forum, you can either believe the blackpills that are supplemented with hundreds of studies, tinder experiments, and real life proof, or you can just cope and create excuses. That's what IT does, they are master copers trying to refute everything incels say by creating a strawman. "Well, I'M average looking and I have no trouble picking up girls" says the 3/10 cuck in a relationship with a tubby landwhale.

So yeah, shit thread OP. sorry.

How am I racist or sexist if I'm blackpilled? I don't see different ethnic groups as equal but it's not a universal view for me meaning that I see, say, Indians as inferior in everything to whites. If I say that women aren't as athletic as men in general, that's not sexist, it's backed by studies. (This is more of a response to PC cucks reading this than to you as they think if you believe that the races and sexes have differences in ability, you're a "Nazi".)

 

[Alone75]

It's easier to believe all the crap than admit women are generally more picky and shallow in who they choose for a male sexual partner and only the top few percent of men are privileged.

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

I hate people generally speaking, so of course I'm not particularly racist or mysoginist tbh

 

[acnescarcel]

people are just so politically correct they can't stand our unpolitically correctness.

 

[LebaneseCel]

High IQ post. Should be pinned tbh.

 

[Mr100]

Excellent post and true.

However - most non incels who visit this forum and browse briefly at the thread titles and one or two random threads will be persuaded their beliefs and prejudices are correct. Once glance tell me there are threads about under age sex - there's another advocating harrassing women - anti feminism - another thread where incels are laughing their heads off about an incel who scared a girl in the street etc etc threads and posts urging incels to rape and the site is rife with derogatory racial and sexist terminology.

OP you obviously dont fit the stereotype - but most on here do.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

You mean stop acting like the stereotypes about us? Easier said than done. Year after year of being alive as an incel takes its toll on us. It's hard to be a "nice person" to the people who treat you like shit for existing.

That's the funny thing about those hypocrites. Before I overdosed on blackpills and went crazy, I would politely ask people to refrain from mocking men for being short or ugly or virgins etc.

They acted like I was asking them to jump off a cliff. Society doesn't even make a minimal effort to treat us as human, yet we are expected to behave ourselves 24/7 and never offend them. What are we, their slaves? Fuck them.

Yes we can either accept being their slaves or rope.

 

[FeminismsCancer]

cringe, IT doesn't give a fuck about u

This. JFL @ virtue signalling so hard

 

[Shithole Dweller]

Preaching to the choir and cucking to outsider's standards. Get over it.