I am going to be starting college in a few weeks. I always see people talking about how they wish they could have done things or tried things when they still had the time. I am going to be 19 soon and I know it all goes to shit when I reach my mid 20s. I know its most likely over but I want to say that I have at least tried a bit in supposedly the last real time in your life to actually even attempt to ascend. I have bought nicer name brand clothes and I'm hoping to at least blend in with the normies and not make this as miserable of an experience as some people say its going to be for an incel. I have already decided to live at home for my duration since it would be hell to have to bunk with a chad and watch that everyday or deal with other peoples schedules and have to live with them. Older cels what advice would you give to someone starting university?
Don't start.
Really it depends if you can handle living in that environment. I guess it's different because you are living at home, but since most people probably live on campus, being on campus is like being immersed in the normie matrix. I don't go to school, but whenever I've been on a college campus I feel like I'm in a different world. It's all a big self contained culture, with a heirarchy that you're sure to be at the bottom of. Especially considering that you're posting here and you're not even 19 yet jfl.
It's going to be harder for you to make friends, because you won't have a roommate. You might want to try a club or something. In fact, you definitely will want to at least try it.
If you don't already, go to the gym. If you have any athletic inclination, you will be thankful that you did and it will help move you forward through your time in college. College gyms are usually free, and you won't ever find another free gym in your life after college. Not to mention that college gyms are much better than commercial gyms. Also, people are less likely to mess with someone who is strong.
Try the workout program called "strong lifts 5x5". It's simple for beginners, but also effective at building strength and muscle.
One other thing, this is a little more personal to you and it depends on your own ability to get things done: Make sure that you have a plan for your education. If you have a habit of procrastinating, or you weren't sure about the idea of college to begin with and are only going because your parents are making you, then make sure you have a plan for your education and that you stick to it.
Let me be honest with you, college can be suifuel. People are going to be fucking here more than ever, and it will be pretty blatant, and if you are living with them you will probably hear it at least once.
This is where chads reign and put their dark triad personalities to the test. College can be very socially competitive(just like highschool), because for those who have sex, so much can be gained and so much is at stake.
YOU need to have a strategy to handle these pressures. You're in school for an education/path to a career. Make sure that you get one before you leave.
Sorry in advance if this doesn't apply entirely to you. Hopefully any other youngcels will see this and learn something.
Also, if you really don't like that school in particular, remember that you can transfer to another school. It's better to transfer than to dropout.