Discussion Some people on here don't understand the actual meaning of the word 'cope'

[Logic55]

It's ridiculous how everything an incel does it called a cope.
-For example, if an incel is playing his favorite video game, it's a "cope"
-If an incel invests money in the stock market to generate more money, it's a "cope"
-if an incel wants to brush teeth, it's a "cope"
-if an incel eats his favorite snack when he feels hungry, it's a "cope"
-if an incel is taking a walk, it's a "cope"
-if an incel is studying for an exam, it's a "cope"
-if an incel is reading a book, it's a "cope"
-if an incel is watching the waves flowing at the beach, it's a "cope"

These are things that normal people do. These are things are not exclusive to sexhavers or incels. A cope is when you do something to distract yourself from inceldom. For example, if I'm desperate for sex, and I watch porn for hours and jack off excessively, it's a cope. If I feel sad because I don't get pussy, and I eat a shit load of goyslop to make myself feel better, it's a cope. Irl, I don't watch penquinzo on YouTube because I'm sad that I'm a KHHV, I watch him because he's funny and entertaining. During my free time, I sometimes watch penquinzO aka Moistcritical, being a KHHV has nothing to do with this. When someone doesn't care About romance and sex, there is no need to cope because they don't feel bad anymore. I always laugh whenever people say that I'm coping just by doing some everyday things like brushing my teeth or cooking a healthy meal to avoid sugar spikes which are exacerbated by my high blood pressure. It's unbelievable that some people are that retarded to say dumb, ignorant shit like, "You hang out with your co-workers? You are coping" l

 

[Qizarate]

Cope is the other word for distraction as viewed by Pascal.
I understand why some apply it to every aspect of his life.

 

[TheTroonAnnihilator]

Your breathing? thats a cope

 

[Logic55]

Cope is the other word for distraction as viewed by Pascal.
I understand why some apply it to every aspect of his life.

applying it to evert aspect of life is stupid, that's not how people are supposed use the word cope, lmfao

 

[Logic55]

Your breathing? thats a cope

Yup, according to some incels, breathing is a cope because it means you would rather stay alive than to rope. For some incels, it's either cope or rope.That's not how I view it.

 

[ElTruecel]

Nt Incels are retarded u can see this on .org too. I’ve seen deluded Incels get some ego trip despite being subhumans

 

[Horatio1]

-if an incel wants to brush teeth, it's a "cope"

ahem @Saysitsover

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

cope

 

[Logic55]

ahem @Saysitsover

I brush my teeth everyday, is that a problem?

 

[Horatio1]

I brush my teeth everyday, is that a problem?

No. I'm just saying he has that problem

 

[Logic55]

No. I'm just saying he has that problem

Fuck teeth rotting, that's repulsive. Teeth rotters are degenerate

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

because they have low self-esteem and depression, and therefore experience anything enjoyable as just papering over the cracks

the same way as bpd foids seek attention and degen stimulation to escape temporarily from their own self-loathing

but not every incel will feel the same way

 

[Horatio1]

Fuck teeth rotting, that's repulsive. Teeth rotters are degenerate

I brush my teeth twice everyday

 

[Logic55]

because they have low self-esteem and depression, and therefore experience anything enjoyable as just papering over the cracks

the same way as bpd foids seek attention and degen stimulation to escape temporarily from their own self-loathing

but not every incel will feel the same way

Some incels on here tell me that they are jealous because I'm NT, I have a job, I go to college, and I have a lot of money for my age. They want me to rot 24/7, no way. I'm living a carefree life, and I like it.

 

[based_meme]

Cope is the other word for distraction as viewed by Pascal.
I understand why some apply it to every aspect of his life.

In a strict sense this is true. When your most basic of needs is not met you engage in various activities to distract yourself from the activity you would otherwise be partaking in, namely doing things with your woman (not just sex, but any other activity).

When you go the movies as an incel it's cope. When you're doing it with your woman as a normie it's not a cope. But the copes are different. While going to the movies is a cope for the incel, a different activity would be a cope for the normie. The normie might go to the bar and get drunk, for example, to cope with other problems in his life.

 

[Sonicfancel]

everything is a cope

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

When you go the movies as an incel it's cope

guys go to films because they enjoy them, even before puberty or sexual interest in foids is a thing

males have interests and enjoy things even if they're not into foids

normal male interests are not a 'cope'

 

[Logic55]

In a strict sense this is true. When your most basic of needs is not met you engage in various activities to distract yourself from the activity you would otherwise be partaking in, namely doing things with your woman (not just sex, but any other activity).

When you go the movies as an incel it's cope. When you're doing it with your woman as a normie it's not a cope. But the copes are different. While going to the movies is a cope for the incel, a different activity would be a cope for the normie. The normie might go to the bar and get drunk, for example, to cope with other problems in his life.

I disagree. If a KHHV plays GTA 5 online for fun, he is not coping, if a Chad/sexhaver.plays GTA 5 online for fun, it's not a cope. Doing normal everyday activities is not coping, it doesn't matter if they are Chad or KHHV.

 

[Yunez.Belgrade]

In a strict sense this is true. When your most basic of needs is not met you engage in various activities to distract yourself from the activity you would otherwise be partaking in, namely doing things with your woman (not just sex, but any other activity).

When you go the movies as an incel it's cope. When you're doing it with your woman as a normie it's not a cope. But the copes are different. While going to the movies is a cope for the incel, a different activity would be a cope for the normie. The normie might go to the bar and get drunk, for example, to cope with other problems in his life.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

UR MOTHER COULDN'T COPE

LAST NIGHT

IN BED

 

[based_meme]

guys go to films because they enjoy them, even before puberty or sexual interest in foids is a thing

males have interests and enjoy things even if they're not into foids

normal male interests are not a 'cope'

I disagree. If a KHHV plays GTA 5 online for fun, he is not coping, if a Chad/sexhaver.plays GTA 5 online for fun, it's not a cope. Doing normal everyday activities is not coping, it doesn't matter if they are Chad or KHHV.

Incel goes to the movies or plays GTA5 online (in real life) because he doesn't have the choice to be banging his crush or other cute girls. Chad goes to the movies or plays GTA 5 online (in real life) as a leisure choice.

Chad has options. He watches a movie as an excuse to get a girl out and have sex with her, but he doesn't need to go to a movie to do that. He plays video games because he just had sex and doesn't want to listen to his girlfriend nagging, so he logs in and spends some time with the boys.

While chad has every option available to him, the incel is pigeonholed into these activities, because if he had a choice, he'd would be spending time with a girl, and it's not even a choice to contemplate.

 

[Logic55]

Incel goes to the movies or plays GTA5 online (in real life) because he doesn't have the choice to be banging his crush or other cute girls. Chad goes to the movies or plays GTA 5 online (in real life) as a leisure choice.

i don't play GTA online with my online friends because i feel sad about not having a gf, i play gta5 online during my free time because its strictly something that I enjoy doing, therefore, its not a cope. Even if had gf, i would still play gta5 when i want to have fun.

 

[based_meme]

i don't play GTA online with my online friends because i feel sad about not having a gf, i play gta5 online during my free time because its strictly something that I enjoy doing, therefore, its not a cope. Even if had gf, i would still play gta5 when i want to have fun.

That's great, but if you had a girlfriend and, thus, had the choice to be spending time with your girlfriend, would you still rather be playing video games?

 

[Enigmaz]

Life is just one big cope. We are all distracting ourselves from inevitable death. Think about it.

 

[Roastie Crusher]

i don't play GTA online with my online friends because i feel sad about not having a gf, i play gta5 online during my free time because its strictly something that I enjoy doing, therefore, its not a cope. Even if had gf, i would still play gta5 when i want to have fun.

It's just a jew psych term used to say you're facing your problems. So I guess many here have inverted it to basically say not facing your problems.

 

[Logic55]

It's just a jew psych term used to say you're facing your problems. So I guess many here have inverted it to basically say not facing your problems.

I don't play gta5 online to face my problems, lmfao, I do it for fun

 

[Logic55]

That's great, but if you had a girlfriend and, thus, had the choice to be spending time with your girlfriend, would you still rather be playing video games?

If I was a Chad, I wouldn't want to be spending time with my gf every single day, I need some alone time to play video games, hang out with my male friends, exercise, and do other hobbies that I enjoy doing. It's not normal to see your gf every day.

 

[over_department]

Your breathing? thats a cope

 

[based_meme]

If I was a Chad, I wouldn't want to be spending time with my gf every single day, I need some alone time to play video games, hang out with my male friends, exercise, and do other hobbies that I enjoy doing. It's not normal to see your gf every day.

It's not normal to be alone and playing video games every day either. The cope comes in when you're doing the act when you'd rather be doing something else (like fucking your girl), but you can't so you keep doing the act to keep yourself distracted and occupied.

When you have the options you can have balance. When you have balance you don't need to cope, because coping is psychologically dealing with some difficulty you're going through by attempting to trick, convince and distract yourself from the reality of whatever is bothering you. Coping is the psychological compensation for some kind of deficit in your life.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

If I was a Chad, I wouldn't want to be spending time with my gf every single day, I need some alone time to play video games, hang out with my male friends, exercise, and do other hobbies that I enjoy doing. It's not normal to see your gf every day.

people often do see their gf every day, especially when they live with her or go to college/work with her

but they don't usually spend all day with her

they do other stuff, like meet friends, play games, do whatever hobbies, etc., because they enjoy it and might have done it from an early age, just like incels

 

[copemaxx9002]

Life is just one big cope. We are all distracting ourselves from inevitable death. Think about it.

 

[Logic55]

It's not normal to be alone and playing video games every day either. The cope comes in when you're doing the act when you'd rather be doing something else (like fucking your girl), but you can't so you keep doing the act to keep yourself distracted and occupied.

When you have the options you can have balance. When you have balance you don't need to cope, because coping is psychologically dealing with some difficulty you're going through by attempting to trick, convince and distract yourself from the reality of whatever is bothering you. Coping is the psychological compensation for some kind of deficit in your life.

As a KHHV I don't play video games everyday, I do other things like work, go to classes, spend time with friends, hang out with co-workers, exercising, cooking, driving, visiting relatives, etc. btw sexhavers don't have sex everyday. Sexhavers need alone time too. I don't do all of these things because I'm KHHV, these are normal everyday activities that all people do regardless if they have a gf or not.

 

[Logic55]

people often do see their gf every day, especially when they live with her or go to college/work with her

That's excessive

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

That's excessive

in your opinion, but it's not uncommon

do you think that husbands also don't see their wives on most days?

 

[Logic55]

in your opinion, but it's not uncommon

do you think that husbands also don't see their wives on most days?

That's because they are married, married people usually live together. I don't even have a car and I'm too busy to see my gf everyday if I did have one.

 

[based_meme]

As a KHHV I don't play video games everyday, I do other things like work, go to classes, spend time with friends, hang out with co-workers, exercising, cooking, driving, visiting relatives, etc. btw sexhavers don't have sex everyday. Sexhavers need alone time too. I don't do all of these things because I'm KHHV, these are normal everyday activities that all people do regardless if they have a gf or not.

I'm KHHV as well and I also do all sorts of activities. Movies, gym, games (video, card, board), and spending time with life-long friends. I do outdoor stuff on occasion as well. But if I had a woman, I'd cut out on a lot of those things or do other things with her. Even the stuff I normally do would be much easier on the emotions and psyche, knowing that I have someone.

 

[Logic55]

I'm KHHV as well and I also do all sorts of activities. Movies, gym, games (video, card, board), and spending time with life-long friends. I do outdoor stuff on occasion as well. But if I had a woman, I'd cut out on a lot of those things or do other things with her. Even the stuff I normally do would be much easier on the emotions and psyche, knowing that I have someone.

Obviously, if you have a girlfriend, you need to reduce the amount of time you spend on these activities, but since I don't have one, I'm just going to go about my day without a care in the world. So far, I've been enjoying my life. It could be worse. If I were a Truecel, then I would probably be a NEET and die young, but I'm a low-tier Normie who happens to be a KHHV, I feel fine.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

cope

 

[Emba]

Wiping yo ass is cope

 

[anon]

Everything a subhuman does is cope because you shouldn't be doing anything if you're subhuman, you should kill yourself.

 

[Lux]

Everything that an incel does as a hobby or to enjoy himself is a cope, it only ceases to be a cope if he isnt an incel anymore, because the looming lack and anguish is not there anymore. Everything an incel enjoys will always pale in comparison to getting the attention of females and the pleasure of sexual-romantic intimacy

 

[Logic55]

Everything that an incel does as a hobby or to enjoy himself is a cope, it only ceases to be a cope if he isnt an incel anymore, because the looming lack and anguish is not there anymore. Everything an incel enjoys will always pale in comparison to getting the attention of females and the pleasure of sexual-romantic intimacy

That's a stupid take. Its absurd that people like you believe that a KHHV who does something simple like eating a pint of ice cream for a snack is a cope. Even chads eat ice cream, eating ice cream is what all normal people do to enjoy themselves
You:

 

[Lux]

That's a stupid take. Its absurd that people like you believe that a KHHV who does something simple like eating a pint of ice cream for a snack is a cope. Even chads eat ice cream, eating ice cream is what all normal people do to enjoy themselves
You:

Lux is not KHHV and maintains the point of the take. The notion is that the way a sexhaver is enjoying something differs from the way an incel does. It encompasses all the psychological elements related to goals down to the core what that incites those desires in the first place. The pleasure of eating an ice cream for an incel or reading an enjoyable story holds an special significance of escapism (by escapism it means to make that reality a bit better by the joy of doing such a hobby or eating such a tasty meal), while with the sexhaver it is one of the many joys of life that simple things hold. With the incel, his inability and frustration is looming constantly, even if he tries to distance themselves from it or minimaze the importance of what he longs and yearns for so deeply.

 

[Logic55]

Lux is not KHHV and maintains the point of the take. The notion is that the way a sexhaver is enjoying something differs from the way an incel does. It encompasses all the psychological elements related to goals down to the core what that incites those desires in the first place. The pleasure of eating an ice cream for an incel or reading an enjoyable story holds an special significance of escapism (by escapism it means to make that reality a bit better by the joy of doing such a hobby or eating such a tasty meal), while with the sexhaver it is one of the many joys of life that simple things hold. With the incel, his inability and frustration is looming constantly, even if he tries to distance themselves from it or minimaze the importance of what he longs and yearns for so deeply.

i don't eat ice cream to escape, i do it because i want a good snack to satisfy my sweet tooth. You are referring to emotional eating. i don't eat my favorite food because i feel sad or depressed i do it because im hungry, its that simple. An incel and a chad both eat ice cream for the same reason, to enjoy a good snack, they don't eat ice cream for two different reasons. You are overthinking it which is completely unnecessary.