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Some people are better off without friends

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I used to want friends so much. I tried everything.
I would remember when I was younger, I had friends.

For a long time I was in a trance, unable to see the past clearly.
I had remembered the good times, but let the bad shit slip from memory.

Like the friend who hit me in the head with a book in class.

Or the friend who didn’t ever want to hang out unless I had cigarettes.

And the friend who made it a point to ridicule me and make fun of me around others.

I could go on. But it sums it up to say that all my past friends, were not very good friends.

In fact, I got treated like shit by all of them.

One day, I saw the past clearly.
I no longer wanted friends.
I refused to be friends with others.
I started walking down this dark road, alone.

And you know what?
I feel a tremendous sense of relief that it is over.
 
I used to want friends so much. I tried everything.
I would remember when I was younger, I had friends.

For a long time I was in a trance, unable to see the past clearly.
I had remembered the good times, but let the bad shit slip from memory.

Like the friend who hit me in the head with a book in class.

Or the friend who didn’t ever want to hang out unless I had cigarettes.

And the friend who made it a point to ridicule me and make fun of me around others.

I could go on. But it sums it up to say that all my past friends, were not very good friends.

In fact, I got treated like shit by all of them.

One day, I saw the past clearly.
I no longer wanted friends.
I refused to be friends with others.
I started walking down this dark road, alone.

And you know what?
I feel a tremendous sense of relief that it is over.
JUST FRY HIS BRAIN IN BOWSERS LAWA
 
I only have 1 friend left but we ain’t talked in like 8 months.
 
I think I might be nostalgia coping hard as well and blocking out all the negative stuff.
 
Some call it cope, but you can find comfort in loneliness. Read Emil Cioran
 
Yep a lot of us naturally fall into the "omega" role in the so called friend group. Everyone else's punching bag. It's sad to see how many low tier males subject themselves to this bullshit just cuz they don't wanna be alone.

I never hang out with people in large groups. 1on1 is ideal. 3 people is pushing it. It almost always becomes 2 against 1 (me) when someone else enters the situation.
 
Oh and if there's any females around it's just a competition for who can simp the hardest.
 
I started walking down this dark road, alone.

And you know what?
I feel a tremendous sense of relief that it is over.
:feelsokman:
loneliness is a positive thing as an incel
 
Loneliness brings peace. I like that.
 
the more im around people the more i feel alien to them, its better to be alone at this point
 
What you said pretty much is the same for me. All my friends treated me like shit or used me for something. People will always treat you like trash. Especially when you're not good looking or tall.
 
Have my Goldfish and Turtle as my only friends and even they just use me
 
Yep, I can relate fully on this one.

I, too, had friend(s) that later on I realized were all full-of-shit and had their own agenda according to our group's relationship. Many of them really were there only to, like a parasite, get a feeling of acceptance if not anything else (which there wasn't). People with very shitty self-esteem will gravitate toward negative collectivized groups to get a sense of camaraderie or some shit. One friend would just conform to whatever topic was presented, another would shit on me when the rest of our friend group was around and then the other would just let things happen to me and either laugh or just not care at all.

Thank Fuck I got rid of them all, so OP, I agree. I was relieved when I realized all my "friends" were fake asf and I got away from them all. Alcohol is my only friend.
 
if your fake friends die before you, do not go to there funeral.
 
Yes its far better to be alone than to hang around people who treat you like shit.

And this type of behavior is so common that it makes me think less about the human species as a whole. Maybe even about all organisms.

This type of behavior is just coded into us to ensure the survival of self. But the cost is our humanity and compassion towards others.
 
Yep a lot of us naturally fall into the "omega" role in the so called friend group. Everyone else's punching bag. It's sad to see how many low tier males subject themselves to this bullshit just cuz they don't wanna be alone.

I never hang out with people in large groups. 1on1 is ideal. 3 people is pushing it. It almost always becomes 2 against 1 (me) when someone else enters the situation.
Exactly. The reason obviously being looks, height, signs of health ect. So no matter what you do, people will never grant you a position in the hirachy that is beneficial to you. Even if they somewhat fear you and you are not the omega, you'd still just be an outcast in the group because fundamentally they reject you for your looks/genetics. Females and males will instinctively still realize your lack of value to the survival of the group. It's in their nature to reject you and it's in your nature to want to be respected as a man. The only solution is to stay away from people. Can't win against nature, not theirs and not yours.
 
Keep coping OP. U know if you were chad you could arrive to a new town and instantly be invited to 10 parties by hot foids who will worship u.
 
Keep coping OP. U know if you were chad you could arrive to a new town and instantly be invited to 10 parties by hot foids who will worship u.

Her vanity comes from only one SNP.
 
I used to want friends so much. I tried everything.
I would remember when I was younger, I had friends.

For a long time I was in a trance, unable to see the past clearly.
I had remembered the good times, but let the bad shit slip from memory.

Like the friend who hit me in the head with a book in class.

Or the friend who didn’t ever want to hang out unless I had cigarettes.

And the friend who made it a point to ridicule me and make fun of me around others.

I could go on. But it sums it up to say that all my past friends, were not very good friends.

In fact, I got treated like shit by all of them.

One day, I saw the past clearly.
I no longer wanted friends.
I refused to be friends with others.
I started walking down this dark road, alone.

And you know what?
I feel a tremendous sense of relief that it is over.
didnt have a choice
 

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