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Societal pressure made me want a girlfriend

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I honestly don’t think I wanted a girlfriend before the real social pressure of school/people my age hit me. When I was growing up in my own bubble I was never able to connect with any girls (even when I was decent looking as a kid) and I was really just in my own bubble with videogames and playing outside and other shit i enjoyed.

Whenever I saw dudes in movies or tv or even in real life acting pussywhipped by their gf, you know what I mean, buying her tons of shit, maxing out ur credit card on her, doing other romantic stuff i never understood it. I kinda always thought it was cringe and gay how a dude could let a girl control his whole life like that

I think a lot more incels should think about how many of their priorities are set by societal norms and other things outside of their natural psyche. When I look into mine that’s what I find
 
Tried to get a girlfriend since i was 16, Got college degree too, Everything they told me, Wont work for incels :( Im now 25

 
Tried to get a girlfriend since i was 16, Got college degree too, Everything they told me, Wont work for incels :( Im now 25

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But how much of why you want a girlfriend is because of society? I’m sure before you had a sex drive and before you let others influence you to try to fit in you had stuff you enjoyed in life and generally had an OK childhood
 
But how much of why you want a girlfriend is because of society? I’m sure before you had a sex drive and before you let others influence you to try to fit in you had stuff you enjoyed in life and generally had an OK childhood
I want one but cant have one, Sorry i guess for not being an attractive member of society
 
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Yeah part of me wants a GF just to shut people up and get them off my back but also I don’t want to get accused of something I didn’t do
 
Yeah part of me wants a GF just to shut people up and get them off my back but also I don’t want to get accused of something I didn’t do
What are you scared of being accused of
 
I honestly don’t think I wanted a girlfriend before the real social pressure of school/people my age hit me. When I was growing up in my own bubble I was never able to connect with any girls (even when I was decent looking as a kid) and I was really just in my own bubble with videogames and playing outside and other shit i enjoyed.

Whenever I saw dudes in movies or tv or even in real life acting pussywhipped by their gf, you know what I mean, buying her tons of shit, maxing out ur credit card on her, doing other romantic stuff i never understood it. I kinda always thought it was cringe and gay how a dude could let a girl control his whole life like that

I think a lot more incels should think about how many of their priorities are set by societal norms and other things outside of their natural psyche. When I look into mine that’s what I find
You instinctively would want a girl unless youre gay
 
Honestly yeah I agree to a degree. I would grow up and think relationships in middle school etc were cringe. Over how girls would swoon over guys that had good looks, or did something like skating, or a sport. I thought it was always so superficial and dumb, in a way I thought I was above it all. Now, I realized what a retard I was, because women actually enjoy that shit which I thought was too dumb and superficial to develop as a kid.
 
Honestly yeah I agree to a degree. I would grow up and think relationships in middle school etc were cringe. Over how girls would swoon over guys that had good looks, or did something like skating, or a sport. I thought it was always so superficial and dumb, in a way I thought I was above it all. Now, I realized what a retard I was, because women actually enjoy that shit which I thought was too dumb and superficial to develop as a kid.
Relationships are superficial.
Most foids don't play video games.
If you were attractive and played video games,she's inclined to play with you.
I've met foids with hobbies but they don't like anything men do or do anything with them unless they're attracted to them. So women will agree anyway.
 

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