social situations are all built on eachother, with little wiggle room

[wewuzaryansnshit]

as an incel you cannot just insert or “become” a part of an NT social circle in order to expand your social skills and have a chance with girls.

1. if you are too old (23+) social circles like these are few and far between and are either full of guys (lack of women) with niche hobbies or they are a group of guys and girls who already know eachother well, who are unreceptive to newcomers.

2. secondly, you have 0 idea what the right thing to say is to normal neurotypical people, and you cant even fraud to look halfway normal. the interests of a normal young person and you are so different as you have been removed from society for so many years that you would need a class just to figure out what to say.

most of you ignore how little looks matters in this scenario. assuming you are completely avg you would benefit 10 times more from having an NT aura (clothes, interests, talking discussions, mannerisms) than having an additional 2 points of looks. unless you are a extreme gigachad which not even 1/100000 men are girls wont fall into your lap. it all has to come from you, and your best wont cut it.

i did NT stuff for around 8 months with varying degrees of success (no sex obviously) and i am a young guy, and started out when i was 18. the only mediocre way you can talk to others without it being creepy or wierd is in a party or club scenario, because you have an excuse for it. you can’t just go up to girls in your university, especially if you are super aspie, it’s not the time and place for it and like i said you will fail unless you are very attractive.

i more so wish i could relate to normies in a real way than being 10 or even 20% more attractive. i could go way further with my youth, but it’s too late for me, my environment never supported getting into this kind of stuff.

 

[Pancakecel]

Most people react negatively to me, either via glares, comments, sniggers etc. as I am passing on the street. I'd rather be alone.

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

Most people react negatively to me, either via glares, comments, sniggers etc. as I am passing on the street. I'd rather be alone.

you are probably overthinking it. even if you are extremely ugly no one glances you dirty looks unless you are either a pedo or some other kind of criminal. even for those that are very ugly most people just avoid looking at them

 

[Pancakecel]

you are probably overthinking it. even if you are extremely ugly no one glances you dirty looks unless you are either a pedo or some other kind of criminal. even for those that are very ugly most people just avoid looking at them

No, I am not GrAY. Happens all the time. Thats a normfag way of thinking.

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

No, I am not GrAY. Happens all the time. Thats a normfag way of thinking.

no, you are jfl, i’ve walked with people with facial deformities and i am 99% sure you aren’t facially deformed, the only reason you could be getting stares is if you are wearing some swastika shirt

 

[Pancakecel]

no, you are jfl, i’ve walked with people with facial deformities and i am 99% sure you aren’t facially deformed, the only reason you could be getting stares is if you are wearing some swastika shirt

Im not going to argue with you, cunt. You have no idea as to what I have experienced/ continue to experience. But thanks for confirming to me you are a soydditor normfag, and possibly fakecel

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

Im not going to argue with you, cunt. You have no idea as to what I have experienced/ continue to experience. But thanks for confirming to me you are a soydditor normfag, and possibly fakecel

you arent that important bud. no one is giving you death glances walking down to the street, you aren’t the main character lol. you are just making up shit to make yourself feel more justified in your inceldom while shorter, uglier guys walk with confidence

 

[Pancakecel]

you arent that important bud. no one is giving you death glances walking down to the street, you aren’t the main character lol. you are just making up shit to make yourself feel more justified in your inceldom while shorter, uglier guys walk with confidence

Nope, I am not. But keep digging, soydditor normfag. I know what you are now.

 

[bad]

you arent that important bud. no one is giving you death glances walking down to the street, you aren’t the main character lol. you are just making up shit to make yourself feel more justified in your inceldom while shorter, uglier guys walk with confidence

Bluepilled IT faggot detected

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

talked about this many times, succeeding socially is kinda like having a type of "wealth" which is very hard to get and which no one wants to share with you.
it's more complicated than just NT because it's not about listening to the right music or doing rock climbing, it's about having those 6-7 people who actually care about you, even if they're not hot women.

Social Resources Theory

Why exactly do we fail so much at even basic interactions with the other sex and often even the same sex? Is it really just about being NT or 10/10 in looks? Let me tell you more about social resources. Social resources are essentially solid relationships with trustworthy, functional people...

incels.is

biggest predictor for ascending, for anyone who's been here a long time

despite the ugliness, autism and nerdouts, they still have girls in a very loose vicinity to them, whether it's old classmates or friends that stay in touch or are added on some kind of social media. either girls or some that know girls. or they're allowed to hang out with cousins or relatives...

incels.is

 

[Drakul]

The first 2 points were based but then the bluepilled considerations destroyed everything. Do you realize only people 7 and below need to be social. Misanthropic Chad just downloads tinder or coold approach. Chads are 20% of male humanity (including Chadlites). Not so rare.
Are you a femcel?

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

who gives a fuck about normis

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

talked about this many times, succeeding socially is kinda like having a type of "wealth" which is very hard to get and which no one wants to share with you.
it's more complicated than just NT because it's not about listening to the right music or doing rock climbing, it's about having those 6-7 people who actually care about you, even if they're not hot women.

Social Resources Theory

Why exactly do we fail so much at even basic interactions with the other sex and often even the same sex? Is it really just about being NT or 10/10 in looks? Let me tell you more about social resources. Social resources are essentially solid relationships with trustworthy, functional people...

incels.is

biggest predictor for ascending, for anyone who's been here a long time

despite the ugliness, autism and nerdouts, they still have girls in a very loose vicinity to them, whether it's old classmates or friends that stay in touch or are added on some kind of social media. either girls or some that know girls. or they're allowed to hang out with cousins or relatives...

incels.is

i don’t mean 6-7 people dude, i mean knowing a fuck ton of people who know a fuck ton of people themselves

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

The first 2 points were based but then the bluepilled considerations destroyed everything. Do you realize only people 7 and below need to be social. Misanthropic Chad just downloads tinder or coold approach. Chads are 20% of male humanity (including Chadlites). Not so rare.
Are you a femcel?

chads are 5-10% of men max. most people by definition are not extremely attractive, or else they wouldn’t be “most people” lol

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i don’t mean 6-7 people dude, i mean knowing a fuck ton of people who know a fuck ton of people themselves

most sexhavers aren't that popular, there's no need to envy the most popular and set unrealistic goals

 

[wewuzaryansnshit]

most sexhavers are not that popular, there's no need to set unrealistic goals

sexhaver is a loose term. normies are sexhavers and so are chads, and tons of sexhavers are in these types of groups from an early age

 

[Soulflayer]

The first 2 points were based but then the bluepilled considerations destroyed everything. Do you realize only people 7 and below need to be social. Misanthropic Chad just downloads tinder or coold approach. Chads are 20% of male humanity (including Chadlites). Not so rare.
Are you a femcel?

chads are 5-10% of men max. most people by definition are not extremely attractive, or else they wouldn’t be “most people” lol

i could walk past 1000 men outside and not a single one of them would be chad tier or even near chad level. most men are straight up ugly in my shithole. the only places a chad would be remotely common are countries known for good looking men

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

Im not going to argue with you, cunt. You have no idea as to what I have experienced/ continue to experience. But thanks for confirming to me you are a soydditor normfag, and possibly fakecel

HE IS TRYING TO GASLIGHT YOU

ignore the goon

 

[Thaway]

cope, looks are everything

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

talked about this many times, succeeding socially is kinda like having a type of "wealth" which is very hard to get and which no one wants to share with you.
it's more complicated than just NT because it's not about listening to the right music or doing rock climbing, it's about having those 6-7 people who actually care about you, even if they're not hot women.

Social Resources Theory

Why exactly do we fail so much at even basic interactions with the other sex and often even the same sex? Is it really just about being NT or 10/10 in looks? Let me tell you more about social resources. Social resources are essentially solid relationships with trustworthy, functional people...

incels.is

biggest predictor for ascending, for anyone who's been here a long time

despite the ugliness, autism and nerdouts, they still have girls in a very loose vicinity to them, whether it's old classmates or friends that stay in touch or are added on some kind of social media. either girls or some that know girls. or they're allowed to hang out with cousins or relatives...

incels.is

yes I have a theory on this, I call this life LEVERAGE, i BELIEVE EVERYTHING IN LIFE REVOLVES AROUND LEVERAGE, You are an incel because PEOPLE PERCIEVE YOU TO HAVE NO LEVERAGE OVER ANY AREAS OF LIFE THAT MATTER TO THEM, LOOKS(SMV), MONEY, STATUS.

If you can gain "leverage" or power in one of these areas I think you solve being an incel, or at the very least solve being a "loser" as people even men will "accept" you, if only to use or be in the shadow of your "leverage" in one of the three areas I described they value.

It has been shown to me time and again, if someone knows your levels in these areas and they dont like them and are too low, they turn like a dime and treat you like shit, eg if someone talked to you before and then you revealed you still live at home with mum and dont drive, their behaviour changes completely and they start to treat you like shit.

 

[eatdinner]

this is why i cant even watch anime anymore
seeing people with basic things like friends is even triggering for me now

last time i had friends was like 13 years ago when i was in middle school

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

yes I have a theory on this, I call this life LEVERAGE, i BELIEVE EVERYTHING IN LIFE REVOLVES AROUND LEVERAGE, You are an incel because PEOPLE PERCIEVE YOU TO HAVE NO LEVERAGE OVER ANY AREAS OF LIFE THAT MATTER TO THEM, LOOKS(SMV), MONEY, STATUS.

If you can gain "leverage" or power in one of these areas I think you solve being an incel, or at the very least solve being a "loser" as people even men will "accept" you, if only to use or be in the shadow of your "leverage" in one of the three areas I described they value.

It has been shown to me time and again, if someone knows your levels in these areas and they dont like them and are too low, they turn like a dime and treat you like shit, eg if someone talked to you before and then you revealed you still live at home with mum and dont drive, their behaviour changes completely and they start to treat you like shit.

yep, it's such a long journey to get anywhere, "just go out there bro" is like step 1 out of 100, literally everything about you is scrutinized by people