Venting Social anxiety

[Deleted member 22907]

Whenever we're in groups in class I'm always the one too high inhib and beta to say anything. The little that comes out is almost always ignored. If you don't learn to socialize at a young age it's better to rope.

I'm terrible at socializing, it doesn't even feel like we're living in the same world, I have nothing in common with normans.

When they're out living life and partying on wekeends I'm stuck at home playing vidya and ldaring in my dark bedroom slowly deteriorating my already shitty eyesight. Being here basically makes it worse, the more blackpilled you get the more disillusioned you get with reality. At least if your sub 8, otherwise you would just laugh at how lucky you were.

But then again I addicted to this place. It is the only place where I feel like I belong.

 

[Dionysus]

brutal ngl

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I don't have the same problem anymore. You just need some more confidence and not say retarted things. You have been around these people your whole life , You should be able to imitate their behavior

 

[Words2_live_bye]

I don't have the same problem anymore. You just need some more confidence and not say retarted things. You have been around these people your whole life , You should be able to imitate their behavior

I tried to socialise as a kid, but it never worked for me. I stopped trying to socialise since i was 16, and i never learned proper social skills or how to not act autistic. And imitating their behavior doesn't work for me, it's like a speech check in an RPG, if you say the same thing, but don't have the right amount of Speech skills (being NT or normie) then you're just never gonna make it

 

[Deleted member 21908]

i have the same exact problem. i think the cause is growing up sheltered and being introverted high inhib and insecure
oh and ugly

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I tried to socialise as a kid, but it never worked for me. I stopped trying to socialise since i was 16, and i never learned proper social skills or how to not act autistic. And imitating their behavior doesn't work for me, it's like a speech check in an RPG, if you say the same thing, but don't have the right amount of Speech skills (being NT or normie) then you're just never gonna make it

Brutal , Sorry to read that. Do you think something like trying sports while young could have helped you?

 

[FlamingCel]

brutal ngl

 

[Deleted member 101]

Being shy and insecure sucks ass
I was always jealous of my low inhibition peers who feared nothing when it came to socializing. And they weren’t all assholes just because there were low inhibition. They just were outgoing with no fear.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Brutal , Sorry to read that. Do you think something like trying sports while young could have helped you?

I've been overweight since i was 9 or 10. Tried to play sports (casually on the playground) as a kid but i was too fat and autistic to play properly. Plus i had no friends in school, so no one would ever want me on their team. I was the stereotype of the fat kid who no one picks or wants. Not only was i fat, but had no friends and everyone saw me as the weird kid, so they didn't want me on their team.
There were so many brutal blackpills as a child that i never noticed until now

 

[Admiral_Arkantos]

i have the same exact problem.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I've been overweight since i was 9 or 10. Tried to play sports (casually on the playground) as a kid but i was too fat and autistic to play properly. Plus i had no friends in school, so no one would ever want me on their team. I was the stereotype of the fat kid who no one picks or wants. Not only was i fat, but had no friends and everyone saw me as the weird kid, so they didn't want me on their team.
There were so many brutal blackpills as a child that i never noticed until now

Your parents should have been more careful with your weight

 

[Deleted member 101]

Your parents should have been more careful with your weight

Tbh one of the things I wish my dad was better with, I was way too fucking loose with food when I was a kid and I still struggle to this day sometimes

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Your parents should have been more careful with your weight

>parent
mom was and still is an awful person. If it wasn't for her, i could have grown up to be a happy normie or chadlite tbh

 

[1680]

Whenever we're in groups in class I'm always the one too high inhib and beta to say anything. The little that comes out is almost always ignored. If you don't learn to socialize at a young age it's better to rope.

I'm terrible at socializing, it doesn't even feel like we're living in the same world, I have nothing in common with normans.

When they're out living life and partying on wekeends I'm stuck at home playing vidya and ldaring in my dark bedroom slowly deteriorating my already shitty eyesight. Being here basically makes it worse, the more blackpilled you get the more disillusioned you get with reality. At least if your sub 8, otherwise you would just laugh at how lucky you were.

But then again I addicted to this place. It is the only place where I feel like I belong.

"Just talk to people bro!"
That shit is impossible if you don't already have social skills which can only be fluently developed during childhood years.

 

[IHateMySelf]

Your irracional thougths make you act like that. You have to work on that,boyo. Dont give up too quickly.

Look, what you can do is think in a racianl way. But,how? Easy: you have to identify what kind of irracional thouths you have and then replice them for racional thoughts.


What are the irracional thoughts? any kind of thougts that dont leet you achieve your goals.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Tbh one of the things I wish my dad was better with, I was way too fucking loose with food when I was a kid and I still struggle to this day sometimes

Me on the other hand didn't wanted to eat much. Always been skinny and now trying to get ripped. Stay strong man and don't get fat

>parent
mom was and still is an awful person. If it wasn't for her, i could have grown up to be a happy normie or chadlite tbh

The dickpill would have ended you again. Brutal man , Good parenting is so important and you had a single mom and of top of that a terrible person

 

[Words2_live_bye]

The dickpill would have ended you again. Brutal man , Good parenting is so important and you had a single mom and of top of that a terrible person

Dickpill would have gotten me, most likely. But since i was overweight and low T throughout my puberty and crucial years of development, i could have gotten a normal sized dick if i was normal weight during those years. Since low T and being overweight is linked to a smaller penis.