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Venting Single mothers need to be cut off from their support systems

Weightcel

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The rise of the single mother phenomena has absolutely wrecked the black community. Within the black community the idea of "thug game" holds some truth to it; media influence has caused thuggish behavior to be glorified in the black community and degenerates now have an elevated status, while things we should be valuing like education are ignored. Check out the lyrics from the song Soldier by Destiny's Child
If his status ain't hood
I ain't checkin' for him
Betta be street if he lookin' at me

Educated? A good career? Nah none of that, just gotta be gangsta amirite? And this is only one example of it.

So black foids listen to these low IQ songs and end up going for thugs because they're "exciting", and when the relationship fails (like always) they end up a single mother struggling to raise their kid. That should probably deter any observing foids from following the same course of action right? Wrong! Because now they get a new daddy in the form of government checks or a desperate captain save-a-hoe that swoops in to spend his hard-earned money raising DeShawn's bastard kids. There is pretty much no consequence to their actions and so foids are more likely to take a risk with the thug knowing this.

Of course, this starts a dangerous cycle where the kid who has no father figure seeks one somewhere else, and they usually find it in the form of joining a gang, looking up to the degenerates that are promoted in the black community, etc. And that's not even mentioning how young black men are influenced to become thugs because they see how black women worship and praise those kinds of guys.


That's only how single motherhood affects a male child. Female children have it much worse because not only do they lack the guidance of a mother who actually knows what kind of man she should be looking for, they also have innate biology working against them:

"According to life history theory, women who are exposed to harsh environments in their childhood may facultatively adjust their reproductive strategies to favor a more short-term oriented strategy, in which there is little expectation of male provisioning
after conception. Women pursuing this strategy may engage in sexual activity at an earlier age, be more willing to have sexual intercourse early in their relationships, place less emphasis on emotional attachments before sexual intimacy, decrease the duration of relationships, place greater emphasis on immediate resource extraction from sexual partners, and place greater emphasis on indicators of good genes,
including physical attractiveness"

In fact, girls who grew up in fatherabsent homes are more likely than girls who grew up in homes with a father present to engage in the short-term mating behaviors described above"
TL;DR: The horror never ends
Source:http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf

You could make the argument that all of these factors can be mitigated or avoided completely if a step dad (captain save-a-hoe) shows up. However, a captain save-a-hoe wouldn't be necessary in the first place if the foid had just gone for a virtuous man from the start. Good black men who worked hard to build a career shouldn't have to use their money raising DeShawn's kids because of bad decisions made by foids.

The point of all this is to show that the black community is quickly spiraling down the toilet in an endless cycle that perpetuates itself. The solution I propose is to discourage single motherhood by making the consequences more harsh: no more government checks and no more captain save-a-hoes. It needs to get to the point where being a single mother actually puts you in danger of losing the kid. As a result, black women will need to start choosing more wisely and stop fucking thugs (or at the very least, stop getting pregnant by them). Subsequently, educated and smart black men will become more valued (because now they're necessary to the survival of the kids) and the cycle starts to spin the other way. Foids choose virtuous men because they're necessary, young black men aspire to become educated because educated men now have the superior status.

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Just copy african slums theory.
 
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My mother is an immigrant, she came to America far a better life blah, blah, blah.she was in law school has been a lawyer for many years , she was very fit in her prime. Guess what? She threw herself at the first thug nigga to come her why and that how I got here. Then she tried for a second time to the second captain save a hoe nigga to come around. Another lily bastard. She is highly intelligent but lacks social awareness, she in her late 50’s and still has guys buzzing her phone. I remember she told me one time how all the guys like “yellow boned black woman” and how thirsty guys were. I ask myself how could someone so smart be so stupid?

Multiple female cousins are single mothers. Matter fact most of my moms side of the family are all single mothers.Shit is sad, Black women are not attracted to you unless you 6-10/10 . One of my cousin is 25 she got knocked up by a bloods gang members .Funny thing is she is a pastors daughter , but she was the one doing weird/sexual shit to me when I was fucking 7 years old . Fuck single mothers tbh you made your bed , now lie in it.
Just copy african slums theory.
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Peak level IQ.
Promoting Black women to be single mothers and to continue doing what they've always been doing is what has left the African-American community the way it is now. It's controversial to say that though. You're allowed to point towards men and say "Niggas aint shit" when some random thug knocks up a girl and dips, but say the girl had any responsibility in that situation and you'll be attacked by a mob.
 
Peak level IQ.
Promoting Black women to be single mothers and to continue doing what they've always been doing is what has left the African-American community the way it is now. It's controversial to say that though. You're allowed to point towards men and say "Niggas aint shit" when some random thug knocks up a girl and dips, but say the girl had any responsibility in that situation and you'll be attacked by a mob.
They don’t like to hear the brutal truth. Their choices lead them to be a single mother.
 
its actually pretty funny because im literally in the exact situation that everyone points out about single mothers.

my mom was a single mother struggling to provide for us, in even basic ways. that is, until my current stepdad came in and now pays for almost everything for me and my brothers and sisters. he even takes care of my sisters kids because their kids don't have fathers in their lives.

lmao he is literally being cucked by 3 guys at once. I feel bad for him tbh

anyways, good post. everything you said is true, me and my family are living proof
 
A strong component of a gynocentric culture lies in its system to support single mothers. They should be punished for it, not rewarded. “B-but what about the guys who got them pregnant? Are they not responsible?” Who is the selector of sex? Women. They should bear the burden if they pick an obvious dumbass to bear children with. Why the fuck would any man want to support a system in which the women’s dual mating strategy is rewarded and the majority men are left fucked?
 
A strong component of a gynocentric culture lies in its system to support single mothers. They should be punished for it, not rewarded. “B-but what about the guys who got them pregnant? Are they not responsible?” Who is the selector of sex? Women. They should bear the burden if they pick an obvious dumbass to bear children with. Why the fuck would any man want to support a system in which the women’s dual mating strategy is rewarded and the majority men are left fucked?

Exactly. I always see this retarded argument claiming that the guys who aren't raising their kids are responsible. Women always go on about their "women's intuition" but they aren't half as smart as they claim to be. It shouldn't be hard to vet your mate and figure out if he has his life together. Blaming the guy is like willingly walking into a lion's den and acting surprised when your ass gets mauled.
 
There's an old documentary from the 80s on YouTube tabout broken black families. It features a good looking light skinned Tyrone who impregnates a bunch of women in a New Jersey housing project.

It really illustrates the regressive mating practices of black people, which I believe extends back to Africa and has little to do with media influence. As in many African societies, black Americans enable a small % of men to have a hugely disproportionate number of sex partners (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-women--theyre-paying-child-support-them.html)

leaving the beta males with few options and little motivation to build thriving communities. It causes the betas to compete with each other for "easy" black women, which is why it's more common for black women to have multiple baby daddies. It's a vicious cycle that can only be stopped by ensuring that certain people don't breed. To put it bluntly, some black women need to be sterilized.
 
There's an old documentary from the 80s on YouTube tabout broken black families. It features a good looking light skinned Tyrone who impregnates a bunch of women in a New Jersey housing project.

It really illustrates the regressive mating practices of black people, which I believe extends back to Africa and has little to do with media influence. As in many African societies, black Americans enable a small % of men to have a hugely disproportionate number of sex partners (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-women--theyre-paying-child-support-them.html)

leaving the beta males with few options and little motivation to build thriving communities. It causes the betas to compete with each other for "easy" black women, which is why it's more common for black women to have multiple baby daddies. It's a vicious cycle that can only be stopped by ensuring that certain people don't breed. To put it bluntly, some black women need to be sterilized.

The media influence is them being attracted to rappers/thugs. Females will always be hypergamous regardless of media influence, I agree. If they're going to be hypergamous I'd rather it not be thugs and degenerates.

Sterilization is also a solution I've thought about, too many deadbeats having kids in general.
 
@Weightcel The problem that's not being acknowledged here is that this issue is fast spreading to white and hispanic whores as well. While cutting off benefits would certainly curtail bad behavior, the government has determined that women are an enterprise that's too big to fail. They simply refuse to deinvest. You'll never get them to cut off women because women vote, and in a world where women vote they will always vote for more free shit. Female inclination is always towards security. Male inclination is always towards freedom.

The only way to cut off said benefits is to end female voting rights, which I have a hard time seeing it implemented in a western country. This certainly could not be achieved without a major civil war. Even if we talked about taking away strictly black women's rights, there would be a cohort of black men who would literally die and go to war to defend them. It would be a blood bath to say the least.

My answer to this entire situation is to wait. The US debt bubble will pop in 10 years, and both women and baby boomers will have to be cut off government benefits. There will be no way that a weak US economy will be able to afford these two expensive groups that largely do nothing.
 
Single mothers need to be hanged.
 
@Weightcel The problem that's not being acknowledged here is that this issue is fast spreading to white and hispanic whores as well. While cutting off benefits would certainly curtail bad behavior, the government has determined that women are an enterprise that's too big to fail. They simply refuse to deinvest. You'll never get them to cut off women because women vote, and in a world where women vote they will always vote for more free shit. Female inclination is always towards security. Male inclination is always towards freedom.

The only way to cut off said benefits is to end female voting rights, which I have a hard time seeing it implemented in a western country. This certainly could not be achieved without a major civil war. Even if we talked about taking away strictly black women's rights, there would be a cohort of black men who would literally die and go to war to defend them. It would be a blood bath to say the least.

My answer to this entire situation is to wait. The US debt bubble will pop in 10 years, and both women and baby boomers will have to be cut off government benefits. There will be no way that a weak US economy will be able to afford these two expensive groups that largely do nothing.

Yeah I've read some stats that say single motherhood is spreading into the white community as well. I agree with everything you said though. I remember you once posted that the black community is a "microcosm of what happens when you let women run society", high IQ statement and kind of inspired this thread tbh.
 

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