Since "ascending" would not finally lead me to happiness. How do I find happiness then?

[Deleted member 7448]

I guess I've been blaming my misery and depression on my lack of love and sex too much. It was a tangible cause of my misery, a clear goal.

And yet ascending would not make me any happier.

So what will? What will fill the void that haunts me every day?

Religion doesn't do it for me. Money won't do it cause I hate working more than I like money. So what will? I've tried to find a passion/interest to pour my life into and find happiness, but nothing interests me. So what can I do?

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

IDK man but definitely don't self-destruct, you already know where that leads
without some kind of personal mission it is pretty hard, maybe it would help to look at what other men do in this situation
i know it seems like all they do is watch football, drink and play checkers, write online reviews for ugly old escorts, etc, but maybe there's something interesting that they do that's productive

 

[Deleted member 7448]

IDK man but definitely don't self-destruct, you already know where that leads
without some kind of personal mission it is pretty hard, maybe it would help to look at what other men do in this situation
i know it seems like all they do is watch football, drink and play checkers, write online reviews for ugly old escorts, etc, but maybe there's something interesting that they do that's productive

Yeah, a mission/goal is definitely what drives people forward and keeps them sane. Too bad I find everything pointless and boring, I need to work on that and overcome that, cause going through life this way definitely ain't working.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Happiness is kinda a meme tbh, or at least different people have very different understandings of what happiness is to them. It's subjective. Logically people would feel better if they had no desires for anything, if they were completely content with their situation. But getting to that stage is easier said than done, and then you run into the problem of your existence being pointless.

You should try to find something which can occupy your mind. It really doesn't matter what it is, so long as you can focus on it. Personally I don't enjoy most things, and my energy level is so low that I usually can't be bothered to make myself do anything productive, even if I know I would feel better once I did. I would say that it's laziness, but it's sort of beyond that, it's like a more extreme version of laziness.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Happiness is kinda a meme tbh, or at least different people have very different understandings of what happiness is to them. It's subjective. Logically people would feel better if they had no desires for anything, if they were completely content with their situation. But getting to that stage is easier said than done, and then you run into the problem of your existence being pointless.

You should try to find something which can occupy your mind. It really doesn't matter what it is, so long as you can focus on it. Personally I don't enjoy most things, and my energy level is so low that I usually can't be bothered to make myself do anything productive, even if I know I would feel better once I did. I would say that it's laziness, but it's sort of beyond that, it's like a more extreme version of laziness.

God damn, I have the same problem. I have no energy to do anything but lay in bed with my laptop, watching the same sitcoms I've always watched and browsing the same sites I've always browsed. Even playing some games is too demanding.

And I've tried so hard to find something that would interest me,a passion that would preoccupy my time. And yet nothing does it for me, I just can't make my brain stop seeing everything as pointless, meaningless and boring.

 

[Billowel]

I guess I've been blaming my misery and depression on my lack of love and sex too much. It was a tangible cause of my misery, a clear goal.

And yet ascending would not make me any happier.

So what will? What will fill the void that haunts me every day?

Religion doesn't do it for me. Money won't do it cause I hate working more than I like money. So what will? I've tried to find a passion/interest to pour my life into and find happiness, but nothing interests me. So what can I do?

read the confession by augustine.it's one of the most famous autobiographies and you will probably enjoy it.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

There once was a professor who set out to find the meaning of life , the riddle of the universe so he went in the wild and survivalistmaxx. He would haul rocks on his back and run for hours everyday to get rid of excess energy. After years of cabinmaxxing, he decided there was no happiness so he roped. But I still believe a man can solve the riddle of the universe , and once you do, you will not only find happiness but own it as well, so never give up.

 

[Tenshi]

it's not really a real and tangible thing tbh

imho there's no meaning for this life or whatsoever so you make your own meaning and you decide what is happiness. But it's probably not a constant so I don't believe you can achieve that level of "happiness" where you'll never be sad again.

 

[nihility]

There once was a professor who set out to find the meaning of life , the riddle of the universe so he went in the wild and survivalistmaxx. He would haul rocks on his back and run for hours everyday to get rid of excess energy. After years of cabinmaxxing, he decided there was no happiness so he roped. But I still believe a man can solve the riddle of the universe , and once you do, you will not only find happiness but own it as well, so never give up.

Jfl at the story

 

[EeEcel]

There once was a professor who set out to find the meaning of life , the riddle of the universe so he went in the wild and survivalistmaxx. He would haul rocks on his back and run for hours everyday to get rid of excess energy. After years of cabinmaxxing, he decided there was no happiness so he roped. But I still believe a man can solve the riddle of the universe , and once you do, you will not only find happiness but own it as well, so never give up.

the meaning of life is to workout,have sex and plant trees, everything else issa big fat COPE!

 

[Deleted member 4999]

I guess I've been blaming my misery and depression on my lack of love and sex too much. It was a tangible cause of my misery, a clear goal.

And yet ascending would not make me any happier.

So what will? What will fill the void that haunts me every day?

Religion doesn't do it for me. Money won't do it cause I hate working more than I like money. So what will? I've tried to find a passion/interest to pour my life into and find happiness, but nothing interests me. So what can I do?

Cope lmao if u think ascending and fucking prime jb pussy wont make u happier

 

[Deleted member 16390]

the meaning of life is to workout,have sex and plant trees, everything else issa big fat COPE!

Hmm , this professor had all three covered. He workout harder than 3 horses combined, plant trees and crops and hunted for years in the forest, and most likely a sex haver before he went mgtow cabinmaxxing yet he considered his life a failure and roped?

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Cope lmao if u think ascending and fucking prime jb pussy wont make u happier

Who said anything about prime jb? If I do somehow ascend, it would be with some 30+ ugly hag who can't do any better than someone like me, and who only settles for me cause she needs to pop out a few babies and needs a betabuxx since her eggs are drying up. But tbh I think I'd rather die than live out that scenario.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

If my lack of love and sex got fixed, my depression would end. Can't relate with you. Of course I would still be depressed/angry/sad that there's so much inceldom/unfairness in the world.

 

[Deleted member 26140]

Having a loving gf would fix 80% of my current problems in life