Should I go to a hairdresser that I'm stalking?

[sub1 life]

I have a 3-year long hair, my hair is nice-looking but it is too annyoing to deal with. It also makes me look more feminine. I wonder whether I should cut my hair at a hairdresser that I'm stalking on social media. She is extremely attractive, I want to see her IRL and see if I even have any chance on her whatsoever. I'm not that bad looking, just extremely high inhibition. I've had IOI's before, girls looking me right in the eyes and smiling at me. It freaked me out because it didn't know what to do. Or maybe I'm just completely autistic and misinterpreting it, the fuck do I know. Anyway; should I cut my hair at this girl or just go somewhere else? At worst it could become extremely awkward since I have no social antenna, and in that case it would be better to just go to a male barber. I need to cut it anyway, I'm so tired of having long hair.

 

[Newbie17]

Two words that came to my mind while reading your post: stalkcel and volcel. You have had IOIs before and girls smiling at you? You are better than most of the people here I would imagine.

Cut your hair at this girl but do not do anything drastic. That is my opinion but I am generally not good at giving advice.

 

[La Gegua]

The most normiest post I've seen in this forum.
Even if u go to her and she cuts ur hair u wont be able to talk to her because of ur inhibition.
Just do what u want. Don't ask us to choose for u.
U had more good experiences with girls than anyone here I guess.
WP.

 

[sub1 life]

Two words that came to my mind while reading your post: stalkcel and volcel. You have had IOIs before and girls smiling at you? You are better than most of the people here I would imagine.

Cut your hair at this girl but do not do anything drastic. That is my opinion but I am generally not good at giving advice.

I forgot to mention one thing: she is in a social circle with many former femoid classmates of mine. I live in a small town, so most people in the same age-range know each other here. I dropped out of society ~5 years ago, people don't know wtf happened to me and probably talked a shitton behind my back. That's how things work in a small community, you get a reputation. I have rejoined society and have gotten my life back on track, I'm about to get a job and I have looksmaxed a little bit. Anyway, the point is that it would be extremely embaressing for me to meet a former classmate or something, since I just dissapeared off the face of the earth a couple of years ago. My look has also changed very much, I have been told this by other people.

 

[sub1 life]

The most normiest post I've seen in this forum.
Even if u go to her and she cuts ur hair u wont be able to talk to her because of ur inhibition.
Just do what u want. Don't ask us to choose for u.
U had more good experiences with girls than anyone here I guess.
WP.

No, I'm a virgin. Many people on this board have probably had sex. I have always been a total werido outcast.
I'm asking you guys because I'm a complete fucktard, obviously. Even you guys know more about this stuff than I do.

 

[sub1 life]

Let me just clarify, this femoid has a boyfriend. All I want to do is to see whether I even stand a fucking chance with women. I don't really know whether I am a true incel or just a volcel, because I never go to parties or anything. I don't even know where the fuck I am looks-wise.

 

[La Gegua]

Here's the solution: "Break out of the shell."
That means, while she's cutting ur hair u HAVE to talk to her even if it feels like getting unconscious.

No, I'm a virgin.

U had more good experiences with girls in meaning they smiled at you.
Not much reasons for u to hate foids, like us.

"Break out of the shell." Is almost always the solution in talking with the opposite gender.

 

[La Gegua]

Let me just clarify, this femoid has a boyfriend. All I want to do is to see whether I even stand a fucking chance with women. I don't really know whether I am a true incel or just a volcel, because I never go to parties or anything. I don't even know where the fuck I am looks-wise.

Cuck him.
If she has a bf and u already know it, I wouldn't even try.
But give it a try I guess.
Only Chads/Normies go to parties.

 

[Weed]

Yeah, might as well rape her

 

[sub1 life]

Here's the solution: "Break out of the shell."
1. That means, while she's cutting ur hair u HAVE to talk to her even if it feels like getting unconscious.



2. U had more good experiences with girls in meaning they smiled at you.
Not much reasons for u to hate foids, like us.

"Break out of the shell." Is almost always the solution in talking with the opposite gender.

1. I might have to take a beer beforehand or something.

2. I was true incel in my teens, I had servere acne and was overweight etc. Bullied and ostracized by others. I was good looking before puberty, I might be good-looking again (been told my look has changed a lot, people seem to act more positive towards me etc.). I don't even know, I want to find out.

Cuck him.
If she has a bf and u already know it, I wouldn't even try.
But give it a try I guess.
Only Chads/Normies go to parties.

I'm not cutting my hair just as an excuse to see this woman, I want to cut it regardless and might as well have it cut there and see this girl IRL. It would be crazy if something "happened" and I don't expect it, but what's the worst case scenario anyways? As long as it isn't awkward it will be okay, anything else is a bonus. At the end of the day I want my hair cut.

 

[oldoldold]

I was like you, acne, shunned as a teen. In long run though looks were not the biggest issue, confidence is/was.

FWIW my thought is go or dont go to her, it wont make much difference either way. Instead I would suggest the next time a girl looks you in the eye and smiles, smile back and say "Hello". I think you will get more out of doing that than any choice with the hairdresser dilemma. Good Luck!

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2. I was true incel in my teens, I had servere acne and was overweight etc. Bullied and ostracized by others. I was good looking before puberty, I might be good-looking again (been told my look has changed a lot, people seem to act more positive towards me etc.). I don't even know, I want to find out.


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[Barry]

This is a terrible idea mate.

Go find another hairdresser and get your hair cut. Listen, if you're truly not an incel and you have a chance, then you need to build the social skills first.

If you go in there while your crush is doing her work, has a boyfriend and then you're a fumbling social retard, then your chances are OVER.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

You’re already stalking her. May aswell take it to the next level and rape the bitch.

 

[oldoldold]

This!

. Listen, if you're truly not an incel and you have a chance, then you need to build the social skills first.

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[Letmego]

No, I'm a virgin. Many people on this board have probably had sex. I have always been a total werido outcast.
I'm asking you guys because I'm a complete fucktard, obviously. Even you guys know more about this stuff than I do.

Kek, whut?

 

[sub1 life]

I was like you, acne, shunned as a teen. In long run though looks were not the biggest issue, confidence is/was.

FWIW my thought is go or dont go to her, it wont make much difference either way. Instead I would suggest the next time a girl looks you in the eye and smiles, smile back and say "Hello". I think you will get more out of doing that than any choice with the hairdresser dilemma. Good Luck!

You're probably right.

This is a terrible idea mate.

Go find another hairdresser and get your hair cut. Listen, if you're truly not an incel and you have a chance, then you need to build the social skills first.

If you go in there while your crush is doing her work, has a boyfriend and then you're a fumbling social retard, then your chances are OVER.

Since I've grown my hair for 3 years I want the cut to be "special", hence this whole idea. I also don't see how else I would meet her. Fuck, I don't know. I'll just wait and see if I have the balls to do it tomorrow.