It's Over [SERIOUS] What do I do?

[Hate_my_life]

I don't talk much about my family per say but I do have a brother.

Short intro:

He height mogs me and is a few years younger than me. Sadly he was born with autism (diagnosed) and was receiving autismbux from the government for the first x years of his life (my mum fucked up so he won't receive anymore).
Inspite of his autism, he's actually very chill. You can have conversations with him and he's more down to earth than majority of this forum probably ever will be (don't take it personally).



He's been watching a lot of Bluepilled content like this (I strongly recommend that you do not watch this):




According to the YouTube watch history on our TV he's watched in the excess of 200 videos related to relationships.

I've been teasing him saying:
"Youre going to get married one day"
and he knows my views on marriage and he kinda looks up to me so in response will deny ever getting married.

Well yesterday It came up, but his response made me want to cry on his behalf:

"No girl will ever like me"

At such a Young age and Inspite of his autism that has made it INCREDIBLY difficult for him to even get through highschool (he's had to have a support teacher the entire time), He has been able to realise how over it is.

Fuck brocels what the fuck do I even say?
I don't want to blackpill him because the last thing my mom needs is a depressed child.

He's been going on about how he'll be courteous, let the lady go first and hopefully hold hands one day and I sincerely wish that would happen but fuck man.

 

[Dumbasszoomer]

Shit man, I’m kinda glad I don’t have any siblings because of what you just described

it’s honestly your choice if you wanna blackpill him or not

 

[Pengwin]

"No girl will ever like me"
those words must have hit hard
how old is he?

 

[Hate_my_life]

Shit man, I’m kinda glad I don’t have any siblings because of what you just described

it’s honestly your choice if you wanna blackpill him or not

He processes things very slowly and it would take months before anything sits in. My question is what happens if I do blackpill him?

He lacks a degree of social awareness which can land him in trouble e.g. He'd literally ask parents (complete Strangers) what their Pin numbers are, so if he gets blackpilled I 100% can see him just assaulting foids in anger and the blame will (rightly) fall back on me.

I could keep him bluepilled and pray to God somebody looks past his disability and sub-par looks but fuck that would require a miracle.

"No girl will ever like me"
those words must have hit hard
how old is he?

17

I couldn't even respond. I just left in silence.

 

[Tenshi]

damn brutal shit, I really wouldn't how what to do as well. Maybe you can blackpill him but in a more positive way, talking about looksmaxxing and something like that.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

I would have had a hard time not just crying when he said that tbh thats really sad

 

[Deleted member 22572]

Dunno just say what'd make him happy

 

[Dumbasszoomer]

Man you seem like a really good brother though. Try to keep him happy at least but at the same time I wouldn’t recommend completely bluepill/blackpilling him immediately

 

[Hate_my_life]

damn brutal shit, I really wouldn't how what to do as well. Maybe you can blackpill him but in a more positive way, talking about looksmaxxing and something like that.

Thats the most brutal part.

From the ages 0-12ish he was a very active bubbly child. He loved riding his bicycle.

For some reason (puberty? He was also lazy tbf) he put on sooooo much weight in a few years. He started just staying indoors and watching tv/talking to my mum.

This was the period where I was getting bullied for being severly underweight.

I started going to the gym and in my 1.5 Years of progress he's the only fucking human being to ever compliment me or say anything positive. Not even my own parents, my own school acquaintances. NOT ONE.

All of a sudden he wanted to "look like me" and lose weight so I started him off with home routine and within a year he's lost like 15lbs by himself.

Whatever "I do" he essentially follows suit. I don't want him to make the same mistakes as me - I've manually banned all pornography sites on our Router.

I would have had a hard time not just crying when he said that tbh thats really sad

At such a young age as well.

Despite being autistic he's very observant. He realises some people are more popular, have friends, have girlfriend. He'll try and "copy" those popular people and to no avail it backfires In his face.

I'd suffer for an Entire year through the most inhumane conditions if it meant he could live the rest of his life with a loving wife.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

Thats the most brutal part.

From the ages 0-12ish he was a very active bubbly child. He loved riding his bicycle.

For some reason (puberty? He was also lazy tbf) he put on sooooo much weight in a few years. He started just staying indoors and watching tv/talking to my mum.

This was the period where I was getting bullied for being severly underweight.

I started going to the gym and in my 1.5 Years of progress he's the only fucking human being to ever compliment me or say anything positive. Not even my own parents, my own school acquaintances. NOT ONE.

All of a sudden he wanted to "look like me" and lose weight so I started him off with home routine and within a year he's lost like 15lbs by himself.

Whatever "I do" he essentially follows suit. I don't want him to make the same mistakes as me - I've manually banned all pornography sites on our Router.


At such a young age as well.

Despite being autistic he's very observant. He realises some people are more popular, have friends, have girlfriend. He'll try and "copy" those popular people and to no avail it backfires In his face.

I'd suffer for an Entire year through the most inhumane conditions if it meant he could live the rest of his life with a loving wife.

At least he has a brother who cares about him

 

[Hate_my_life]

Man you seem like a really good brother though. Try to keep him happy at least but at the same time I wouldn’t recommend completely bluepill/blackpilling him immediately

In the past I was Far from it.

Growing up I held a sort of "distate" to him, I would have kept my distance from him (and even teachers pointed that out to my parents). Now he's the only person I talk too. I've spoken to him more than I've spoken to my own parents.

Oh I'm doing my best to keep him happy. I'll buy him copes, the latest games for his Switch. Anything tbh.

At least he has a brother who cares about him

He's another reason I couldn't kill myself.

How tf do you explain to him: "Hate_my_life" killed himself?
I really don't know how he would deal with it.
That's the type of shit that would scar him for the rest of his life.

 

[Caesercel]

I don't talk much about my family per say but I do have a brother.

Short intro:

He height mogs me and is a few years younger than me. Sadly he was born with autism (diagnosed) and was receiving autismbux from the government for the first x years of his life (my mum fucked up so he won't receive anymore).
Inspite of his autism, he's actually very chill. You can have conversations with him and he's more down to earth than majority of this forum probably ever will be (don't take it personally).



He's been watching a lot of Bluepilled content like this (I strongly recommend that you do not watch this):




According to the YouTube watch history on our TV he's watched in the excess of 200 videos related to relationships.

I've been teasing him saying:
"Youre going to get married one day"
and he knows my views on marriage and he kinda looks up to me so in response will deny ever getting married.

Well yesterday It came up, but his response made me want to cry on his behalf:

"No girl will ever like me"


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At such a Young age and Inspite of his autism that has made it INCREDIBLY difficult for him to even get through highschool (he's had to have a support teacher the entire time), He has been able to realise how over it is.

Fuck brocels what the fuck do I even say?
I don't want to blackpill him because the last thing my mom needs is a depressed child.

He's been going on about how he'll be courteous, let the lady go first and hopefully hold hands one day and I sincerely wish that would happen but fuck man.

Don't blackpill him yet but make sure he stays away from the bluepill. And try to stop the relationship videos, tell him how they don't work. They will only make his sadder. Try to distract him into non relationship related stuff.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Don't blackpill him yet but make sure he stays away from the bluepill. And try to stop the relationship videos, tell him how they don't work. They will only make his sadder. Try to distract him into non relationship related stuff.

Actually solid advice. I shall do that tbh.