Serious [Semi-Vent] Is this an Incel Trait?

[Hate_my_life]

Trying to socialise but horrendously failing.


I'm not going to ever get a girlfriend. That's reality, but why is it so hard for me to make friends?
It has been way over 19 years of my shit life, coming on 20 and I struggle to understand how the hell to interact with people. IS IT JUST ME!?

I don't know what to say. I don't know how conversations work and I can struggle to speak coherently in social situations, so I'll just run in any involuntary situation I end up in (I've literally ran from a store and left my stuff because I couldn't cope dealing with the roastie cashier).
I'll panic. Start sweating and just want to die on the spot, meanwhile there's normies who make this shit look so easy.

Fakecels how do you do it?

How do you find friends? Friends who you can hop on voice chat with and play vidya!!?

I just want to be normal.

 

[azakhan]

try LSD and observe how conversations, human behavior and language work, create a map in your brain
it may not help but it certainly will make things much clearer
side effect is you will realize how socially retarded and unnatural you are, how other people are smart and you're dumb

 

[Robtical]

I don't know what to say. I don't know how conversations work and I can struggle to speak coherently in social situations, so I'll just run in any involuntary situation I end up in (I've literally ran from a store and left my stuff because I couldn't cope dealing with the roastie cashier).

Try your best to not care about her validation, and just let your words flow out however way, and don't be apologetic about it.

 

[Hate_my_life]

try LSD and observe how conversations, human behavior and language work, create a map in your brain
it may not help but it certainly will make things much clearer
side effect is you will realize how socially retarded and unnatural you are, how other people are smart and you're dumb

Is there any other non-drug related alternatives? Even if I wanted too, I don't even know how I'd gain access to class A's.

 

[azakhan]

Is there any other non-drug related alternatives? Even if I wanted too, I don't even know how I'd gain access to class A's.

I don't think so bro

 

[Hate_my_life]

Try your best to not care about her validation, and just let your words flow out however way, and don't be apologetic about it.

That's just one example.

It happens to people of any gender. A guy once stopped me to ask me some questions about broadband (Internet provider), and within the first 30 seconds I wanted to just scream and run. It's like my presence just can't deal with another human being.

I'm sooooo fucked for future Job interviews.

I don't think so bro

 

[Kirito3]

I wouldn't call it a trait per se its more of an effect. When it comes down to it you fail because you're a truecel.

 

[Robtical]

That's just one example.

It happens to people of any gender. A guy once stopped me to ask me some questions about broadband (Internet provider), and within the first 30 seconds I wanted to just scream and run. It's like my presence just can't deal with another human being.

I'm sooooo fucked for future Job interviews.

That would happen with me too if someone wanted to sell me something. You probably wouldn't feel that way if he was giving free samples of chocolate.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

People who are socially adept don't want to be friends with you unless you have something to offer them. So when they see you're an ugly loser they avoid you like the plague.

 

[Hate_my_life]

That would happen with me too if someone wanted to sell me something. You probably wouldn't feel that way if he was giving free samples of chocolate.

It's not just selling. Anything. It can even be a simple conversation with my lecturer. I'll be mentally breaking down and I just look for a means of escaping.

I wouldn't call it a trait per se its more of an effect. When it comes down to it you fail because you're a truecel.

People who are socially adept don't want to be friends with you unless you have something to offer them. So when they see you're an ugly loser they avoid you like the plague.

JFL so my looks not only doomed me sexually but also socially. How many more parts of my life will my ugliness ruin?

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Not really. Incels and truecels even can have friends.

 

[Robtical]

It's not just selling. Anything. It can even be a simple conversation with my lecturer. I'll be mentally breaking down and I just look for a means of escaping.

I don't like talking to teachers or cashiers either, because there's almost no benefit you can get from having a conversation with them. I only like talking to people I'm already comfortable with, but sometimes I force myself to try to be relaxed around people I won't get any benefit from talking to.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Not really. Incels and truecels even can have friends.

What's wrong with me? I just want a few friends who I can text and actually use my phone for something other than posting on .co and annoying posting Incel subs on reddit.
82% of my battery usage is on Samsung Internet (Incels.co)
8% on reddit.
5% on music,
Then other apps like Youtube, Google news. make up the remaining.

Why can't I enter a group chat and just be normal?

Why is it that since childhood, I've struggled to make friends? Now to make matters worse any chance I do get to interact with someone, i slur my words, have a mental implosion and just evacuate from the situation.

I just want to be able to play vidya with a group of people who I know.
I thought I met a guy on PUBG who'd be my friend. He's from my city, from my University: He blocked me immediately after the game.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

What's wrong with me? I just want a few friends who I can text and actually use my phone for something other than posting on .co and annoying posting Incel subs on reddit.
82% of my battery usage is on Samsung Internet (Incels.co)
8% on reddit.
5% on music,
Then other apps like Youtube, Google news. make up the remaining.

Why can't I enter a group chat and just be normal?

Why is it that since childhood, I've struggled to make friends? Now to make matters worse any chance I do get to interact with someone, i slur my words, have a mental implosion and just evacuate from the situation.

I just want to be able to play vidya with a group of people who I know.
I thought I met a guy on PUBG who'd be my friend. He's from my city, from my University: He blocked me immediately after the game.

I am sorry to hear that bro. Do you have any idea why it might be that some people do not want to be your friend? Maybe they do not like the way you talk. Do you say bad stuff? Also, install Whatsapp and I will give you my number so we can text each other. I live in Europe though so different timezones.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Do you have any idea why it might be that some people do not want to be your friend?

I have no idea. I think I'm NT, so I'd be able to recognize if I'm making someone uncomfortable/being awkward.

Maybe they do not like the way you talk. Do you say bad stuff?

Take the most high-inhib, weakest "nerdy" guy you could think of and put all his mannerisms in a frame of a built black male - that's precisely why I question whether I was born correctly. In real life I do not swear, the closest I'll get to cursing is by saying: "Darn".
I don't have problems saying "Thank you" so I'd like to think I'm polite. I dont know what it can be

Also, install Whatsapp and I will give you my number so we can text each other.

O.o

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

O.o

See this is why you have no friends!

 

[Deleted member 18193]

Its something you cannot control. Over for a lot of us

 

[Deleted member 22549]

Jew pills and "Therapy " might be your only way out of that, and even that might not work for you. I'm sorry for you, bro.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Same. I'm about to get out of high school and still no friends whatsoever. Never had any meaningful interaction with ppl outside of school, never played multiplayer vydiah with niggas, or had a gymbro.
I recommend you to quietly analyze social interactions, ingest jewpills and try replicating irl the way you talk on the internet. Still doesn't matter rn cus quarantine.

 

[thebuddhacel]

I think you can make friends online. Its very hard tbh, but I did.

 

[Deleted member 23981]

Yes, it's an incel trait - I was like this in grade 7 and 8, didnt know how to speak - to become NT you have too looksmax and figure how to, or just trial and error.

 

[Yerberito]

Yes, it's an incel trait