4chan warned me not to come here they said it'd ruin my life but i dont see how, i was already incelmind blackpilled, at least now i have a place with others to vent and shoot the shit expressing opinions that aren't allowed on the modern internet anymore. It is now current news that a majority of men are lonely, they're gonna end up here if they know about it.
Would like for them to elaborate how it would ruin your life... But I doubt they could.
You only become this "women hating obsessed blob" if you want to, or allow yourself to. There are active users here that either don't hate women at all, or have a nuanced feeling towards them. I came here with the position that I only hate women that give me a reason to hate them. I don't hate them by default at all. And I still hold to that position.
If they mean "You will go ER" or something, anyone that goes ER was mentally messed up to begin with... The shit people say here have literally nothing to do with it.
If they mean that this forum may take advantage or worsen your mental illnesses, speaking only for me, this didn't happen at all. It only gave a place where I can relate to people. Specially in regards to parental abuse.
And if they mean that this site will kill your drive and hope to ascend at some point, this site is the mercy kill many sub-5 men need.
Reality is nothing but painful.
Despite me spending 100% of my life being considerate, respectful, and pleasant to be around, I was still mercilessly bullied, mistreated, and have been completely invisible to women my whole life. Never got a kiss, never fell in love, never had sex, never got a hug (Besides family hugs)
This is the reality of sub-5 men. And this site made me not only accept it, but understand it.
People don't like negativity and unpleasant sounding things, but they don't stop being real, just because they sound unpleasant.