I get what you're saying. However, the problem that I have is that I don't really feel a motivation to do better for myself, because there's absolutely no reward at the end of it all. The guy in your video is approaching this not from an incel standpoint, but a normie/chadlite perspective. His needs are already met, an incel's needs are not. Notice his language about gfs and wives/ex-wives - it's so casual, it's like he assumes these things are easy to obtain or will just fall into your lap, and therefore not valuable from his point of view. Do you think his successes with women, which he undoubtedly has had, does not play a role in his motivation and vision beyond women? I refer you to Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
And why would you assume that the display of wealth would help an incel in any way? As I recall, a certain someone wrote a whole autobiography in 2014 detailing his failures with women, despite having a nice car, fancy clothes, and a family which presented a facade of moderate wealth. Somehow, I think someone with the appearance of BlackOps2cel in the same car that the guy in the video has would not have nearly the same success.