Obviously if you are coming into a forum full of lonely depressed virgins there is going to be an amount of defeatism and self hate, which is perfectly acceptable considering your situation. However, I want to make the case that too much of this is a bad thing, and there are reminders of this all around us. Once your hatred of society and the people who have put you in your situation (Your parents, society, females, etc) are replaced by all self hatred, that is when things start getting bad. Look at the self hating incels we see in Incels Without Hate. They are nothing but chad and foid worshippers in the moderation and a majority of the userbase. This is a reminder of what incels.co can end up being if self defeatist "nobody is to blame but me" mentality takes over.
With that being said this isn't a self improvement thread or me telling you to self improve or to stop being hopeless, but I am saying that these feelings in overwhelming capacity are bad. Feeling self defeat is natural but when you have too much of it there becomes an issue.
Another reminder of this are incels on looksmax. There are many (Not all) incels on that forum who are 1/10 or whatever PSL which is 3/10 I believe or 2.5/10 in normie scales. These incels are hideous yet have chad as their avi and post chad webms. This is because they are so defeatist their self defeatism has turned themselves into a worshipper. They do not hate chad for putting them in their spot even though you should, and instead worship him, blindly following societal direction. They have let their self hate consume them.
Remember that although you are genetic trash and an outcast, even if you are .1/10 true true truecel there is still blame to be put on others and society, and not just you. It is ridiculous to hate only yourself for your inceldom and blame only yourself, and if you have this mentality and it shapes your personality and who you are you will become a chad or female worshipper. Self hate overflowing will lead you to becoming the incel version of an uncle tom.
With that being said this isn't a self improvement thread or me telling you to self improve or to stop being hopeless, but I am saying that these feelings in overwhelming capacity are bad. Feeling self defeat is natural but when you have too much of it there becomes an issue.
Another reminder of this are incels on looksmax. There are many (Not all) incels on that forum who are 1/10 or whatever PSL which is 3/10 I believe or 2.5/10 in normie scales. These incels are hideous yet have chad as their avi and post chad webms. This is because they are so defeatist their self defeatism has turned themselves into a worshipper. They do not hate chad for putting them in their spot even though you should, and instead worship him, blindly following societal direction. They have let their self hate consume them.
Remember that although you are genetic trash and an outcast, even if you are .1/10 true true truecel there is still blame to be put on others and society, and not just you. It is ridiculous to hate only yourself for your inceldom and blame only yourself, and if you have this mentality and it shapes your personality and who you are you will become a chad or female worshipper. Self hate overflowing will lead you to becoming the incel version of an uncle tom.
