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This was during one of my "on-the-street" cold approaches when i was alone. Now most women are taller than me without my lifts on but today I actually had them on which boosted me from 5 foot 1 to 5 foot 4.
Anyways, there was this one girl who appeared to be about 4 foot 11 and she was sitting alone at the Mall where I was approaching.She was an Asian girl that had black hair, a really cute face, and she was sitting alone in the food court.
I thought, "Wow, this is my chance, she's shorter than me, cute, we're the same race so that will help me alot, and she's sitting alone." I was also feeling especially confident because I was much taller than I usually was because of my lifts.
So, I walked up to her and started chatting to her about her day. The typical PUA line is to go up and say hi, introduce yourself, and then start chatting to her about things she enjoys. So, I began and I thought that I would be really nervous and start messing up and my voice would start quivering, but it actually ended up working really well. My voice sounded confident and was clear, and there were no awkward gaps (well as confident as a balding, Asian manlet can sound).
She also seemed engaged with what I was saying. She didn't look down awkwardly or check her phone. We held eye contact well too. Anyways, I asked her if we could exchange numbers and maybe get lunch sometime.
The way I said it (and this is gonna sound really neurotic) was very clear and confident. There's a term for it in PUA which is like alpha mode or focus mode which is when your gameplan, your swagger, and all of the elements of the approach come together in a really coherent way. Anyways, I was definitely in focus mode.
I shit you not, as soon as I said that, her 6 foot tall, white, 8/10 boyfriend came out of the Verizon store (for some reason they had a Verizon store in the food court). My heart sank. She obviously declined the lunch, but she did give me her number and I figured "Hey, maybe, she'll break up with this guy in the future."
So I texted her when I got home, and the number was fake. It was some company or something.
This approach really fucking destroyed me. I didn't do PUA for a few weeks after that from the depression.
It made me want to kill myself so bad. I don't think I ever recovered from it either.
Anyways, I have like a few hundred more of these. Some of them are funny, some of them are sad. I will write one a day or try to atleast
Anyways, there was this one girl who appeared to be about 4 foot 11 and she was sitting alone at the Mall where I was approaching.She was an Asian girl that had black hair, a really cute face, and she was sitting alone in the food court.
I thought, "Wow, this is my chance, she's shorter than me, cute, we're the same race so that will help me alot, and she's sitting alone." I was also feeling especially confident because I was much taller than I usually was because of my lifts.
So, I walked up to her and started chatting to her about her day. The typical PUA line is to go up and say hi, introduce yourself, and then start chatting to her about things she enjoys. So, I began and I thought that I would be really nervous and start messing up and my voice would start quivering, but it actually ended up working really well. My voice sounded confident and was clear, and there were no awkward gaps (well as confident as a balding, Asian manlet can sound).
She also seemed engaged with what I was saying. She didn't look down awkwardly or check her phone. We held eye contact well too. Anyways, I asked her if we could exchange numbers and maybe get lunch sometime.
The way I said it (and this is gonna sound really neurotic) was very clear and confident. There's a term for it in PUA which is like alpha mode or focus mode which is when your gameplan, your swagger, and all of the elements of the approach come together in a really coherent way. Anyways, I was definitely in focus mode.
I shit you not, as soon as I said that, her 6 foot tall, white, 8/10 boyfriend came out of the Verizon store (for some reason they had a Verizon store in the food court). My heart sank. She obviously declined the lunch, but she did give me her number and I figured "Hey, maybe, she'll break up with this guy in the future."
So I texted her when I got home, and the number was fake. It was some company or something.
This approach really fucking destroyed me. I didn't do PUA for a few weeks after that from the depression.
It made me want to kill myself so bad. I don't think I ever recovered from it either.
Anyways, I have like a few hundred more of these. Some of them are funny, some of them are sad. I will write one a day or try to atleast
