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I am new to the topic, and just read into the red pill and PUA stuff.
PUA are everything but new, and red pill, in this context, refers to becoming, or playing, a kind of dominant male. Blackpill, as I understand, is resignation and acceptance that red pill and PUA skills can not work for oneself. Both red and black pill stand for accepting reality about sexual relations, or at least something much closer to reality than delusional blue pill beliefs.
In my opinion, the red pill and pick-up guides can be utilized by people, who have at least a solid beta state, who have basic social skills and abilities to approach women. It is mainly about showing them tricks, and bringing them away from the nicer attitudes, towards bad boy behavior. For these people, it can be useful, but I think it needs more than reading some advice on the internet.
If you're on omega level, at the bottom of social and sexual hierarchies, just mocked and detested by everyone, it is absolutely useless to try to get women this way. Because pickup artistry requires basic social and emotional skills, which omegas don't have and can't acquire. Advertising PUA for omega males is basically quackery (if not also for everyone else).
What I believe is, that soft skills also depend on talent, on genetic disposition. Just like math, reading and writing, sports, artistic skills and craftsmanship. Or like the look. Being in society and not awkward, talking to women properly, self control in behavior and emotions can't be learned by everyone to the same extent. There is need for extensive soft skills, in order to practice PUA. While it is generally accepted that people can be dyslexic or dyscalculic, the legend is still widely believed that soft skills can be learned by everyone. But where? For hard skills, there is school, college, university. If one sucks at math in school, he can get a book later, and read it step by step, logically clear. But where to learn social and emotional skills? I don't know of any school for it. An omega person has to stay away from society, because it is hell. Once he gets out of the basement and away from the computer, life will be hell, with constant humiliation and harassment. Maybe in parts also because he unknowingly annoys or hurts others. But so many behaviors, which are not taught in any school class, are silently expected, as well as enough self control to stick to them. Even if they were taught, they would be incredibly hard, or impossible, to understand, learn and apply for many, because they don't have talent, just like a dyslexic has none for reading and writing. Autistic spectrum disorders are an accepted example, but similar low soft skills can occur in many ways.
So, while the red pill might work for a few, those who put the most hope in it, or PUA courses, will be most disappointed. One should know that, when limited by very low general social and other soft skills, it is a waste of money to invest in such courses.
PUA are everything but new, and red pill, in this context, refers to becoming, or playing, a kind of dominant male. Blackpill, as I understand, is resignation and acceptance that red pill and PUA skills can not work for oneself. Both red and black pill stand for accepting reality about sexual relations, or at least something much closer to reality than delusional blue pill beliefs.
In my opinion, the red pill and pick-up guides can be utilized by people, who have at least a solid beta state, who have basic social skills and abilities to approach women. It is mainly about showing them tricks, and bringing them away from the nicer attitudes, towards bad boy behavior. For these people, it can be useful, but I think it needs more than reading some advice on the internet.
If you're on omega level, at the bottom of social and sexual hierarchies, just mocked and detested by everyone, it is absolutely useless to try to get women this way. Because pickup artistry requires basic social and emotional skills, which omegas don't have and can't acquire. Advertising PUA for omega males is basically quackery (if not also for everyone else).
What I believe is, that soft skills also depend on talent, on genetic disposition. Just like math, reading and writing, sports, artistic skills and craftsmanship. Or like the look. Being in society and not awkward, talking to women properly, self control in behavior and emotions can't be learned by everyone to the same extent. There is need for extensive soft skills, in order to practice PUA. While it is generally accepted that people can be dyslexic or dyscalculic, the legend is still widely believed that soft skills can be learned by everyone. But where? For hard skills, there is school, college, university. If one sucks at math in school, he can get a book later, and read it step by step, logically clear. But where to learn social and emotional skills? I don't know of any school for it. An omega person has to stay away from society, because it is hell. Once he gets out of the basement and away from the computer, life will be hell, with constant humiliation and harassment. Maybe in parts also because he unknowingly annoys or hurts others. But so many behaviors, which are not taught in any school class, are silently expected, as well as enough self control to stick to them. Even if they were taught, they would be incredibly hard, or impossible, to understand, learn and apply for many, because they don't have talent, just like a dyslexic has none for reading and writing. Autistic spectrum disorders are an accepted example, but similar low soft skills can occur in many ways.
So, while the red pill might work for a few, those who put the most hope in it, or PUA courses, will be most disappointed. One should know that, when limited by very low general social and other soft skills, it is a waste of money to invest in such courses.
