Venting Reddit is not ok

[TheGreatPepe]

I do not hate all women. I am not hateful.

Yes, I made some frustrated posts about my past experiences with women. I said some provocative things in those posts but honestly, it was just
hyperbolic and I do not mean half of those things.

It's the frustration and sadness talking.

Yes, maybe I made some small mistakes. But how can I know? Why am I expected to know everything at 19? I never had a girlfriend and don't know how to talk to girls. Because I never had a girl, how can I know?

What annoys me is the fact that I do not even have a place where I can talk about the fact that I am a loser in peace.

No, someone on Reddit will screenshot it and then they will laugh at me over there. And I am not even an extreme or hateful user.

Yes, I made some pissy posts but half of the stuff I say there I honestly don't even mean like that. It's just the frustration of my inability to attract even basic attention from women.

Like asking for a number "too soon". Fine. Maybe I asked too soon. But why didn't the girl just tell me and communicate with me? Why just block me? Am I supposed to know EVERYTHING about women at 19 with no experience? Apparently I am not allowed to have small fuck ups, because even a slight mistake results in a block without explanation.

Then I am supposed to read their minds and "just know better". Why? Why does the girl in question not just communicate and tell me "hey, I'd like to slow down and keep it on the app". Why am I supposed to know all of this? I have no idea.

Also, how could I ever truly know? What might be too soon for her might not be too soon for the next girl. I thought every girl was different?

Then I get frustrated because of the blocking and ignoring and lack of communication and end up posting something where I am clearly not in my best form due to frustration.

Then I get screenshotted so Reddit can laugh at me even more. Then they come up with stuff about me that's not even true. Apparently I sent dickpics, made disgusting audios and was rude and had an attitude "bleed through" during the text. (WHICH IS ALL NOT TRUE!)

Why do they come up with these mean accusations? I am frustrated because I have no success with girls, and the girls REFUSE to communicate and tell me what they need or want so I can be a good man for them. How is this fair or ok?

"HAHAHAH, fucking immature idiot, you were supposed to know. You don't know everything at 19 about how to talk to a girl, and you're not 100% perfect in your conversational or texting skills. You had a minor fuckup, misjudged the timing maybe a bit. Now you're Hitler himself and must be made fun of. You fucking disgusting incel loser, hahahahahahahah"

This is not ok.

I admit, this has gotten to me.

Genuinely, please stop.

 

[Roastie Crusher]

over for redditcels

 

[Grodd]

I do not hate all women.

Stopped reading here

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

Did read. Don't worry about inceltears they are just virtue signaling

 

[Todd Thundercock]

not ok

Stop listening to them. If you're attractive, anything you did would have worked.

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

If you give them an inch they will take a mile.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Don't worry about it man. Got told multiple times to kill myself by them. There rude fuckers and I don't have much if any sympathy left.

 

[Sungnodius]

Even worse, r/truevirgin got banned last year which was a place to post and feel accepted.

 

[TheGreatPepe]

Even worse, r/truevirgin got banned last year which was a place to post and feel accepted.

The problem is you get banned if you post something with even a hint of frustration. If you dare to criticize women even slightly you get banned. It's as if they can do no wrong and they're always right.

No one will admit their part of the fault. If asking too soon for her number was the problem, she could have just communicated that, like a mature person would do. Communication is key.

But no, you get blocked on the spot with no further explanation and then when you go on the forums to vent now you're the devil.

Why am I supposed to read their minds? Can't they just tell me if I do something wrong? Even if you want to learn, they don't want you to. They won't tell you. They'll just ignore you and block you.

Onlookers will just laugh at you and call you an idiot. That's real helpful.

Then they make up stuff about you. That you're hateful in general and that you're a harasser.

It's not fair. They see one small mistake and then add a bunch of accusations on top that aren't even true.

Why are people like this? The girls don't communicate and expect you to read minds, and if you have no experience and are a bit awkward you're immediately branded as a creep who must be made fun of for misjudging one minor thing.

Again, I'm not hateful. But this kind of shit is what turns good people into hateful individuals who have nothing to lose.