Every now and then I go outside and observe seemingly happy couples, which makes me falsely assume that most men and women are having regular sex with each other. I think that reality is far different from this perception.
Even within relationships, it isn't uncommon for the female to deny her partner sex, the frequency of which depends on the male's sexual market value. So while a moderately low SMV male may have a girlfriend, he is probably having a far from ideal sex life. Unenthuastic sex once a month is borderline incel, and although that would disqualify such a male from technically being an incel, there are much more of these types of men than those whom women genuinely desire.
If we look at inceldom as a spectrum, like how autism is, it would seem that the vast majority of men are coping somehow. The very few men who aren't coping, can get what they want at will.
Even within relationships, it isn't uncommon for the female to deny her partner sex, the frequency of which depends on the male's sexual market value. So while a moderately low SMV male may have a girlfriend, he is probably having a far from ideal sex life. Unenthuastic sex once a month is borderline incel, and although that would disqualify such a male from technically being an incel, there are much more of these types of men than those whom women genuinely desire.
If we look at inceldom as a spectrum, like how autism is, it would seem that the vast majority of men are coping somehow. The very few men who aren't coping, can get what they want at will.
