i posted a while back saying i don't wanna be stuck in my room all the time anymore and i will be limiting my time on incels, figuring out a way to leave inceldom. i think im up to a good idea right now but maybe someone here could give some feedback and pointers to improve on it, or i could motivate others to try some new stuff.
okay so as i said before im not a truecel like i was in highschool, and everyone knows im a mentalcel. biggest problem is not my looks anymore (i know im not 8+ chad but im a normie lanklet 5-6/10 lookswise)
my biggest problem is being awkward and autistic, also often getting rejected without even saying or doing anything. but multiple people have said it's not my face that's the problem so body language, lack of social circle, and autism seems to be the biggest issue now. in addition doesn't help to live in the CHADERLANDS where standards are ridiculous
this summer i will graduate uni but so far hunting for a job has been a huge joke (20+ rejections in so far)
my plan to leave inceldom was just to travel to asia but i dont think that will work, because i still won't have any social circle, i don't really classify getting sex with a 3rd world roastie from tinder leaving inceldom, it's not just about sex (else i could visit the redlight district any day). on top of that i will blow all of my money and not even have a job to fall back on at home
so i came up with this idea:
there are many hostels in Asia that have volunteering work available for internationals, where you can get free food and accomodation for 4 hours of work, 5 days per week. the team of people working there is a lot of similar aged and international minded people, and one of them that caught my eye is nearby one of the most famous beaches in that country. in addition they house a language cafe where you can do language exchange and meet locals and internationals, this would also be in a country I really like.
i think if i work there as a volunteer, the worst case will be just having a semi-vacation with paid accomodation and getting out of the house a bit. worst case i still won't make friends and get laid and dislike the location - in that case i can go home after a few weeks and that's it... not much money lost as my accomodation and stuff will have been paid for.
but in the best case, i can kind of get a social circle with the other volunteers and meet many people over there who are interested in learning english, or just travelling, and i can tag on to a group of normies and try to enjoy myself. in the best case i would even meet a girl there and have the time of my life. in an extremely good case i would like it that much, and i can build a social circle there, that i can get contacts over there and find a job for myself to live there more permanently.
so thats the plan now, i think i can find a few of those kind of opportunities and apply, im sure there should be atleast ONE that accepts me, its volunteering work ffs...
okay so as i said before im not a truecel like i was in highschool, and everyone knows im a mentalcel. biggest problem is not my looks anymore (i know im not 8+ chad but im a normie lanklet 5-6/10 lookswise)
my biggest problem is being awkward and autistic, also often getting rejected without even saying or doing anything. but multiple people have said it's not my face that's the problem so body language, lack of social circle, and autism seems to be the biggest issue now. in addition doesn't help to live in the CHADERLANDS where standards are ridiculous
this summer i will graduate uni but so far hunting for a job has been a huge joke (20+ rejections in so far)
my plan to leave inceldom was just to travel to asia but i dont think that will work, because i still won't have any social circle, i don't really classify getting sex with a 3rd world roastie from tinder leaving inceldom, it's not just about sex (else i could visit the redlight district any day). on top of that i will blow all of my money and not even have a job to fall back on at home
so i came up with this idea:
there are many hostels in Asia that have volunteering work available for internationals, where you can get free food and accomodation for 4 hours of work, 5 days per week. the team of people working there is a lot of similar aged and international minded people, and one of them that caught my eye is nearby one of the most famous beaches in that country. in addition they house a language cafe where you can do language exchange and meet locals and internationals, this would also be in a country I really like.
i think if i work there as a volunteer, the worst case will be just having a semi-vacation with paid accomodation and getting out of the house a bit. worst case i still won't make friends and get laid and dislike the location - in that case i can go home after a few weeks and that's it... not much money lost as my accomodation and stuff will have been paid for.
but in the best case, i can kind of get a social circle with the other volunteers and meet many people over there who are interested in learning english, or just travelling, and i can tag on to a group of normies and try to enjoy myself. in the best case i would even meet a girl there and have the time of my life. in an extremely good case i would like it that much, and i can build a social circle there, that i can get contacts over there and find a job for myself to live there more permanently.
so thats the plan now, i think i can find a few of those kind of opportunities and apply, im sure there should be atleast ONE that accepts me, its volunteering work ffs...
