The insignificance of rape is validated by the fact that "don't drop the soap" jokes are completely normal. Only when a rape joke involves women, everyone is offended. Rape as a crime is nothing serious, it's just fucking sex and doesn't cause lasting physical harm, it's no more serious than a bully locking an incel in the locker. Only because people love women so fucking much is rape taken seriously.
And let's not ignore the fact that most of us would rather get raped up the ass (nevermind that's even worse than vaginal rape since it's more painful) than go to prison to 5-10 years, which is the average sentence for rape. Completely overblown.